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Everyone seems so good at English so I wondered how many people learned it to such proficiency and how many are just natives

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[–] AnnaFrankfurter@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 hours ago

English is my 4th language. I mostly use it online and in professional settings.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

German here.

Basically 80-90% of my media consumption is in English.
I search (mostly) in English, read documentation in English and document my own stuff in a mix of English and German (we call this Denglisch in Germany (compound of (D)eutsch+Englisch)

[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 9 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I'm Dutch, but due to the large amount of English content I never really had an issue with English. While I struggled with German and Fr*nch, I never had to pay attention or study for English lessons. I just did what felt natural and ignored the homework etc. Not that I'm a great English speaker or anything, my vocabulary is sometimes a bit limited which makes me have to search for the right words to use. But when watching or reading I can follow pretty much anything. I also sometimes feel like I'm more resilient to accents than native English speakers, maybe because we get exposed to British and American English and therefore kinda learn a more generalized representation of the language? Idk, maybe that's not a thing

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago

I like to think I learned most of my English from watching nickelodeon past eight. Watching drake&josh, iCarly, the Simpsons and Southpark with Dutch subtitles on was a big part of me when I was younger.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

A bit of the same boat (minus the 3rd lang. Am only bilingual).
My struggle is primarily switching and mainting the speed but also the vocabulary at hand. And I feel more pressured while talking than writing.

[–] hamid@crazypeople.online 5 points 12 hours ago

My first and mother tongue is Farsi but I haven't spoken it out loud in any sustained fashion in actual decades at this point and I learned English when I was very young so I guess at this point while English might not be my "native" language, it is my primary. I noticed some time ago I think in English and when I go to speak Farsi I stammer, it is kind of a bummer but I'm more focused on Spanish than learning how to speak a language I am not around.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Swede in France. My grades were quite bad in the language domain, but I read loads of books when I was younger, uni books were in english, foreign tv is subtitled in sweden, worked with foreigners so English is often a given, guess it all adds up.

[–] glorkon@lemmy.world 20 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I always cringe when I see native speakers confuse "it's" and "its", "their", "they're" and "there" and all the other subtleties of their language. But then again, I'm a pedantic German and maybe Americans are so anti-education already that they're cool with that.

[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 7 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

although its incorrect, i'd say their are better things to worry about

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

Wouldnt your "their" be actually "there"?

[–] ghashul@feddit.dk 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

English is my secondary language, but I've always been drawn to it. I live in Denmark and we don't dub TV shows, but subtitle them instead. Also I started reading novels in English at a young age, so that has surely helped.

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago

I am a native English speaker but live in Denmark and so many people here are so proficient in English. It's super impressive to me!

[–] Chaser@lemmy.zip 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I'm from germany. I watch a lot of YouTube. Also I work as software developer, so I need to read many english manuals. Wich don't means, that my english is great. But it could also be worse.

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I had a lot of friends from germany and i was a little bit shocked that they didn't speak a second language. They all kinda understood english on a surface level, but not that great. Has that changed?

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago

Depends on the community.
I had one that claimed to be able to read but not speak English.
Everyone else was able to do both to some degree.

But that experience comes from a school where everyone trained for an IT related job.

[–] crypto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Native French speaker. I like to learn new words both in French and English to extend my vocabulary.

I learned English mainly by playing video games. I remember playing Super Mario Bros. in English while still learning to read French.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 8 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I'm German. Back in my day, we had 9 years of English classes in school and from what I've heard it's even more now. I was lucky to have a teacher who had spent a couple of years in the UK so he had much less of a German accent than most other teachers at our school and was also able to give us a lot of insight into how people actually speak, compared to the rather formal and stilted examples in our textbooks.

Between social media, movies, shows and a job in software engineering, I would say that on most days I read and listen to more English than German.

[–] FisicoDelirante@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 hours ago

I'm Argentinian. I began studying English early in my childhood and I love learning languages.

[–] angelmountain@feddit.nl 3 points 15 hours ago

Dutch, we don't dub our movies (luckily) and prefer easy trading over valueing our own language. My biggest problem is finding an accent that fits me. Should I go for posh British, 'Murican, or Dutch "steenkolen Engels"?

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 1 points 12 hours ago

I am, my spelling and grammar are rusty as hell, so I'm here to practice. I've found that people are too nice to correct my mistakes (which I make a ton of), so I usually catch them myself re-reading my comments :s.

