chaosCruiser

If Android still follows the letter of the law, the courts can't order any fines.

Viewing it as an opportunity is clearly the way to go. Far healthier than worrying for nothing.

That's too much for walking. I would take a bike in that case.

Here's what I consider common:

1. Walk 10 minutes to the train station
2. Get to the city center while scrolling Lemmy on your phone.
3. Walk in the center to visit some fancy stores. Maybe like 15-20 minutes in one direction.
4. Buy some specialty coffee, fancy kitchen knives, Bialetti rubber rings or whatever.
5. Walk back to the station: 15-20 minutes.
6. Battery is nearly dead, and I forgot to bring a charger with me. I guess I'll just stare out the window.
7. Walk back home: 10 min.

In total, that's going to be like an hour, but it's divided into multiple parts. Walking that much in just one direction is something I would prefer to avoid. If the library is a 60 min walk away, that's the same as like 12 bus stops or 15 minutes while sitting in a bus. BTW that 15 minutes includes walking at both ends of the journey. I would definitely choose public transport over walking in that case.

If the destination is just 15 minutes walk away from your house, that's perfectly normal, and not a problem in any way. If it's like 20 minutes away, I would begin to consider using a bike or maybe even a bus.

It's true that the opinions and comments don't matter. At the end of the day, they're just meaningless internet points and text that will be lost when the disk of my instance eventually gets formatted or when bit rot gradually eats them away.

However, that's not how my social monkey brain feels about it. Some primitive part of me that ignores all logic and reason clings to the notion of social acceptance and shivers at the mere thought of rejection. Can't disable that sort of thinking. Seems to be a hard-coded part of a function or something.

So far, so good. We'll see how that works out when I wake up tomorrow and look at a mountain of unread notifications. People on the other side of the planet tend surprise me.

How about we just call it "The Standard Unit" and choose U its symbol. You know, just to mess around with all the other "units" we have for everything. I'm looking at you, Enzyme unit, in particular. Also, the "Astronomical Unit" was a pretty obnoxious name too, so points for that.

LOL. Here, have some Lemmy Silver.

That's exactly the kind of energy I like to see.

Same thing when your boss calls.

[tele tubbies ring tone]

Gulp. The whole office must be on fire and it's all my fault, isn't it.

[answers the phone]

Oh ok. Lunch at 11.30. Sure, no problem. See you there. Bye.

Phew.

Some times you just roll the dice and see what happens. Make a risky comment of the day, pay the price, get back up again and do the same thing next week. Basically, just spread your unpopular opinions in places that weren't designated for it.

I've burned my fingers a few times, but also found some unexpected supporters. Write a teasing remark about a particular group, and you'll find that everyone hates you and you get downvoted to oblivion. Say the same thing in a different place, and all you get is upvotes and comments that go even further than you did. It's a dangerous game for those who like to live dangerously.

Blindly agree with the majority if you want to play it safe. Not a very spicy way to live your life, but I can see the appeal of it.

Yeah, I try to think about the number in a more neutral/positive way, even though my initial emotional reaction could be less helpful. You're absolutely right that those are also opportunities to learn.

That's actually one of the best things about Lemmy, and even Reddit to some extent. Let's say you think you know something about a specific topic (like maps, steam locomotives, pharmacology or whatever), because you read an article about it 5 years ago. You write a short comment based on what you think you know, and then someone with a PhD in underwater basket weaving corrects you, because you didn't get half the details right. That should be taken as an opportunity, but it doesn't always feel like that. Even when the comment is helpful and friendly, I still know I screwed up. It's not a big deal, but my feelings aren't rational about these things.

Let me guess, you throw those light-hearted boomer jokes in political threads. I prefer to avoid places like that, since they bring me no happiness. For me, the web is a place to chill, a balancing force to the dull reality of normal life. Sticking with nicer places makes the web serve my purposes.

Anyway, that's yet another very interesting way to use Lemmy and its inbox. I'm learning so much from people in this thread, so thanks for opening my eyes. If I had kept my mouth shut, expecting everyone to use Lemmy the way I do, I would never have found out.

That visual noise angle is true though. Once the number grows beyond a certain point, it looses all meaning. Might as well disable the red dot entirely, since it serves no purpose any more.

BTW "save for later" is a thing. I use that when I want to get back to something.