olivergarden

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Non-single people, how long have you been with your S/O? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] olivergarden@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hehe hiiiii

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Were both parties cheated on? (piefed.social)
 

Forgive me, I've tried polyamory but I don't quite know what counts as "cheating" when the relationship is opened like this.

So my sister (14) "Liz" went out with "Asher" (16) for like a week. Asher was always very giggly, flirty, and romantic with Liz and would find couple songs and say "That's us!". My sister seemed very happy with her new boyfriend.

Asher turned out to have a boyfriend he had been dating for a year before Liz. Liz knew about the boyfriend, but since he said "I'm poly and in an open relationship", we all assumed the boyfriend was okay with it.

Turns out, he wasn't okay with it and Asher got into a relationship with Liz before telling "BF". Then, afterwards, he said "Well I like "BF" first and I like him better than you so I'm breaking up with you."

Maybe I'm too upset because she's my sister, but kind of a jerk move there on his end.

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Non-single people, how long have you been with your S/O? (piefed.social)
 

I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

Did I used to be homophobic? Am I? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
Did I used to be homophobic? Am I? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] olivergarden@piefed.social 13 points 1 day ago

Honestly, just my two cents. I would say that you used to be homophobic or kind of are, but are trying to get better. That's good. You also don't seem to, from what I know, openly hate on LGBTQ+ people for who they are. While you hung out with bullies who were bigots in high school, you were young and you've grown from that. That doesn't excuse being homophobic/transphobic "by association" and not being opposed to homo/transphobia, but you have probably changed.

is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] olivergarden@piefed.social 3 points 2 months ago

reading a message and not replying

is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] olivergarden@piefed.social 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Idk what others will say, but imo no. From my experience, someone who leaves you on read is either busy a lot, doesn't wanna talk, or hates you. If it's the latter, he didn't wanna date you or be your friend anyway.

I can say that I don't remember my girlfriend ever leaving me on read. If she did, she was busy, and she would respond as soon as she could.