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[–] Concave1142@lemmy.world 207 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Just had to do this a few weeks ago. They have you taken a pic of your driver's license, provide your SSN & run a credit check on the spot. Then they charge you to tour the place.

A very "fuck you, I'm getting paid regardless" mentality from rental companies.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 57 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My wife and I were looking at realtors and one told us we would need to provide our credit card info to look at properties, and I just laughed and said "go fuck yourself" and hung up.

The only valid response, IMO.

The fact that people actually pay this shit is infuriating.

[–] Booboofinget@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago

I had someone actually try to get me to pay to see rental property well. Mine were a little mote greedy and wanted $30.

I told them I work too hard for my money to be handing it out like party favors.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 156 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] socialsecurity@piefed.social 41 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Last few months... Grifting has seriously accelerated

[–] SmackemWittadic@lemmy.world 32 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Companies have been accelerating their grifting at an alarming rate since the COVID days

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[–] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 95 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If they nickel and dime simple visitors like that, I can only imagine what they do to the people who actually rent the place.

[–] potpotato@lemmy.world 39 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If this weren’t such a huge red flag, I’d just knock on the door and pay the current tenant $5.

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[–] ook@discuss.tchncs.de 131 points 5 days ago (1 children)

But you suuuurely tip when you look at a rental?

[–] comrade_twisty@feddit.org 24 points 5 days ago (1 children)

There’s a 20% suggested tip on the $250 non refundable application deposit?

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[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 84 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

Rents are too high for a single income to cover anymore, so I’ve been looking for roommates. Even the websites about finding roommates expect you to pay.

To be clear, they have a free tier - but unless you pay, you can’t read the messages you receive. You can read the first line, but the rest is locked. I gave up with one place because the boomer trying to rent a room refused to send me an email. I told him three times to please just email me his message because I couldn’t read it on the site, but because he could read messages fine, he thought it was a setting he had to change. He kept responding with “Okay try now” and didn’t seem to understand that he can’t “settings” other people out from behind a paywall.

All he had to do was copy/paste his message and send it a different way, but he wouldn’t do it. I eventually gave up because the thought of living with someone that’s unable to follow such simple directions sounds like more trouble than it’s worth.

Anyway, point is, even if you’re so poor that you need to seek out roommates, you’re still expected to pay a subscription. I don’t even know what to do anymore.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 35 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Sounds like a market ready for disruption

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 17 points 5 days ago
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[–] Squizzy@lemmy.world 22 points 5 days ago (13 children)

If you were replying with an email address odds are he was not getting it due to the site actively trying to keep people on their site.

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[–] mrductape@eviltoast.org 66 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Just people making passive income guys, nothing to see here.

We once heard of a service that would help us find a rental house. So we went there, had to pay for an appointment. Turns out they do nothing you cannot do yourself, and you pay a lot. They literally just put you in the system, which you can do yourself, and when you get a house through that system, which is free and from the government, they make you pay through the nose for that house.

Of course, since I am native in this country I have no need for a service like that. Turns out they mostly do this to people who don't speak the language. I guess they offer a service, but their fees are excessive for what they do. They abuse the fact those people don't know any better.

There's lots of people making a profit from somebody else's house finding misery and I hate it.

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[–] devilish666@lemmy.world 85 points 5 days ago
[–] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago

agencies: "housing is just not unaffordable enough. I wonder what else we can do to contribute?"

[–] chowdertailz@lemmy.world 36 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Do the unlimited and have constant tours for all 30 days. Get friends to individually do the same. Pester the ever living fuck out of them.

[–] brem@sh.itjust.works 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

r/maliciouscompliance

Oops, bad habit.¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 61 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Hah what are you going to do, buy a house instead? We're all fucked once this is the norm.

[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago (10 children)

I don't know if this applies in the US but multiple people can take out a mortgage against the same property. If you have 3/4 trustworthy friends then you can pool your money to buy a place. It's complicated but better to invest your money in your own property than to line the pockets of cunt landlords and letting agents.

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 29 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

That would require people to have three to four close friends that could tolerate their presence. That's an exceedingly rare thing in the US as we're mostly all intolerable cunts.

