nedwben

joined 1 year ago
[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago

Spouse is Kenyan and I have learned a fair bit of Swahili. My spouse is fluent in English, Swahili, and their tribal language which I know basically none of.

I never could have imagined how much it would help me understand them better by understanding their language. It has profoundly changed me as a person.

Language is not purely functional, it is woven into who we are and how others perceive us to be. I started learning to simply participate more with them and their family, now I am experiencing my brain be rewritten.

As a person who only spoke English well into adulthood and then is rapidly learning a very different language and culture, I feel like I have a POV that nobody else in my life understands.

Thanks for asking :)

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

How do you forget step 3!

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)

She turned me into a newt!

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago
[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The North Crimean canal is absolutely what he was trying to talk about. He didn't even know what or where Crimea was so it was tough to understand.

Thanks for the tldr and the links, that's perfect. Appreciate the effort.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

That is absolutely what he was trying to talk about! Thank you!

It was shut down after Russia invaded in 2014 and was only %18 of the drinking water supply.

I really appreciate the effort you put in to get me that information.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

Thank you, the answers have been massively helpful. I appreciate the vote of confidence.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago

Thank you for the confirmation, I appreciate it.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, that was essentially where it was left at. He said Ukraine broke a contract with russia (he ad pivoted to the NATO encroachment defense of the war) and I said even if there was a valid contract that legally justified war, it wouldn't morally justify killing Ukrainians and displacing them from their homes.

That is the impasse we left it at.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

Not Trump himself, but he's a big fan, facebook tells him to be.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

Thank you.

I am in fact looking for the root of this disinformation my coworker has read. It was driving me crazy not being able to find any sources.

Most of these lies are based on something with some truth. I find flat out rejecting them makes no progressin the discussion, but explaining the true context works much better.

[–] nedwben@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hey, I'm back. Tried to tell him Russia the started the war, but it he was so adamant about this dam. I had no knowledge of it was impossible to break through.

Probably not going to go back to my coworker, because I just can't afford to open that can of worms. But I did genuinely need to know. I live in a disinformation riddled hotspot. I try to stay on top of the truth and the small truths bad actors sprinkle in the lies.

 

My coworker is an idiot and can't explain his own thoughts. Nice guy though.

He said he was reading and discovered that Ukrain started the Russian war by building a Dam that would starve a community of water. He didn't know when or where, but was sure it was before any invading or annexing.

I can't find any information on this. I've been googling and googling. Nothing. I can't ask him for sources because if I get him going again he won't stop.

Please help if you know anything.

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