RBWells

joined 2 years ago
[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 39 minutes ago

Oh powerlifting, and I wouldn't be competitive. Just lift whatever I could, and lose the competition, forever. I guess that's amateur though? Hmm.

I cannot imagine anyone paying me to play any sport at all.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I commute on electric bike, literally work at a participation endurance sport company and have only gotten gentle teasing, no hate from the hardcore bikers. I tell them I literally hate riding a bike and that this one cost less than their racing bike, and I am comfortable on it, so use it for grocery shopping and stuff like that.

There is not enough infrastructure for bikes. I am careful and polite, if I have to take the sidewalk I get off and walk around pedestrians, walk it across intersections. If I'm in the road I wait for a big break in traffic or periodically get off the road so cars can pass (there is no bike lane going to work). I see bikers weaving through traffic and understand the frustration drivers have. And have had cars make illegal left turns almost into me and understand bikers being frustrated too.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

Competence and intelligence are attractive, you aren't elitist, that is so reasonable. Not saying there's nothing wrong with you, I don't know you. But wanting someone competent that you can talk to, that is a normal thing to need.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It is newer, with a terrifying metal dough hook that looks like a sadist's implement and a 1/2 speed setting. I do sourdough not dry yeast breads, and usually let it run on the slow speed for a couple minutes, rest, then on 2 for about 5 minutes or so, longer if all whole grain. (Then dump into a bowl, rest, stretch, evaluate if it needs another round or two of stretch and rest before bulk rise.) What I like is that or doesn't struggle at all with that mass of dough. I have run it for over 10 minutes making brioche (it takes time to incorporate the butter) and it stays cool and comfortable.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Dishwasher for us, though the powder detergent suggestion absolutely did not work, big degradation in the results for us, went back to the orange pod things. Too many people and almost never eat out, so much cooking.

When it broke I had to fill a sink with hot soapy water (luckily ours is double) and everyone parked their dishes in there, scrubbed but left the water dirty, poured boiling water in occasionally to keep it warm and at the end of the day drain the water, rinse and dry. It worked and the easiest way I could manage but wasteful compared to dishwasher.

I never had one before living with my husband, and always hated washing dishes. Used to buy paper plates and bowls because with a big family and a job it was just too much, nobody wanted to do so many dishes.

Some things a dishwasher does not clean off the dishes. Avocado, eggs. And it doesn't work if you let them sit too long. But in general it does a good job and saves time and effort.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I couldn't stand the bread machine, it was like Schrodinger's box. Put in measured ingredients. Will it be a brick? Will it be a bread? No idea until you open it.

I have to see the dough, feel the dough, be able to adjust the timing, give it an extra stretch if needed or an extra hour rest or go faster if it's ready ahead of schedule.

With bread machine, 35% success, ugly bread

Hands and a bowl, and a pan? 95% success (never gets to 100%) and gorgeous bread.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Literal Gadget, the big KitchenAid mixer. I got one that can handle my 2 kilo of sourdough dough, it's glorious.

MVP? The iron skillets, hands down. If I had to build a kitchen out of fewer than 10 items the medium and oldest one would be first on that list.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Go for it then! I was just thinking smoking pot wasn't going to help you with nutrition. But you are right, it would have fats and protein in the seeds. Or could provide income.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I bike to work and walk to anything close (have electric bike so that is my 1-6 mile ride usually, and under a mile I use my feet.). Also go for a Pokemon Go walk often, not to go anywhere. Or walk the dogs if husband can't. A Run though, that I only do for exercise, and not if I can avoid it.

Car, I have one but my kid takes it to university so I don't usually get to drive it. And I do prefer moving at a human pace, and not having to park the car.

ETA you asked about car-centric and yes oh yes my city is exactly that. Which is why I worry about getting run over.

And another add - I do kind of get where you are coming from - I can't let go of thinking without enough to focus on but not too much. That is why I loved Jazzercise, not kidding. Exactly the right amount of paying attention that I could achieve "flow" and just dance, following so I didn't have to think, not so complex I had to think, but complex enough I didn't think about anything else. Running was SO boring. Real dance class too complex. Going out to dance, have to decide how to move. But to stop thinking here while moving around town is hazardous as fuck.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Beans & rice would be my choice, and grow some greens (not marijuana. Collard greens, mustard greens, kale greens). If you can afford some onions, garlic, canned or fresh tomatoes, and spices, you are going to do fine. Cilantro grows in the winter here, basil in the summer.

