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I hate people who wear cold weather gear in warm/heated places

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[–] EnderMB@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

People that don't have kids that park in parent and child spaces.

It's almost always Tesla's and Audi's. In my utopia, it would be legal to destroy any car caught parking in these spaces that doesn't have a child or booster seat.

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 94 points 1 week ago (3 children)

People who use their turn signal AS THEY'RE TURNING. You asshole! You're supposed to do it a bit before you turn to let people know your intent. There's no point in signaling as you're turning because I CAN SEE YOU TURNING! Fuck!

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 14 points 1 week ago

And usually all the cars around them had to wait six years because they weren’t aware of the upcoming turn (busy intersections).

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[–] smaaauuug@lemmy.world 65 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Audio messages, I hate them with a passion. Sometimes I just refuse to listen to them. Can't search them for info, and why tf do you assume I can just stop my day to listen to this shit I don't have my goddamn headphones connected all the time, and I'm not about to put the phone to my ear for a full 5 minutes and no talk looking like a goddamn weirdo.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 18 points 1 week ago

I just ignore them completely. They don’t exist for me. Depending who it is, I can say “I didn’t have time to listen to it but next time if you text/message I can probably get back to it faster.”

[–] tychosmoose@lemm.ee 16 points 1 week ago

put the phone to my ear

Clearly you would look more normal if you blast it on the speaker while holding the phone in front of you, like everyone else. /s

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[–] Solumbran@lemmy.world 53 points 1 week ago (3 children)

People who get offended by a behaviour that doesn't affect them at all

[–] ch00f@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Better not lock eyes with Mr. Birthday Celebrations in this thread

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[–] lime@feddit.nu 43 points 1 week ago (2 children)

buildings with upward-facing spotlights, especially single-family homes with façade lights. it's like nobody cares about light pollution.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 18 points 1 week ago

I've been considering reporting streetlights that don't point straight down because they technically violate city codes.

[–] SHOW_ME_YOUR_ASSHOLE@lemm.ee 10 points 1 week ago

Oh shit I've always liked the way those looked. I thought they made the house look fancy but I never considered the light pollution.

[–] dovahking@lemmy.world 38 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The concernedly rising sightings of "could of" and "should of". And it's always the native English speakers. It irks me every time I see it. Why are you making such an obvious mistake? The sentence doesn't even sound coherent. How about you speak the sentence aloud and see how wrong it sounds?

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)

But spoken it's fine. It's could've.

It's when that gets written as "could of" that it becomes an abomination...

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[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 37 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Biweekly and bimonthly each also meaning their respective reciprocals.

(Every two periods, or twice a period.)

If a technical term such as a frequency specifier has multiple incompatible meanings then it has no value and needs to stop being used entirely. Or one of the meanings chosen as correct and the others rejected forcefully (good luck with that)

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[–] antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I really hate that California dropped all new shower heads down to 1.8 gpm. I feel very alone in this outrage. People are flying around in private fucking jets, and you want us all to take one for the team and suffer a shitty dribble of a shower every day. A generous hot shower is one of the few things that makes our lives far better than our great great grandparents. Taking out the flow restrictor is like having sex without a condom. A whole generation of suckers won’t even know what they’re missing.

I hate ordering a beer in a restaurant and it comes in a shaker pint (conical pint), which is usually a 13 oz pour. How can we have a government who verifies the measurement of fuel pumps, but not beer, when beer costs like 15x more than fuel. Fill lines are a simple, cheap, and good solution.

I hate metering lights. For those who don’t know they’re stoplights on the on-ramp to an interstate highway. Waste of fuel, don’t help with traffic.

I really hate advertisements. It seems the more I block them, the more offensive they are when one gets through.

[–] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m with you on the shower heads. I rip out the flow restrictors before I even install one.

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[–] Hegar@fedia.io 32 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I hate people who wear cold weather gear in warm/heated places

Schizophrenic people are very likely to do this. I work in mental health and this was mentioned in our training. At my location maybe 1/3-1/2 of folks wore one or more puffy jackets all summer long.

[–] th3dogcow@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

That’s really interesting. Is it known why? Do they not feel overheated or something?

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[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Maybe it's my age, but I'm more and more painfully aware of how many ways adverts pretend to be your friend. It'sv one of the most insipid and disingenuous things about modern society. The sheer ubiquity of charming voices trying to act like the common man, a chatty friend, a hapless discoverer of product X that offers you "up to" a benefit of.. whatever.

The whole damn thing is just horrible and crap and predatory and wears down the soul, because my soul was programmed to be surrounded by a 'clan' motivated by my wellbeing (and I theirs in a meaningful way)

Actually.. quite specifically it's the "up to" thing that happens in adverts. "Up to 100% effective" the advert says. "Well what the hell does that mean?!" I yell at the telly. "Sometimes it's 1% effective?? Why are you even talking to me about this thing?". It's ghoulish.