[–] Gerudo@lemmy.zip 18 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Also, it would require every friend to have savings to put down a down payment and also credit good enough to actually qualify. That's on top of finding 3 or 4 friends you're willing to live with.

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[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 15 points 5 days ago (8 children)

And bam, new laws come out that makes it illegal for more than X people who aren't related to each other to share a home.

This is actually a thing in many places so people can't do what you just described, isn't American Freedumb so beautiful

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[–] brem@sh.itjust.works 26 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Nobody tell OP about rental application fees, they'll explode.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If we can get people to do it near landlords we might fix the system

[–] brem@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

.....or we could raise our children to not be landlords.

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[–] joyjoy@lemmy.zip 34 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Why would they sell/rent when they make so much money on tours?

[–] rozodru@lemmy.world 36 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I mean really just spruce up one unit, charge for tours, charge for applications, why even bother renting?

I mean places already charge just to submit an app.

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[–] BigDiction@lemmy.world 43 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This has gotta be some NYC shit

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 19 points 5 days ago (5 children)

In a region near me the rental market is 99.3% full.

Scumbag landlords charge $200 to view these horrid places no one will ever rent, and their job is showing people the place, one after another. It's only a half-dozen a day, but that's a good wage and there's no end of hopefuls. Apparently, needing a landlord to come out to show you the place is a "call-out", even if he's just upstairs.

Of course that's the "frbo" market; the rental companies can't get away with that yet. They wish, though.

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[–] Pudutr0n@feddit.cl 34 points 5 days ago

See, you pay us for the privilege of being considered as a candidate to pay us.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago

In some cases, arson is morally perfectly justifiable.

[–] SillyDude@lemmy.zip 27 points 5 days ago (4 children)

This is why I'll boondock until its completely illegal. Then if they don't force me into the gray pod then I'm going feral hobo until I die in a fight with a racoon over some berries.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 27 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I’m going feral hobo until I die in a fight with a racoon over some berries.

Stop, my brother! We are not enemies! There is enough berry for all, if we but put down our differences and turn our attention to the dreaded hording bourgeois!

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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 25 points 5 days ago

I want to shit down the neck stump of whoever came up with this

[–] haloduder@thelemmy.club 6 points 4 days ago

I don't even blame that at this point.

Useful idiots were always proud to pay for shit they could be getting for free, why would they all of a sudden get mad about it?

Remember to pay your netflix subscription instead of using free streaming sites that require no sign up, no credit card, and have more content.

[–] puchaczyk@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

Soon you'll have to buy a subscription to tour rental houses.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Why do we even need people to show us apartments. My best experience when looking for a my last apartment was a place that had a automated system, you scan your drivers license for verification, their app gives you the address and the time to visit, when you get there it gives you a lockbox code that will contain the keys to the apartment, you check the apartment out and return the keys to the lockbox on your way out, this should be the default for every rental apartment visit. Every agent I had to deal with was less than useful, this industry needs to die.

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[–] r00ty@kbin.life 21 points 5 days ago

So, I think a decade or so ago (maybe more), the bigger corpos went full mask off, and stopped even pretending they cared about anything but making more money. Screw the employees, screw the customer, screw the regulatory departments. Money only.

It seems this is filtering down to more and more businesses.

I am not sure how it is over there. Here in the UK the number of rental properties has dropped drastically. I suspect, it's because of a few changes legally here that make it not quite so lucrative to buy-to-let any more. In any case, rather than bring house prices down, it just made the rentals still on the market go up in price. As an example today for my postcode there are over 80 properties for sale (excluding retirement/shared properties) and only around 10 for rent with the same filters. It used to be closer to half the number of rental properties up until around 5 or so years ago.

If there's a seller's (well landlord's/renter's I guess) market, they could for sure make people pay to get an edge on gaining an increasingly rare rental. It's downright scummy. But, I expect nothing less any more.

[–] TragicNotCute@lemmy.world 16 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Well I need the 24/7 phone and chat support. What if I have a question about my ability to tour a property at 2am?

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