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Inspired by recently buying a cajon, and my husband immediately buying another for additional living room seating because he loved it.

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I bought a vibrating sex toy. The battery lasts ~45 minutes. You're intended to stroke with it, but honestly I enjoy just resting it and laying back for a hands-free experience. 45 minutes isn't long enough, so i bought another one to keep it going. Turns out 90 minutes still isn't long enough sometimes, but at that point I have to get it over with and continue my day.

Side-noteTaking recommendations for hands-free masturbators.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

At that point, it sounds like you should give yourself some days before masturbating, see if the time drops. Anything that sticks to a surface can be considered hands-free, too

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 days ago

Thanks for the advice, but I do :D varying the vibration modes helps to maintain the stimulation, sticking to 1 mode feels great for a long time, but I think it numbs the sensation as well.