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Especially teens and college students

Source: i'm a college student

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[–] diptchip@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I don’t see it as a status symbol. Hate is a strong word… I could describe the process I go through just to save a jpeg, but I don’t have the patience. It’s simply the cheapest phone that I consider secure.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I'm a college student and I don't feel this way at all. Maybe you'll get some quick jokes about being a poor Android user sometimes but it's mostly playful.

I convinced my college friend to try out Android and he likes his moto flip fold phone now.

Apple has cleverly made their phones a luxury symbol. In 2014, Apple hired the CEO of Burberry, Angela Ahrendts to be their Vice President. I believe this was the period when their Apple stores got a huge revamp to look all clean and minimalistic.

But in general, I don't think anybody really gives a shit. Even less so the ones ones who actually know about technology.

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 2 points 2 hours ago

Only poor people think a phone is a sign of wealth

[–] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

I don’t. I just use the phone because it works well with my laptop. My previous one was all banged up and scratched, so I wouldn’t really call it a status symbol.

I don’t really care about status though. My friends are a bunch of misfits. If it bothers you that people are using something as a status symbol, perhaps you’re more concerned about status than you realize. I’d love to just advise you to stop caring about that but it’s not that easy. Status seeking is a pretty common, normal behaviour.

[–] ruuster13@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

It’s just a phone? I’d have an android or fairphone if my job didn’t have apple devices and apps I use all the time. Just makes sense to not need two sets of a lot of things.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 6 hours ago

Cuz they're overpriced? More money = More "exclusive."

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Once something becomes statusy, is seems pretty rare that it ever stops. You can't outcompete Apple at being Apple, and to stay exclusive they can just keep prices up.

It genuinely was revolutionary when it came out. I guess they managed to leverage that into being a luxury brand, when no further world-breaking innovations were forthcoming. The only thing those really have to worry about is staying relevant, as opposed to going the way of fine china and monocles.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 12 hours ago

I remember a friend of mine whining about how my text bubble was a different color and it "made it weird" to text because of that.

By then I was already super over the whole tribalistic iphone/android bs from people I know when it wasn't being meme'd on, so I just told her "you can either get over it, or we can stop talking and being friends"

Wouldn't you know it, the color of a text bubble isn't enough to end a friendship over.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 65 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Kids are like that. Most adults don’t care.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 16 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

Bullshit. Adults absolutely care. It's human nature to try to project your status in the social hierarchy. That takes different forms and may instead be projecting status with a Stanley flask or Canada Goose jacket, or whatever.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 19 points 16 hours ago

Most adults don’t use their iphones as status symbols. Look at 10 random adults iphones and over 9 of them will be damaged.

I’ve managed iphones for hundreds of people and only encountered a few that care at all.

BlackBerry holdovers would be a different discussion though.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Those aren't adults. Those are geriatric children.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Soooo, adults?

Don't pretend we've ever been better than that as a species. The exact form it takes changes (who does ermine fur anymore?) but the idea stays the same.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Don't pretend we've ever been better than that as a species.

Will you make the argument that people who refuse to follow such fashion trends are somehow inhuman?

If you are unwilling to make such an argument, I will not accept your premise that this is a trait of the "species".

What you (and the parent comment) are describing is a characteristic of certain childish behaviors, philosophies and cultures.

The sophomoric behavior of these geriatric children is not an indictment of humanity in general.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

More like, most common allele within the species.

What's the culture where people don't covet meaningless status symbols? Even hunter gatherer cultures have generated examples, and they can't own much more than they can carry.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 points 2 hours ago

What's the culture where people don't covet meaningless status symbols?

While there are numerous examples of such philosophies and cultures around the globe, I don't actually need to identify such a culture to demonstrate my point.

If one can remain human without engaging in this behavior, this behavior is not a characteristic of the human condition.

The question before you is whether the members of such a hypothetical culture are inhuman specifically because they do not engage in that covetous behavior.

The abhorrent behaviors being described are conditions of ideas held by certain members of the species. The species is not lessened by the rejection of such ideas. The "certain members" are lessened by their adherence to those ideas.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I may consider "many adults"... I still get grief about it from older adults (I'm talking people in their 40's and older). Though either of us could be correct.

These are people who can't be bothered with how things work, but... are amazing at what they do. So it's an interesting circumstance to observe, and I haven't come to any strong conclusions.

[–] everett@lemmy.ml 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Those adults might still be children.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 2 points 12 hours ago

Ah, no true ~~scottsman~~ adult, then.

[–] alecsargent@lemmy.zip 6 points 15 hours ago

I disagree, kids are taught by adults, so whatever they are learning its from their teachers and families. In my experience I have seen more adults give a status symbols to Apple products than children.

[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 29 points 16 hours ago

I see my deGoogled Android device as a higher status symbol than any overpriced stock Apple device.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 12 points 14 hours ago

Cheapest iPhone is $600, cheapest android phone can go as low as $20 (like those walmart prepaid phones locked to a carrier).

When the average person think of android, instead of thinking about a flagship samsung phone, they think of the lowest budget phone.

