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For example, mine is that I love watching Antiques Roadshow.

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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Antiques Roadshow is absolutely amazing. It's fascinating to see some of the old things people happen to have.

Anyways, I'm at the point where I'm rewatching a bunch of old shows and cartoons I watched growing up, either through reruns or actually seeing. Mostly reruns, like how I'm currently on season 1 of The Golden Girls, a show I second hand absorbed to the point it's one of my all time favorite live action shows period. I hope when I get old I can be a male version of Sophia.

Also, I don't need a "smart" TV. If it can handle HDMI cables, that's good enough for me. I've been thinking if I ever have to upgrade monitors or get my own "smart" TV, that I'll purposefully break warranty to crack it open to remove any form of camera/microphone and remove anything that allows the device to connect to the Internet, Wi-Fi, or cellular data, or whatever else there is.

[–] PodPerson@lemmy.zip 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

How it’s Made.

And get off my lawn.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 hours ago

I don't know if they still make episodes of How It's Made, but that show was amazing. Sure some things, like their episode on computers, are definitely outdated, but it's still a cool thing to see regardless.

[–] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

If it isn't done by 10:00 am then it isn't getting done.

[–] Gerula@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

My age 😁

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

I'm ready for the sweet embrace of eternal slumber.

[–] truite@jlai.lu 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Arthritis, so I can predict rain with my knees.

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I have several joint damaging injuries. I've broken my ankle, torn the cartilage in my knee, and dislocated my shoulder fourteen times - and not only are those only the joint injuries, but only those that have required surgery.

Last year, during a change of seasons, I was visiting a local diner for a takeout order and asked if they minded if I sat down to wait for my order, explaining that I was a damaged individual. They, of course, acquiesced, but then the owner of the venue asked if I noticed more pain during inclement weather.

That was the first time over about thirty years of owies that I realized my pain might be correlated with barometric pressure.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

I have opinions on my lawn and your proximity to it.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My old person trait is being 72.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

You! The only person on Lemmy older than me!

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I love shoehorns and sneeze loudly.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 1 points 22 hours ago

Didn't realise these were old person traits but then these are also mine.

Involuntary groans whenever I sit down or stand up.

I try like hell to avoid shopping at peak times. Before Covid, I could shop at 2am, but now I'm one of the oldsters waiting for the place to open at 7 or 8am.

I also like Antiques Roadshow, but only the American version. I don't give two shits about your mums tea set that was signed by the Queen's dog-wrangler that you paid 50 quid for that's now worth 200 pounds.

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I have never purchased a smartphone and don't want one. I still prefer to use a flip phone. Their quality has improved over the years so I haven't been forced to switch yet.

[–] ramscoop@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

70+ and mine is playing world of warcraft.

[–] Masamune@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

How is the WoW community these days? I played A LOT back in the day but stopped about 8 years ago. Have you played for a while? It crosses my mind every so often, just curious.

[–] Oaksey@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When out eating and drinking, my preference is to go and order food and drink at the counter/bar, rather than install some app or give a website all my personal information before I can order.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

What? This is a thing at restaurants now?

[–] Nikls94@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like to go to bed at 9/10 and wake up at 4/6

[–] nomy@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 hours ago

The older I get the earlier my bedtime/alarm gets.

My old person trait is my knees.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 11 points 1 day ago

I avoid going out during busy times - e.g., rush hour, school zones, restaurants on a Friday or Saturday night.

[–] lone_faerie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I refuse to scan a qr code for a menu. Give me a damn piece of paper

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 day ago

This irritates the hell out of me, especially after those malicious link hijacks in the news recently. I'd accept a url before a qr code.

[–] Theprogressivist@lemmy.world 71 points 2 days ago (9 children)
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[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I primarily write in cursive.

[–] Technoworcester@feddit.uk 1 points 10 hours ago

Other people don't? Why are other people writing like children?

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[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 56 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I've started noticing birds, and worse, I've started recognizing them.

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[–] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago

I have a drawer in the garage titled "uncle solutions", it has a collection of rusted wire, bits of electric wire and similar shit for "quick fixes". I also just bought me and my SO nordic walking sticks, we still need to get matching trekking suits. Oh and I dream about retiring to a remote cottage and growing my own veggies like proper siberian babushka.

[–] humanoidchaos@lemmy.cif.su 14 points 1 day ago

I genuinely hate new things and most change at this point.

I don't think it's me getting old. I think I was raised differently than most of my peers and exposed to how previous generations actually fought for their rights instead of rolling over and taking it up the ass.