[–] Zeusz13@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

Hungarian here, learned in school and through games/videos

[–] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I feel like non native users are often better at both formulating themselves and spelling, compared to many native speakers

Especially the part where people replace 'have' with 'of'. (Would of instead of would have / would've)

Non native speaker here too btw

[–] myszka@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh boy, I got so confused when I was a beginner and some American kid told me "would of" is an alternative to "would have"

[–] AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

I think the "proper" way to simplify it is would've, which is pronounced the same as 'would of'

A lot of mistakes have just become incorporated into the language in the past. Maybe 'would of' is just too blatantly wrong for that to ever happen though

Maybe not really a 'mistake', more of a normal shortening but my personal favorite english-ism is "bye" being descended directly from "god be with you". People just kept collapsing it more and more over time.

Edit: also "a pease" -> "peas" -> "a pea"

[–] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago

Also literally... If can both mean exactly something or be used for emphasis

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[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 17 hours ago

Second, or rather third. Games and media taught me English.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I learned the basics from Sonic the Hedgehog and Streets of Rage. Ready... Start! Time up! Game over! Marble zone! All useful phrases when abroad.

[–] ThoGot@feddit.org 3 points 15 hours ago

For me it was honestly Minecraft since the translations weren't a thing for a while after its first release (in combination with school)

[–] toofpic@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm Russian, I started learning (school doesn't count) chatting playing pool at Yahoo.games in the beginning of 2000s.
Then I stopped getting translated versions of games (when I got Morrowind, my head literally hurt due to the amount of "foreign" texts I had to read). So, Internet and games taught me in the beginning.
Then, I was asked to translate at business meetings in my (quite small) company, I did some contract translations as well.
Then I got into IT (like 2012 or so), where you use English in many situations. In 2019, I got into an international company, where I spoke English as a main language for three years. Along the way I moved to Denmark, so now, in addition to my kinda broken English, I have a really shitty Danish.

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[–] 0485919158191@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago

I’m not a native speaker but in Sweden we do learn it from a very young age. We don’t dub anything, we watch shows and movies in English with Swedish subtitles. English is also mandatory from 3rd grade up until you finish college. Now, combine that with social media.

I don’t consider myself a native speaker but I am extremely proficient.

[–] markz@suppo.fi 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just spend too much time on the internet

[–] darkreader2636@lemmy.zip 3 points 18 hours ago

Yup same here

[–] Achyu@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 22 hours ago

I'm Indian, specifically Sourh Indian.
We learn English in our schools and it is he main medium for school and college education.

[–] SatyrSack@quokk.au 7 points 23 hours ago

Not a native speaker. I learned mostly from American TV and reading Internet discussions. I have also absorbed a lot of more technical language through the native speakers at work. I made sure my coworkers know that I want them to correct my English, and working with a bunch of pedantic nerds, I sure get a lot of helpful corrections!

[–] limerod@reddthat.com 6 points 23 hours ago

I had to learn English from a young age because it was the primary language used from kindergarten to high school, and even in college.

I improved my comprehension by reading articles and online discussion forums, as well as by watching movies, series, broadcasts, and YouTube videos.

[–] kubofhromoslav@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (10 children)

I learnt it since I was 3. I was literally forced to do it instead of playing outside with my friends. And always out was hard...

Then I found the language Esperanto, that is supposed to be 10x easier to learn and use. I tried it and I can conform that to be true 😊

But I needed English for my (volunteer) work in a social movement, so I slowly learn it. But still had big problems to understand spoken English. Then I found English videos about topic that was very investing for me. I was trying hard to understand and finally I did.

Long story short, I still prefer to speak Esperanto, and much more people should, IMO.

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[–] Snoopy@feddit.fr 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I learned english because i'm deaf and french subtitles were scarse. Futhermore, i always wanted to read the latest scans :)

[–] FireWire400@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I'm German. Einigkeit und Recht und Freiheit oder so...

Mostly taught myself English, since our educational system sucks so much.

[–] arthur@lemmy.zip 3 points 20 hours ago

Second language here

[–] jaennaet@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm a non-native English speaker, learned it by watching cartoons without subtitles when I was a wee little squirt

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[–] bufalo1973@piefed.social 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

I'm from Spain and English is my third language (currently trying to learn Portuguese)

I've learn it with music (Judas Priest🀟), movies and series.

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