So in their mind, if you have android, you're automatically categorized as "poor"/"cheap", regardless how much it actually costs.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 39 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

.. is there ever any logic to what people think are status symbols?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 14 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

My labubu bandolier says there is.

[–] ChetManly@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

labubu

What the hell is that? Are beanie babies popular again?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

Pretty much, yeah.

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[–] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 12 points 14 hours ago

Because they paid a lot of money for them and they need to convince themselves that it was worth the cost.

[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 36 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

That is how they market their products.

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago

And those demographics are very susceptible to marketing and peer pressure. The chat bubble colors are designed to make you think of alternative phone users as outcasts. Used to be the same with photos and videos in MMS.

By your late 20s most people don't give a shit about being labeled outcast, but by then you're locked into their ecosystem.

[–] Death_Equity@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago

Tribalism didn't end when civilization started. Anyone not in the tribe is lesser, because the alternative would mean your tribe is lesser.

More specific to an iPhone, if you have one, you can do all the social iPhone things like FaceTime. Don't have one? You can't FaceTime, so there is a social friction or impediment to socializing. Then there is the "othering" of the green bubble and blue bubble thing. You can't share photos or videos the same if you don't have an iPhone. Since we are in a digital age and less physically present, not being able to digitally socialize the same way also inhibits socialization.

All of this is by design. Apple intentionally creates an ecosystem that will excert social pressure on people to buy their products so they can be part of the group like their friends.

[–] oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Wait people really give a shit? Never seen or heard about that

Source: I’m also a college student

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 2 points 8 hours ago

I see it frequently on tinder where women say to not bother when you don't own an iphone/ no android/ at least iphone xx

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago

Her iPhone is a status symbol to my wife. Filipinos are kinda weird about brand names as symbols, like they're living in the 80s.

[–] y0kai@anarchist.nexus 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

It used to be much worse. I remember being excluded from group chats in high school because of the color of the chat bubble for android was different or some shit lol

[–] ifItWasUpToMe@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago

You weren’t ousted because of the colour, that’s ridiculous. You were ousted because your phone didn’t support group chats with iPhones. Obviously still an Apple issue but it’s pretty stupid to claim it was because of the colour.

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[–] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 17 hours ago

Uh, I don’t. It’s just a phone I use. That’s it.

Teenagers and students are just that; teenagers and students. Very often they care about ‘status symbol’ but also sometimes they don’t care.

I would recommend to stop generalizing.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 7 points 16 hours ago

It’s not the phone, it’s your age bracket. You can say the same thing for other stuff like shoes/clothes, cars, etc. It’s peer/societal pressure, FOMO, and other factors that teenagers and young adults feel are important. People care less when they get older. My iphone is a utility device to me, and I’ll keep using it until it dies or security updates stop, instead of upgrading every year.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 6 points 17 hours ago

Why do you think they do? That’s not a thing in reality. That said, I don’t chat about mobile phones with a lot of college students at this point.

[–] mcbenavides85@piefed.social 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I think originally because they used to be only for AT&T customers and were the most expensive, then android started flooding the market with cheap shitty phones.

[–] wetbeardhairs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This is the real reason. The iphone was the original tablet-like smart phone and it was marketed as a premium offering and as a result has always enjoyed that status.

Android was second to market and a competitor to the iphone. Because every manufacturer wanted to make a tablet-like phone, they copied the iphone's style and made hundreds of shitty knockoffs over the years that effectively bolstered the iphone's premium status. Yes there are flagship android phones made by Samsung and LG that cost more than the most expensive iphone - but they are loaded with bloatware and bootlocked so you dont get updates and is held back by garbage so it works like shit in only a few years. So even the premium options are shit. The google pixels are good hardware but they're made by a company that makes every one of their trillions of pennies by spying on you.

[–] relativestranger@feddit.nl 4 points 14 hours ago

android phones made by Samsung and LG

LG hasn't made a phone in over four years.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 2 points 14 hours ago

they haven't outgrown being incredibly stupid and some never will.

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 17 hours ago

As a grown adult, I don’t care what people think about phone brands or multi billion/trillion companies when compared with more of the same. But it’s like sports teams. It doesn’t mean much but it can be fun with friendly rivalries. People who take it seriously though? Not to be taken serious.

I use one because I value privacy. I also have an Android phone from 2019 I like more for a few reasons. I like both. I also like both Xbox and Nintendo. And I don’t hate PlayStation. I don’t use Windows, I use Macs, but at work I’m unofficial IT, people come to the Mac user for help with Windows 10/11 because I know that too, it’s just not what I use at home. I still have like 30 years of experience with Windows. I also have a favorite (gridiron) football team. And I’ll tell you why they suck but I’ll never stop rooting for them. (Don’t have a favorite (association) football club.)

I think tribalism is for people who use things to identify themselves. When you stop doing that, tribalism starts to look dumb.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I see mine for what it is. A phone. And a serious threat to my privacy. (I'm well into my 50s, if this matters)

[–] YoSoySnekBoi@kbin.earth 4 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

If you're looking for privacy, I highly recommend (weirdly enough) a Google Pixel. With GrapheneOS it's way more secure and private than basically anything else on the market.

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