Most of my peers are dumb as shit and have no concept of how much businessmen are taking advantage of them. If someone tells them to buy something, they'll buy it.

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Neuropathy. Weeeee /s

[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I refuse to use TikTok, Instagram, WhatsApp, etc. I only have Facebook because 90% of my friends and family are there and it's the primary way I stay in touch with them, but I'd like to get rid of that too.

Regarding TikTok, I was serving in the US military as an IT sysadmin when it became popular. But we discovered that the app embedded itself deep in your phone's hardware, granted itself full administrative access to your phone, then started trickling all your data to servers in China. And you couldn't fully uninstall it once you'd installed it once. Your phone was completely compromised if you ever installed that app.

It became a huge security risk and we were told to never use it. It was a horrifyingly effective spy tool China could use to easily collect data on us. That's why President Biden pushed to ban TikTok in the US.

But of course, TikTok became super popular among our civilian population and they refused to give it up, which led to a lot of pushback against the ban. It never held, and now people are still using it and sharing all their private information with China.

Meta does something similar with Facebook/Instagram/Whatsapp, but we at least can keep tabs on what they're doing with your private data, since they're an American company. They mostly use your information to build advertising profiles on you, to better catch your attention with ads. But that information could easily be used against you if federal organizations wanted to. ICE could use it to identify non-white Americans and their daily habits and easily intercept them.

Still, if you don't want your private information being potentially stolen by these companies, it's best to dump these programs. I don't install them on my phone or tablet and I keep Facebook's website isolated on my computer, since it likes to read other open windows and use those sites to fine-tune advertising data for you.

Google has turned into one of these companies that collects data on everything you do, so I'm in the middle of de-Googling my life right now. But it's really hard because they're embedded everywhere.

We're living in a dark time where the only way to prevent corporations and governments from collecting information on you is to stay offline. Which is nearly impossible nowadays. We don't get privacy in this modern Information Age. Not while Capitalism is still a thing.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yep, I am like this too.

How do you effectively promote spyware?

Make it addictive like a drug, make it a core element of common culture, and most importantly, make it have some kind of socializing network effect that generates a knee jerk disgust in normies when anyone dares to question its widespread and regular use.

It is extremely funny to me when someone asks me to install say discord or insta or whatsapp, and I say I don't use them for security and privacy reasons...

Then I ask them to install signal, and they say 'I'm not going to install a whole app just for you.'

Apparently entirely unaware of, oblivious that they literally just asked me to do that.

whooooosh

Then they get angry and begin to babble on about some kind of idiot nonsense about how either I don't know how to do digital security or how its just impossible so why try, or both.

If I mention that I literally did handle PII in corporate databases and thus do actually understand a decent chunk of cybersecurity...

They tend to become emotional and defensive.

Try to explain anything in detail to them and they have a bunch of sophomoric / dunning krueger instant retorts and thought terminating cliches, because they don't want to listen or possibly learn anything, they want to justify their digital drug addiction.

Oh well, works as an idiot filter for me.

Suffer no fools.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

that's gonna need to be sourced.

is tiktok really exploiting phones to root them, then covertly installing itself "deep in your hardware"?

[–] egrets@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

When you install TikTok, it fabricates its own independent SoC within your phone. Sometimes you can tell because the case bulges slightly, but it depends on the model.

This isn't strictly forbidden by Android and iOS APIs (yet), but there are limitations – this most notably affects the capacitors on the new SoC which degrade quickly and can make a faint clicking noise, hence the name "TikTok".

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

I liked watching it more when I was younger. Honestly many of my old person traits might be introvert nerd stuff. Its kinda hard to tell the difference sometimes.

[–] khannie@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

I am incredibly difficult to buy gifts for because I have everything I want, which is not much at all.

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 39 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (11 children)

The streak of white in my beard?

The fact that 75% of my media consumption is things I've already seen before?

I can maintain eye contact in a conversation and at no point do I want to fuck/fight the other person nor do I believe they want to fuck/fight me?

I can maintain friendships with people who do not share all of my views on things, with a select view even having opposing views?

Comfort wins over style every time, with zero exceptions?

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[–] python@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm always up to date on the grocery store sales in my area and when there's something especially good on sale I will show up at the store when it opens at 7:30.

[–] porksnort@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 day ago

“Good morning, sir! We open at 8am.”

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I love an early supper.

&

I putter in the garden.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

Some part of my body always hurts. Mostly back, intestines, and joints, but these feet of mine have been finding their footing in this game lately too. Life is pain ;(

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