Because flavor is important to me. If it was just for a week, I can do water and a bottle of electrolytes for like $5 total, not eat at all, but if it's an ongoing situation I would need to enjoy the food at least enough to eat it.

With enough of a runway, buy one potato (if you are in the cold) or sweet potato (if you are in the heat) and plant it, those are not difficult to grow, don't need fertilizer or anything. I do the Stokes Purple ones down here.

So yeah, I would buy beans and rice (and oil or nuts of some sort, can't get around that, body needs fats). and try to grow some veggies to make it complete, if going for the lowest cost most healthy diet.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I don't use a proofing oven, or rely on consistent temperature, even now but it does mean I'm sitting here at midnight baking the rye so it can cool overnight because it wasn't ready to bake earlier so yeah even here in the subtropics I notice the difference in the winter, bread is slower to rise.

I had friends who moved to the bush and built a clay oven and they said all they could successfully bake was popovers because the oven started hot then cooled off, there was no way to keep it constant.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Jump for my love by the Pointer sisters? That has the super high pitched yoo oo oo at the end (that honestly kind of ruins it) and bouncy dancy lady singing song

 

My goodness. I've heard this song before, but didn't realize what a tragic and influential artist this guy was.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackson_C._Frank

 

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The moderator hasn't logged in in a year. It's sleepy but not dead.

 

I am enjoying this series so much. We are only 2 episodes in and it's just so creative. Only watching one a week as I understand it's sort of depressing but it is gorgeous.

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by RBWells@lemmy.world to c/curlyhair@lemmy.world
 

So sometimes my hair looks about how I want it, and I don't really want to disrupt it by scrunching. In this example I was happy with the crunchy result in terms of shape but IRL it did look kinda stringy. So instead of flipping and squishing it to break the cast, or leaving it alone to naturally soften, praying hands smoothed down the hair and rub at the roots released just enough of the stiffness without inducing more disorder than I was ready for.

Just a general tip - even though the phrase is "scrunch out the crunch" you can twist out the crunch or smooth out the crunch to leave the ends more defined and a calmer look.

(ETA: also shows that wavy hair can 'curl' from the root - that was one of the bizarre claims I saw on r/curlyhair, that curls always start at roots and waves always have straight roots. This person was classifying someone I'd have called at 3b as wavy because her curls started partway down the hair. Discussion got oddly heated. Root curl is independent of curl shape for sure.)

 

I love Neal Asher's books, found him a long time ago in one of those "year's best" collections of short stories from the library (though the ones with fantasy and horror were always the best, I think I read every single collection for every year and found so many good writers that way.)

They are full of action, good characters and worlds and ideas, sweeping and huge settings. Feels almost more like watching a movie to read them.

Who among us likes these action packed stories?

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by RBWells@lemmy.world to c/sciencefiction@lemmy.world
 

Since there's a Manga thread, what other comics do you like?

I read a lot of comics (after they are collected into graphic novels, need a season at a time to enjoy them) & loved:

Black Science

Paper Girls

Saga

Transmetropolitan

ETA - Atomic Robo, how could I forget Atomic Robo. That series is fantastic.

 

The enormous ponytail! I noticed it in a zoom call for work, it was a big round puff in the camera but when I got a better view it's just waves on waves.

 

What is your summer routine, products and process?

I have thick coarse loosely but stubbornly curly hair (around 2c), mostly low porosity and having good success with:

Malibu C hard water shampoo

Innersense Hydrating Cream Conditioner (raked through in sections working up from nape, mostly left in, just a gentle rinse of the roots)

Jessicurl confident coils & Davines serum raked into sections, very wet hair (4 sections, each gets one pump of the lotion and one drop of the serum, mixed)

Squelch squelch scrunch then blot with a cloth. Sometimes wrap it in a plop arrangement, trying not to stretch it out.

Then Ouidad Climate Control Extreme gel. Patted through the length, and scrunched into the ends. Then if I have time, air dry an hour before diffusing. If I don't have time, hair dryer on high without diffuser for 5 minutes trying not to let it move around too much, then a quick scrunch with the diffuser on. It doesn't get all the way dry but any time with hair dryer cuts overall dry time by hours.

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