/rant

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[–] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I HATE PEOPLE WHO CARE WHAT THE FUCK IM WEARING!

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)
[–] TheFunkyMonk@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Birthdays make me so uncomfortable. Even when they’re mentioned in work chat and it’s flooded with gifs/“happy birthday!”s, I just don’t get it.

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[–] python@programming.dev 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the way yoga instructors speak, for some reason. I don't hate Yoga itself, just that fake calm voice makes me pretty mad. I could relax much better if the instructor just shouted like a drill sergeant all the time

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[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I used to work in an email heavy industry, so people who don’t use email or more specifically what I call “threading” right.

Changing the topic (so that the discussion no longer relates to the subject line), replying to add someone in without reattaching the relevant attached files, not using redirect email functionality, including screenshots that either lack relevant information due to poor cropping or forces the recipient into retyping its contents by hand all make email super annoying to deal with. And what’s with being expected to confirm you received each and every email? Ever heard of read receipts?

Also, people who don’t read error messages. As a web developer (or more broadly “computer person”) I cannot count how many times someone has sent me a picture of an error asking me what to do. 90% of the time the error itself tells you exactly what to do. Why do I need to read it for you?

[–] Freshfrozenplasma@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Goddamn. LED. Headlights. Also the way different manufacturers have these tacky headlight setups to somehow set then apart from others so not only are they as bright as the fucking sun, they have way more diodes than is ever necessary.

[–] TheRealKuni@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There is a confluence of problems here. LED headlights are stupidly bright, but if they’re aimed correctly and the headlights aren’t too high up, they’re not as big an issue generally.

But the arrival of LED headlights coincided with cars getting tall as fuck. There are pickup trucks whose headlights are nearly as high up as my head. Which just compounds the problem, because even if those lights are aimed mostly correctly, they’re still gonna blind people.

It’s infuriating.

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[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Got misophonia, the sound of dog licking triggers me

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

licks his dog, loudly

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[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

When people let their phones ring endlessly. For God's sake - either answer it or mute it, don't just ignore it!

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

Perfume and cologne. Makes me wheeze. Also long dirty fingernails, people who work with soil or grease or something excused from that.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

Billionaires.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

People that leave trash in my car, usually the same people that exclaim “your car is so clean” when they first get in and see that it’s completely empty save for a few things in the glovebox.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

"Hate" is a strong word, but I very much dislike it when a website that I can access on my computer only allows phone users to actually use it, or when certain features of a website are hidden for desktop users but available for phone users, such as Instagram Stories. I just don't agree with desktop/laptop users being restricted or offered the barebones version of a website considering that the internet has existed long before smartphones were a thing.

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[–] USSEthernet@startrek.website 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)

When people block aisles at the grocery store and you say "excuse me", but they act like they don't hear you and don't move. It's literally just you and them in the aisle, they don't need to have their cart in the middle of the aisle while they stand next to it. There's enough room for 2 people and their carts to fit in an aisle.

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[–] rbn@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

The smell of coffee. I don't know what's wrong with me (or alternatively the vast majority of people) but it smells as disgusting to me as a steaming pile of dog poop. I learned to ignore it to some extend but I still hate it in all its variations: The powder, freshly roasted beans, freshly brewed coffee, cold coffee, coffee breath, ...

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[–] donuts@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)
[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Please call me if you encounter these issues

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[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

People who subscribe to the whole male power struggle culture. Not just in a political sense; people will say things about respect or posturing etc. and it physically disgusts me to be reminded that people live like that.

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[–] lengau@midwest.social 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Ice in drinks, because I hate straws so I almost exclusively drink from the side of the glass. Ice slams into my teeth and makes me rage. What a first world problem lol

[–] Rogue@feddit.uk 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeeeeeees. Why would anyone ever want ice in their drinks?

  1. You get less of the drink you paid for
  2. It ends up watered down.
  3. Cold = less flavour
  4. It's too fucking cold

And yet they look at me as if I'm the weird one for stating no ice. And apparently I'm being difficult when they still give me a drink with bloody ice

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[–] Rogue@feddit.uk 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Plug in air fresheners.

If I rent an Airbnb which has them I will hunt every single one down and it's going straight out the window.

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[–] SasquatchCosmonaut@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I personally hate it when people get weird about the word 'hate' and try to use the word 'despise' instead.

[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Every article lately using the word "quietly" in the headline to drive clicks, to trick the user into thinking they're getting in on some controversial secret. It's the new "slammed".

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I remember that thing I hate: Ice cream melting faster than your consumption speed. Aaaaarrrrrrrgghhhh I hate it!

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[–] MagosInformaticus@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

The use of "alumni" in the singular. A person is an alumnus or an alumna, the alumni are always a group. Seems to be a very American usage, and I don't know why it feels aggravating where other Americanisms like positive anymore don't.

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