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A majority of them have never even been to California yet they seem to talk about it/bash it non-stop.

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[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 4 points 12 hours ago

Learn the phrase and see it everywhere: negative partisanship. XBOX vs PS vs Nintendo vs mobile, Mac vs MS vs Linux, Rep vs Dem, white vs black, old vs young, etc. etc. etc. Stupid people love signalling to their ingroup how loyal they are by attacking the outgroup.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 10 points 17 hours ago

California is a big, shiny, undeniable counter-point to everything they claim is bad about liberalism.

More people choose to live here than anywhere else (in America) and we have more money than anyone else because our economy is more productive than anywhere else (in America).

It's California. Go anywhere in the world and say the word "California" and they'll know what you're talking about, even if they don't speak English.

California is concrete proof that liberalism isn't some failed ideology and they REALLY don't like that. Hell, we're responsible for some of these conservative states even existing, as they siphon money from us because we pay WAY more to the federal government than any other state.

Conservatives don't have a state as successful as California. And even most of their large cities are liberal.

It's hate based in jealousy.

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 8 points 16 hours ago

Perceived as most left-leaning of the states , wen any one who knows just a little past surface level about USian politics , they'll realise there's no true "left-leaning" state lol

[–] frostedtrailblazer@lemmy.zip 15 points 18 hours ago

If California is allowed to look good, then it hurts the credibility of their ideology.

I think there are some criticisms about Californians leaving the state raising housing prices in their own state. That’s just how supply and demand works though when the supply of houses suddenly becomes more limited in your area.

They like to say things along the lines of: “Californians messed up their own state with their high taxes, fled here, are driving all the prices up, and are now trying to bring their fAiLeD PoLiTiCs to the state.” The real answer is that California is such a desirable place to live that there are not enough houses and well paying jobs to go around. People leave the state because of unregulated capitalist pressures, not because of the state’s strong social programs.

It’s not just Californians moving to other states that are driving prices up. Housing prices going up is also caused by private equity firms buying up available properties, a slowdown on building new houses capping supply, people from other states moving, and Not In My Backyard people trying to prevent lower cost housing in their towns since they don’t want the price of their house to ever drop.

Having strong social programs in their own states could actually help mitigate the impact of prices going up for housing as well as for other goods and services. For instance, they could have their own state provided healthcare coverage to help them have guaranteed healthcare. They could have better public transportation systems so they are not so car reliant to get to work. Rent controls in place to mitigate landlords pricing people out of the area. Affordable housing construction. Even things like public utilities could be offered for less by the state for gas, electricity, phone, and internet.

[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 15 points 18 hours ago

California is strictly better than every red state in almost every measure. They literally hate it because it directly disproves their worldview that conservatives are good for the economy.

[–] SinAdjetivos@lemmy.world 10 points 17 hours ago

An often overlooked aspect is that much of the rural US is experiencing pretty aggressive gentrification. "California" is the nebulous word used to describe that process by conservatives because actual understanding and contextualizing is "woke".

California being the stand in word due to the socio-economic reasons already stated.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 14 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I get the sense places like California and New York are seen as the homes of the rich elite. Which, they are - because that’s where everyone wants to live. Conservatives miss that they’re also the homes of hundreds of thousands of oppressed working class like themselves who also hate those rich elites, because states are big places.

There’s also racism. They hate sanctuary cities because they go against their narrative that immigrants are destroying America. (Signed, a white guy living in a sanctuary city that is proud of its low crime rate)

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago

I get the sense places like California and New York are seen as the homes of the rich elite.

And then they elected a born rich New York elite man-child. Twice.

Not a bright bunch.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago

California is successful. It is the strongest economy of the US, and one of the strongest economies in comparison to other, complete, countries. And it dares not to be Republican!

On the other hand, most Republican states could not survive without federal handouts, mostly supplied by more successful Democratic states.

It is envy, plain and simple.

Because the entire concept of conservatism is based on having enemies.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

It's heavily featured in Fox and other conservative ~~propaganda~~ media. So is the pacific northwest... my god, my dad will not stop talking about the homeless hordes of seattle or whatever.

TBH Texas and Florda are portrayed similarly in many leftist tabloids. Speaking as someone who has recently leaved in both, yes, they are conservative dystopias, but not uniformly and not like news would lead you to believe.

There are just blowing up grains of truth.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

my dad will not stop talking about the homeless hordes of seattle or whatever.

Californian here. I would rather live with the homeless than live in a conservative shithole state. Yeah, there's homeless. But I'm also living in world-renowned California.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

There's some pretty great stuff here in Texas (and Florida). But they aren't shitholes. It's mostly not that bad, and not that conservative.

...There are homeless hordes here, too.

Regions have their shit politics and weaknesses, but what's on tabloids is a caricature of what its like on the ground.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 61 points 1 day ago (6 children)

It holds a level of cultural and economic dominance over much of the country to the point where it can often feel similar to how America does to Europeans.

