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So I just discovered c/womensstuff, commented in a thread that took my interest and got a somewhat abusive "eff off" comment from a mod with added sarcasm.

I then saw it's "women only". This is the only community I know that bans based on a protected identity of a person, e.g. in the UK, it's illegal to discriminate based on gender, sexuality, religion etc.

How does everyone feel about this for Lemmy communities?

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[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

its their community, they can run it how they please, if it rubs you the wrong way you can feel free to make a competing space instead of simply complaining about it, but i think most will find its harder to moderate than they think, so i say having a hard stance on moderation to ensure quality for a minority is perfectly acceptable imo.

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

the majority of lemmy users are male <3

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

there are no official numbers. but women's stuff community never reached about 800 members before migration. I'm not saying that every woman is subscribed to that comm, but if it's any indicator, women are a minority on lemmy. if we look at other communities, the two biggest communities that indicate they are for gendered groups are women's autism, and men's liberation. while they both have around the same subscriber count, the men's liberation comm has twice as many posts and frequently more comments. as for other comms that have some sort of gender distinction, for women never go about 800, whereas men's ones can each as high as 2.5k users. based off these figures, and my own experiences on lemmy as a woman, I conclude that women are a minority, or seriously unrepresented if they are more present than it appears.

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 1 points 2 months ago

Okay. But not everyone joins gendered groups, so such a conclusion is not correct.