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[–] fneu@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

They glorify soldiers way too much and teachers way too little

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Between the two there is a big difference:

One is a profession that can be a particularly dangerous way of life. Orders from above put you into place far from support, with limited resources, often in contact with hostiles on a daily basis. You're often left to fend for yourself with only what you have on you against overwhelming odds. Command structures often pit you against your peers in petty internal politics around rank. The pay isn't great, and those that stick with it for the long haul to make a lifetime of it often leave scared and mentally injured. It can be a thankless job in putting your life and health on the line to achieve the overall goal.

The other profession usually involves wearing a uniform and enforcing USA's geopolitical interests in other countries.

[–] Draghetta@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah, the old ~~Reddit~~ Lemmy switcharoo

[–] countsickness@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hello, future people!

[–] NeroToro@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

U got me in the first half not gonna lie

[–] XEAL@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Your comment made read the other comment.

Worth it.

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

It was good but I saw it coming right away lol.

[–] nilloc@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

A family friend of ours just quit his highschool teaching job and is moving his family because he was threatened with a gun in his classroom. The student was expelled, but not arrested and knows where he lives.

I fucking hate it here. Guns need to go.

[–] Bloodwoodsrisen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

As an American, it confuses me as well

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[–] HenriVolney@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Tipping

Also, losing their shit over nudity

[–] zomtecos@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

While having a huge porn industry.

[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 year ago

Huh, the US and Japan aren't so different.

[–] Huby@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

We have tipping in Europe, but that's mostly only done if you have a very good experience, not because you are expected to. Just pay your employees.

[–] merridew@feddit.uk 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sticker price isn't the price you pay at the till. Why? Why do you do that.

Massive gaps between the walls and doors of public lavatory cubicles. This is not some mystical, advanced technology. Get it together.

[–] orphiebaby@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

We do that because our country is founded on the "right" for moneymakers to put as much onto the customer as they can get away with. Hence things like tipping culture.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

The US doesn't have a VAT, but a sales tax on final sale of a good. Not only that, but states, counties, and cities can issue their own sales tax on sales within their borders. There are also cases where sales tax isn't charged at the register. In the end, it is easier for companies to just charge the tax at the end, so they do.

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[–] CookieJarObserver@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)
[–] Blamemeta@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Guns are the only reliable way to deal with tyrants. And while its not everytime, look at what happens to disarmed populations usually.

Also gun control started as and still is racist.

[–] Draghetta@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You had a tyrant that tried to overthrow a legitimate election through violence.

Where were all gun nuts then? Those who weren’t attempting said coup, that is. Doesn’t sound reliable to me.

As for what happens to disarmed populations, most of Europe has gun control laws that would make any American have a heart attack, and yet here we are, no dictators to be seen up to GMT+3. Do say, what is it that happens to disarmed populations? What is happening to us that I somehow didn’t notice?

And gun control being racist.. I’m sorry, what? This right here, this is the thing I’ll never understand about Americans. Everything is racist. You can’t talk about anything, somebody will play the “racist” card before you can get any deeper than slogans. Absolutely every single thing turns out to be a race issue. Sure, you guys had very big issues with racism until very recently (learning about sundown towns for me was a huge WTF moment) and it’s very hard to deal with a past so ugly - but still, maybe not everything is about race.

[–] Blamemeta@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

In America, gun control started as a way to disarm black people. Worked out well when the Klan wanted to lynch someone. Thats what was racist about it.

[–] charonn0@startrek.website 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A modern analog I like is to high grade digital encryption.

Terrorists and criminals use it, and governments want to ban it. But that doesn't actually mean it should be banned, or that people who oppose a ban are terrorists or criminals.

[–] Draghetta@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Totally, except regulating encryption makes much more sense because of al those encryption-violence deaths that happen daily in the US. All those kids with easy access to encryption going to school and encrypting their classmates, the policemen not intervening because they are afraid to get encrypted by the kids armed with military grade AES-512 routines.

It is a modern analog, but with its limits - all this stuff doesn’t happen in countries where encryption is much more regulated and you can’t buy encryption routines in malls.

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[–] XEAL@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, but it's way harder to kill someone accidentally (or in a fit of rage) with high grade digital encryption than with a firearm.

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[–] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The obsession with mutilating baby boy’s penises.

America was founded by shrill religious fetishists...

[–] blady_blah@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

As an American I don't get this either. You want to cut on my child's penis the day after he's born?! The fuck? Who says yes to that?

[–] glad_cat@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago (7 children)

At-will employment makes no sense to me. You go to work every day knowing you could be fired without any possibility of taking the time to find another job. It would drive me crazy.

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Oh it's terrifying.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Guns. Just restrict them, it's not that hard

The "winner takes all" political system that ends with two extremist parties and a huge divide between people

Healthcare. Do I need to say anything?

The extreme divide between rich and poor

Police force. They hire lowly educated people, preferably racist, receiving barely any training, and what they do get is mostly nonsense. They then get military equipment, and the entire system is protected by a corrupt union

The amount that news organizations are allowed to lie

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[–] Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Cheap wooden houses in areas with termites

And no insulation, so you rely on expensive AC

Tipping

Very large cars. You can easily fit 5 people in a small car.. lol.

Your voting system. Registering to vote? Wtf is this? Here you get your "ticket" to vote, by mail, automatically after you turn 18, a few weeks before the election date. And you are required by law to get time off, to vote, if youre otherwise unable to make it in time.

Also paying for education.. lol. Here its all free. In fact, im getting paid to study. (Not a ton but enough to get by)

[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Vote for people who actively oppose universal healthcare, mandatory PTO policies, universal family leave policies, universal college-level education, etc.

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 1 points 1 year ago

A “politics” channel on a site called Lemmy.World that is specifically only for US politics, because America is the world.

[–] szczuroarturo@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

Cars. You seem to buy cars like smartphones( actualy probably even worse since buying phone on credit dosent seem to be as common nowadays ) . If you can afford the credit payment for the card dosent mean you can afford the car. In fact why everyone buys stuff on credit cards in the US . It seems insane to me to go to debt for a stupid cofee.

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