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Every account you ever had, every post/comment you ever posted, now has your real name, a photo of you, and your address, all just magically show up on the webpage right next to each of your posts/comments (also, no "hacking" could hide the info). All deleted posts/comments are magically restored and nothing you do (short of permanently shutting down the website and physical destruction of the servers) can delete them. (Any edits would still show every change you made.) How fucked are you?

And don't think about changing your name, or moving, all this info updates in real time. (for "magic" reason)

(You also cannot delete any future posts.)

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

Meh. Only the NSFW stuff I guess, but nothing that I wouldn't tell someone if they really wanted to know.

But I stay off Facebook because I'm not interested in having an online presence or profile, so I guess in the sense of suddenly being thrust into that world at all, not related to the content I've posted just the literal online presence - that would bother me more, and the threat of violence or crime from being more visible like that.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 3 points 20 hours ago

Meh. My real world would know what my digital world already knows, that I'm much more of a nerd than I portray myself as.

It's not because I purposefully hide it. It's because it's not a topic that is interesting to anyone in my real world circle of friends. I don't have real world friends who want to talk about Linux, and Open Source, and retro-video games, and all of the other stuff that I ramble on about online in forums where the peeps who understand me all hang out.

There's probably some very surprising porn habits in there as well that my real world friends and family would have NO CLUE about, but c'est la vie.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 50 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No one would notice or care… 1/10 🙂

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same. The most surprising thing might be that I even have accounts online. And that I love pictures of scrungy cats.

[–] popekingjoe@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I love pictures of scrungy cats.

Honestly, who doesn't?

[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 52 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I tend to enjoy being devil's advocate on controversial subjects so I'd score a 9/10 fucked through sheer misinterpretation

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[–] kava@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Not fucked. Of course I have some cringy stuff on MySpace from when I was in my early teens. But generally speaking, over the last two decades or so I don't post anything I wouldn't be OK with everyone finding out about

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Meh. A whole bunch of cringe posts from twenty years ago will show how much I've grown since I was 19. Some more recent arguments I got tired of will rear their ugly heads. But I generally try to be the same person online as offline, and that person isn't particularly controversial, at least around the circles I run in.

But there would be a lot of people who would be in bodily danger.

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Nobody cares about growth. Cancelled!

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

I'm not. My real, full name is already on certain web accounts right next to "Tattorack", which is the online handle I use everywhere.

Im not fucked because nobody gives a shit about me. If people actually start looking me up, it'll probably create the most traffic to my art pages I've ever had.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 41 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

My real name is so generic, even if I doxxed myself you wouldn't find me anywhere.

Everyone I know IRL already knows my online identity.

[–] Chozo@fedia.io 42 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've got you now, John Smith!

127.0. 0.1

Scared yet??!?

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 10 points 2 days ago

I worked with a John Smith who came from Chicago. He would joke about hiding from the mob. At least I think he was joking...

[–] TransplantedSconie@lemm.ee 35 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I spoiled a part of Infinity War back in the day, and I'd expect a 305 lb katana wielding fedora wearer to appear out of the shadows at my door. Those dudes were pissed and drunk me didn't even know I did it until the mod that banned me for a month pointed it out.

[–] verity_kindle@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You could take permanent sanctuary in a health food store or a gym.

[–] TransplantedSconie@lemm.ee 16 points 2 days ago

Yeah, but then I'll be in a health food store or a gym.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 11 points 2 days ago

you did WHAT

[–] Glasgow@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

Depends on the statute of limitations on drug trafficking I guess.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Noooo it was sooo difficult to find how to delete my Facebook account. With warnings like "people losing Facebook often loose their social life, are you really sure?". And now my nearly empty page is back you say? Cringe.

But I'm not fucked, I try to treat people online like I treat people in real life, like I want people to treat me. I'm not scared of a heated discussion but I prefer to stay civil. So if people want to look me up, that's fine, I make great coffee.

I only have issues with people who do not respect my boundaries so I prefer to keep them out of my life. But my mom already knows where I live, so still no harm done when my address is posted online.

[–] electric@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Whether or not I am anonymous does not change how/what I post. I also never delete any so nothing changes regarding that too. Cringe to be acting uncivil because you have a mask.

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

You should never post anything online that you wouldn't be comfortable shouting at the top of your lungs in the middle of your hometown.

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[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Ya'll are gonna have to travel pretty fucking far to fight me. Welcome to the Tundra.

[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Not all that much, as I already use my real name. I tend to only post things that I believe in, and I've never really been one to hide my feelings from people.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Embarrassed, but not fucked.

