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I am in the US, so financial calculations need to be factored in.

For a moment, I couldn't breathe, felt like I was going to die, then vomitted.

Now heart beating slightly off, not feeling great but not terrible, had mild chest pain earlier in evening...

Kinda feel off. Have medical insurance with large deductible.

Ignore it? Taxi to ER? Call 911? Genuinely don't know and don't like 911 since police are involved.

Also I feel hot, feel burning around my neck.

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[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 52 points 22 hours ago (9 children)

Yeah this is hospital visit worthy. Please seek medical attention

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[–] Diabolo96@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

RIP I guess. Hopefully you don't reincarnate into a poor girl in a third world country.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 8 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

At least poor girls in third world countries have free healthcare. Not good but free

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[–] underline960@sh.itjust.works 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Do urgent care instead, if that's an option where you are.

Urgent Care vs. ER

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[–] TinyLittlePuni@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Go to the ER. As someone with heart problems herself I always say that you only have one heart so I would absolutely get it checked out. At least get an ECG workup done. Nausea and vomiting alongside an irregular heartbeat can be a symptom of atrial fibrillation which would be confirmed with an ECG. I hate to worry people but the symptoms you mentioned can also be a sign of a heart attack and the longer that goes on the more damage this could be doing to your heart. Get to the hospital ASAP!

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Taxi to ER. No medical office will touch you having complained of, even mild, chest pain and a weird feeling heart. Been there, done that. Walk in the ER talking of chest pain, and say that first!, they will throw you in a room and attach an EKG. Been there, done that.

I don't mean to alarm you, but taken together those symptoms smell like a mild heart attack. By some voodoo I don't understand, the EKG can tell, even if the event is not happening in the moment.

I say no medical office will touch you, but first time my doc sent me to the ER, second time they whipped out a portable EKG. Times change, I may be wrong.

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[–] folekaule@lemmy.world 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Consider going to a walk in clinic. If it's nothing serious, you pay 100-200 and you're on your way. If you go to the ER and it's nothing serious, your insurance may deduct you hundreds more (my ER copay is $500 and I have great insurance).

If it is serious, the walk in will tell you to go to the ER. In that case, the insurance may waive the ER copay. While it is true they can't deny you care, this system of expensive ER copay was presumably put in place to stop people using the ER to provide free care. Check your insurance policy (preferably before you get sick). I believe some places also have free clinics, but I would expect them to be pretty crowded.

Good luck OP. This sounds serious and you need to take care of your health. Try to find a way you can at least get some real qualified medical advice, even if you seemingly recovered this time.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Heart issues? Chest pain?! They're not touching OP with a ten-foot frog, straight to the ER is all they will say.

[–] folekaule@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

You're not wrong, but I would rather OP seek any qualified medical care than none, even if all they do is refer them to the ER.

[–] Schorsch@feddit.org 32 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

What the heck, how is this a question at all? Dude you need to get help asap!

[–] secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.world 17 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

I live in the US

We have to weigh the cost of a medical visit versus the likelihood it's nothing

If it's food poisoning and I overreact, that's a 20K overreaction in the US

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 0 points 9 hours ago

As someone who lives in the US, you literally didnt need anything but the first sentance.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 6 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Everyone who downvoted this can get fucked with a cheese grater and no reach around. This is how America works. Do some research.

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[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 16 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

Go to ER.

In the US, they are required to provide care for actute condition (meaning chronic, aka: along term conditions like cancer or diabeted can be legally ignored), so if you are about to die, they are required by law to stop you from dying.

Worry about the debt later. Or just ignore any invoices/bills... they can't seize anything if you have no assets, debt is gone in 7 years.

Edit: If they ask for your social, say you forgot. Don't provide anything other than basic name, birthday, gender, that sort of stuff.

[–] Mearuu@kbin.melroy.org 9 points 18 hours ago

If they ask for social just refuse to give it. You don’t even need to give them your real name. They still must treat you.

The last time I was in an American ER they asked for my social before starting to work on me. I told them, very angrily, that I will never give them that info because the last time I did, and paid my bill, it still showed up on my credit report as a collection. It took months to remove. The nurse asking me said okay with no further problems. They began treatment immediately.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 8 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Unless it’s a red state and you have a baby in your belly. Then they will absofuckinglutely let you die.

EDIT: A word

[–] Ursapharm@lemmy.world 23 points 22 hours ago

USA, USA, USA!

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 19 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Genuinely don't know and don't like 911 since police are involved.

911 dispatcher in the US here

This will vary a lot from one jurisdiction to another, I can really only speak to county I work in

But while in theory every EMS call also gets a police response, probably more than half of them the only action the police take is to tell us "not responding unless requested"

And if they do respond, a lot of time they don't do much besides sit at the end of the driveway with their lights flashing so the ambulance can find the house easier.

Things like overdoses, assaults, shootings/stabbings, psych emergencies, cardiac arrests, etc. they do of course show up to because they may actually need to do something.

And if you live in a bigger city or rougher part of the suburbs, sometimes they may even take their sweet-ass time getting to those.

And if you live in a rural area, there's a decent chance you're covered by some part time or regional police department, or state police/county sheriffs who are stretched way too thin covering a huge area with maybe 2 or 3 officers on duty at any one time, they're probably not gonna show up in a hurry if at all either.

Like I said, it varies a lot, some towns in my county I can count on police being there before the ambulance (whether or not they actually do anything once they're there in a different story) and in others the cops don't give half a fuck unless someone is actively dying.

If you do find yourself calling 911 though, for the love of God, don't tell them you don't want police on your medical call, I swear that might be the most surefire way to make sure they do actually show up in a hurry. If that ends up in the notes of the call it makes the cops think you're hiding something or I don't know, planning to jump the EMS squad or something, some cops can be pretty panicky, paranoid weirdos like that, or sometimes just spiteful.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 10 points 17 hours ago

some cops can be pretty panicky, paranoid weirdos like that, or sometimes just spiteful.

And this is why we never want the police involved.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 16 hours ago

So, are you still alive?

[–] kamills@sh.itjust.works 18 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Seek medical attention now!

Your life is worth much more than the price for emergency care <3

Seek medical attention now!

[–] jnod4@lemmy.ca 9 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah bro being alive is so worthy, who's going to pay for my landlord's vacations if I die? Who's going to slave away 12h a day lifting heavy shit 😢 Y'all can have this life I'll have the next one

[–] subignition@fedia.io 6 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Sorry bud, you only get one.

[–] jnod4@lemmy.ca 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks I didn't ask for it, I'm here involuntarily.

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[–] fiend_unpleasant@piefed.social 1 points 13 hours ago

[citation needed]

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 6 points 18 hours ago

Sounds like heat illness. Did you sleep too hot?

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 14 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 8 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yup. Classic heart attacks symptoms for a woman, actually. But since they're ignoring medical advice I'm assuming they're a dude.

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 6 points 16 hours ago

That last line hits so hard

[–] ohellidk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 15 hours ago

Kind of sounds like a magnesium deficiency. My buddy had that exact same thing happen to him. Got really weak too.

Get it looked at soon, for sure!

[–] fullsquare@awful.systems 6 points 20 hours ago

this could be a number of things, some of which can be fatal. lab tests or imaging for these things are cheap, but only available at hospital and what else do you expect from random internet people than "haul your ass to hospital and ask someone irl that actually knows"

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 8 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

Can you ask somebody to drive you?

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[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 6 points 21 hours ago

Damn... Sounds like literally you just had heart attack...

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