Well, yes, I would say it's rude if you have no reason to say no. At least hear them out is usually considered nice.
But...
If the person is clearly wanting to sell something to me, or trick me into something, or take advantage of me (typical in touristic places) I would just say "no thanks" and move on.
So I will stick on Lemmy for the time being. After all I don't care for down votes, I think votes in general should not be private, because this is like a public plaza what you say is public, and attaching a reputation because of down votes is dangerously bullying and a slippery slope, so piefed doesn't actually feel like my pie at the moment.
Still maybe I will try a fresh installation just to check it out.
Interested, how do I move an instance from Lemmy to piefed?
I wasn't technically married, but after 10 years it was like it.
Anyway, technically i ended it by cheating on her, but in retrospective she had't been fulfulling her part of the relationship on oh so many levels, and i was looking (cowardly) for a way out. So the cheat become my actual wife and we have been happy ever after.
It's been the best change in my life ever. but my knees don't always agree.
As a life lesson, you need to make experience. You need to know what you want from life, and you need to learn how to care for somebody. Before these three checks are green, your relaitonships will not be lifelong or positive. Break from bad relaitonships and learn from them, but most of all, learn from yourself. Find out who you are, then start grow a couple. Find a better person than you are as your SO, learn together and grow together.
and, most of all, do not follow advice from strangers on the net.
Not really reliable, much less than wire guard. If your connection is unstable ssh not the best option. Autossh make it better, but still after a forced disconnection ssh will take a while to drop and reconnect. Wire guard is much better. I moved from ssh+autossh to wireguard and wished I did that sooner.
Beg your pardon... After my 40 all I want is good weather and time to go running or cycling or maybe swimming in a lake.
No way would like to spend time drinking alcohol or watching shitty TV.
YMMV.
Fully agree on the I don't want to go out, meaning social life, too much. Except going out cycling with my sport buddies, ofc
Wire guard to the vps with nftables port forwarding.
Check my wiki here https://wiki.gardiol.org/doku.php?id=networking%3Awireguard_redirects
Or setup ssh with port forwarding as well. Less reliable but nothing to install on a basic Linux.
Rest+backrest and the 3.2.1 rule.
One backup local on an external drive on my server Second backup on another disk connected to a WiFi ap in the house.
Third off site backup copy on my VPS.
All done by rest.
I use radicale. Safe and solid. Zero php.
You need to install a separate app if you want a web based calendar ui, or you can just use dav5x on android or any other caldav client.
Respect her and her needs. If she doesn't want, there are good reasons for that.
She is underage, so that also counts maybe?
Maybe she is protecting you, or herself... Can you tell?
Spotizerr + navidrome + tempo
Spotizerr (fast development, sometimes breaks) will let you download you spotofy playlist. 320kbps too if you have premium. Also, deezer premium accounts are free for 1 month and let you download flac.
Navidrome replace Spotify as streaming server.
Tempo is a good android client. O also love symfonium but its not free (very worth paying for, though).