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I have two degrees in philosophy. I quit my PhD with an MA after I realized academic life wasn't for me.

When people find this out about me... they rarely react positivity anymore. Most are confused, some look upset, others get defensive or crack cliche jokes about how I got a job with a useless degree like that or if I work at McDonalds.

It seems to have gotten way worse the past few years. In my late 20s/early 30s people seemed to react a lot more positively to this fact about my life? People would ask me about it and why I did it and what I studied specifically. I really liked those conversations.

I feel naive as to why philosophy is so controversial for the average person, anymore than English or History is? I really enjoyed my studies and still do them as a hobby now.

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[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My guess is that due to the economic situation and also climate crisis situation, people do more things they don't feel comfortable with morally, and so when you're the guy who thinks about what's morally right or wrong, your existence confronts them with their wrongdoing.

So, it's their own actions they don't like, but they can just not think about it until you show up.

That's my pet theory anyways. Being clean-edge and vegan, I've had that experience a lot...

[–] arality@programming.dev 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Hey fuck you pal, I'm gonna do even more drugs and every meal is now steak and bacon. Just to offset your shitty behavior.

Why do some people double down? It makes no sense, like it's okay to disagree. That's it. That's all that needs to happen, if you don't wanna engage or think about a topic. How wild of a statement. I'm going to be an antoginist in your life on purpose, just to spite you, for showing me who I really am.

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

Yeah, that is precisely why I assume they don't feel secure in their own standing, because it would be trivial to say "you do you" and continue doing what they feel is right. It's not like I'm attacking them, just stating what my choice is.