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[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Not very, unless the nazis I'm reminding people that every day is punch one of manage to wheezingly waddle up from the basement and attempt to do something about it despite my genes being more pure norse whitey aryan than they could ever dream of so attempts of me life would just be another proof of my superior intellectual reasoning to their simplistic racism tribalism.

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[–] skulblaka@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Let's go mfer. I said some cringy shit on Facebook when I was a teenager but I'll own up to em. Largely, I stand by my opinions, doesn't matter if my name is attached to them or not, I say what I feel and what I feel doesn't change based on whether I have a name tag on or not.

I might find myself suddenly on some governmental lists of some interest, especially considering how vocally I have been speaking out against our incoming government, but other than that? I wear my past with pride. I'll admit when I was wrong and stand by my opinions that still deserve them, and chuckle over some bad takes from the past, but I feel no shame in this arena.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's a reason why I post under my real name and never delete anything. Because your scenario has a high probability of really happening one way or another. That way I'm more conscious of the stuff I post.

A woman I know had an anonymous blog where she posted stuff about her kids without mentioning any names or showing any photos in an effort to protect them. My wife, who only knows her from her un-anonymised blog found that other blog and recognised her really quickly.

[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Yup, what people don't get about online privacy is that it's not about hiding things, but knowing what is exposed. If you voluntarily expose something on one account that might get tracked back to you.

[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I should be reasonably ok... I think. Sure, there were a few instances where I, uh... let the internet anonymity get to my head, and... used sarcasm. But it's past me, I swear. Reckless acts of a younger man.

[–] InnerScientist@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

But it's past me, I swear. Reckless acts of a younger man.

Yeah, it's crazy how much a person can change in 20 minutes.

[–] verity_kindle@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Ehhh, I would be shunned by 2 or 3 family members, which might be a net benefit. I hope the former Oklahoma governor's daughter doesn't come after me. I'm more scared of that waxen pale nepobaby more than anyone else. She's got the money and time to cause havoc, the others do not.

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[–] kalkulat@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

All that typing doesn't amount to a hill of beans in this crazy world. Someday you'll understand that.

[–] JWBananas@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just me? Or everyone, everywhere, all at once?

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[–] Presi300@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The only thing that would change is that people are gonna know I'm a bit less straight than I say that I am... Though I generally live life/post things, knowing it can never be deleted once it's posted on the internet so... Not much would change really.

[–] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I wish it was true that nothing can be truly deleted on the internet. The reality is so very much has been posted and long since lost. There are some things I wish I could find traces of, but are likely lost to the vastness of the internet. Of course, you should treat everything like it cannot be deleted, but the reality is many things can, and have been, entirely deleted.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lots of people have written fan-fiction worse than that!

I know I did. Brryuck

[–] OmegaSunkey@ani.social 7 points 2 days ago

doubt something would happen

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'd be fine. I've always been aware of the tenuous nature of being anonymous online.

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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago

Eh. I'm basically the same online as in person.

[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 7 points 2 days ago

Did you know you can get someone's address by typing in their email? Fuck data brokers. We need to outlaw their entire business model.

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Hm, I think I had a problematic username at one point as a dumb teen, but I like to think I'd just be a normal amount of embarassed.

[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

People will probably think I'm the most moderate right winger ever. But I'm really not. I just have hard opinions on things.

[–] Kitathalla@lemy.lol 8 points 2 days ago

I'm sure I'd be screwed. Just by the nature of the internet, someone in the various posts would find something that would enrage them enough to hunt me down and throw a cocktail at my house. Even if only one person in a million is insane and bent on revenge, overall I have enough posts that they'd come in contact with it. I'd for sure lose my job, since we have seen it happen on social media sites with folks' real names attached.

Luckily, most of the comments I've made have been on sites that have permanently shut down, so I would escape the worst of my years becoming public knowledge.

Now, if it wasn't just me, I'm sure I'd be lost in the relatively blase nature of my comments.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 6 points 2 days ago

I stand behind everything I've ever said. I've been posting for years with the mindset that what OP is describing will some day be reality. I might not be correct about everything but I've always been honest. I look forward to that day and all the hypocrites being exposed.

[–] maniii@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

And the most boring life of some random person. Even if you expose all the details either it will be slightly less than cringe or complete banality.

Who would ever want to read posts of some guy who works 9 to 5 job and does nothing weekends? For some 30 years???

Internet people are weird man.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 3 points 2 days ago

Based on real life experiences with having random guys try to hit on me, I'd probably get a lot of guys DMing me.

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