They make our art, they grow our food, and they represent us on a cultural stage to the world. And for a lot of middle America you will never be able to afford to move there, but some of your neighbors and friends will, and they'll love it.

There's a lot of sour grapes in California hate, because Iowa, Missouri, ohio, etc know they're flyover states, they know they're never going to be the powerhouses that California is. So you watch your Los Angeles media on a Silicon Valley device eating your San Joaquin vegetables thinking about your childhood friend who couldn't take it here and got into a UC and never moved back. There's some bitterness if you left your small town, but if you didn't even manage that…

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

You're thinking of educated people, the people who hate California could never think things that far through. They are the uneducated masses who eat up what fox news sells them, and then regurgitate it. They've never talked to a minority or someone outside their economic class. They know their small reality, and can't conceptualize a society bigger or more complex than that.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I think you hit the nail perfectly on the head

i say living on the west coast after I escaped the drudgery that is the Midwest

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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

Fear of the unknown. The unknown, in this case, is some semblance of a functioning society.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 127 points 1 day ago (3 children)

It's the fifth largest global economy...

It's hard proof that most of their policy is complete bullshit, because if they were right, liberal social policy and taxes would have chased all the wealthy away.

But it doesn't, because people want to live in places with that kind of policy

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 74 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

California is a monument to the total debunking of right wing social ideology

It plus New York fund the existence of the red states

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh dear, I have to post it again:

Fuck the south

Look at the economies of southern red states. They're fucking garbage and they turn out some of the most reprehensible personalities in our country. Pathetic.

[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 3 points 16 hours ago

I had a hard time getting the page to load, so I'm just gonna copy fuck the south here for anyone else that can't load the page:

*November 3, 2004

Fuck the South. Fuck 'em. We should have let them go when they wanted to leave. But no, we had to kill half a million people so they'd stay part of our special Union. Fighting for the right to keep slaves - yeah, those are states we want to keep.

And now what do we get? We're the fucking Arrogant Northeast Liberal Elite? How about this for arrogant: the South is the Real America? The Authentic America. Really?

Cause we fucking founded this country, assholes. Those Founding Fathers you keep going on and on about? All that bullshit about what you think they meant by the Second Amendment giving you the right to keep your assault weapons in the glove compartment because you didn't bother to read the first half of the fucking sentence? Who do you think those wig-wearing lacy-shirt sporting revolutionaries were? They were fucking blue-staters, dickhead. Boston? Philadelphia? New York? Hello? Think there might be a reason all the fucking monuments are up here in our backyard?

No, No. Get the fuck out. We're not letting you visit the Liberty Bell and fucking Plymouth Rock anymore until you get over your real American selves and start respecting those other nine amendments. Who do you think those fucking stripes on the flag are for? Nine are for fucking blue states. And it would be 10 if those Vermonters had gotten their fucking Subarus together and broken off from New York a little earlier. Get it? We started this shit, so don't get all uppity about how real you are you Johnny-come-lately "Oooooh I've been a state for almost a hundred years" dickheads. Fuck off.

Arrogant? You wanna talk about us Northeasterners being fucking arrogant? What's more American than arrogance? Hmmm? Maybe horsies? I don't think so. Arrogance is the fucking cornerstone of what it means to be American. And I wouldn't be so fucking arrogant if I wasn't paying for your fucking bridges, bitch.

All those Federal taxes you love to hate? It all comes from us and goes to you, so shut up and enjoy your fucking Tennessee Valley Authority electricity and your fancy highways that we paid for. And the next time Florida gets hit by a hurricane you can come crying to us if you want to, but you're the ones who built on a fucking swamp. "Let the Spanish keep it, it’s a shithole," we said, but you had to have your fucking orange juice.

The next dickwad who says, "It’s your money, not the government's money" is gonna get their ass kicked. Nine of the ten states that get the most federal fucking dollars and pay the least... can you guess? Go on, guess. That’s right, motherfucker, they're red states. And eight of the ten states that receive the least and pay the most? It’s too easy, asshole, they’re blue states. It’s not your money, assholes, it’s fucking our money. What was that Real American Value you were spouting a minute ago? Self reliance? Try this for self reliance: buy your own fucking stop signs, assholes.

Let’s talk about those values for a fucking minute. You and your Southern values can bite my ass because the blue states got the values over you fucking Real Americans every day of the goddamn week. Which state do you think has the lowest divorce rate you marriage-hyping dickwads? Well? Can you guess? It’s fucking Massachusetts, the fucking center of the gay marriage universe. Yes, that’s right, the state you love to tie around the neck of anyone to the left of Strom Thurmond has the lowest divorce rate in the fucking nation. Think that’s just some aberration? How about this: 9 of the 10 lowest divorce rates are fucking blue states, asshole, and most are in the Northeast, where our values suck so bad. And where are the highest divorce rates? Care to fucking guess? 10 of the top 10 are fucking red-ass we're-so-fucking-moral states. And while Nevada is the worst, the Bible Belt is doing its fucking part.

But two guys making out is going to fucking ruin marriage for you? Yeah? Seems like you're ruining it pretty well on your own, you little bastards. Oh, but that's ok because you go to church, right? I mean you do, right? Cause we fucking get to hear about it every goddamn year at election time. Yes, we're fascinated by how you get up every Sunday morning and sing, and then you're fucking towers of moral superiority. Yeah, that's a workable formula. Maybe us fucking Northerners don't talk about religion as much as you because we're not so busy sinning, hmmm? Ever think of that, you self-righteous assholes? No, you're too busy erecting giant stone tablets of the Ten Commandments in buildings paid for by the fucking Northeast Liberal Elite. And who has the highest murder rates in the nation? It ain't us up here in the North, assholes.

Well this gravy train is fucking over. Take your liberal-bashing, federal-tax-leaching, confederate-flag-waving, holier-than-thou, hypocritical bullshit and shove it up your ass.

And no, you can't have your fucking convention in New York next time. Fuck off. *

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[–] Fedditor385@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Conservatives = keep stuff how it has been California = modernize stuff and abandon how things were

It's basically in their name - to conserve. California is doing exactly everything opposite, setting new trends and standards.

[–] rhymeswithduck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 19 hours ago

And when California passes regulations, they often end up being adopted nationally, because most companies want to sell their products in the large market that is California but don't want to have to differentiate their product or service for different states. This causes a lot of resentment among the GOP.

[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 6 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Because it's a huge historically majority liberal state?

[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 67 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The people who tell conservatives what to think have indicated that California is bad. Why is it bad? They made some progress on a few things, and we can’t have that. It’s why we can’t have nice things like affordable healthcare and breathable air.

[–] pivot_root@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Breathable air? That's just another commodity to sell to the masses. Like shelter. And water. And food.

If they could sell us sunlight, they would do it without a second thought.

[–] Gerudo@lemmy.zip 69 points 1 day ago

Because caring for the environment and creating social programs is scary to them.

[–] Feyd@programming.dev 51 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The entire answer is "propaganda"

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

right wing propaganda from MSMs, like fox. they are also hyprocites because many of them live like in nevada, and thier entire business is inside CALIFORNIA. for eg, i used to followed some asian ytubers, they moved to LAS VEGAS or reno over the pandemic but they rail on california, called it woke, but thier base is in california los angelas. and then they were whining about the lack of community culture for POCs in VEGAS, healthcare and school. also one of them was caught by california EDD laws, for mislabeling thier employees as contractors,1099 instead of full time employees. he was literally asking the incel viewers how to EVADE and commit fraud to get away with it.

[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 45 points 1 day ago (2 children)

They hate us because they ain't us.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

For the same reason liberals bash on Texas all the time: it’s a flagship state for the political brand that’s an easy target due to its size and problems (due to its size).

[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They jelly of that economy

[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

"B-but everyone is leaving California!!1!"

To the people saying this: yeah, dream on. Step away from the hard right-wing media and look around. It's a myth.

Yes there are some people leaving the state for places like Texas and Florida (sorry, but fuck knows why!). But there are still a ton of people here in CA, there are still people moving here, and there are still kids being born here. We are a loooong way from a mass exodus of economy crippling proportions.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, as a Californian the "mass exodus" propaganda was hilarious.

[–] SoupBrick@pawb.social 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Everybody loves finding things in common with other people.

Since California is percieved by the right to be a "liberal stronghold", it is easy for them to bond over a shared hatred of it. Regardless of whether or not that hate is based in fact.

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

They're sheep

[–] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Because California stands for many, many, many, many of the things they oppose without evidence to back up their claims: Supporting LGBTQ+, better Social programs, limited religious freedoms, run by a bunch of "liberals", etc. etc.

And yet, it's the 5th largest economy in the world, and the vast, overwhelming, majority of funds for the USA.

They hate that California works, because it disproves pretty much all of their talking points.

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[–] spaghettiwestern@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

In integral part of conservative ideology is hatred and California's been a target for decades. When the acceptance of gays became too widespread they switched to hatred and vilification of transgender Americans. When the general population gets tired of listening to them screech about that they'll find someone/something else. For some reason they don't get tired of whining about CA.

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[–] CIA_chatbot@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because Fox News tells them too

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[–] mienshao@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

What’s crazy is that, by pure numbers, CA is basically tied with FL as having the second most republicans in the country—at around 6 million.* Only TX has them both beat. Conservatives really do shit on the 2nd/3rd largest enclave of republicans in the country 🤣

*Based on the 2024 US election turnout—not registered republicans

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