Cattypat

joined 1 year ago
[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

got really tired of the "-core" haters, they seem to get upset only at the naming convention because hardcore influences often make a subgenre even heavier

like have you ever heard of mathcore?? that shits peak, its one of the noisiest subgenres i know AND it has hardcore influence

gatekeepers can stay mad

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

MEOW!!!! MROEOWOWWWWW!!!!!!

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

you just reminded me that this game exists thank you

ill see ya there :3

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

this freedom member found the trick to surviving psy-waves!! duty hates him!!!

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago

my problem with this argument is always that it neglects the mental, social, and emotional effects of raising nicotine content

physically safer for your airways? sure, but definitely not mentally healthier

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago

loool youre in the wrong place fully mask off with the "hope your kids get gangbanged" part doesnt sound you really care for the kids?

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 months ago

Me and my friends meeting up after a week

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 months ago (3 children)

its not day ruining, but as i said in my original comment the stress definitely adds up

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 months ago

oopsie daisies thats a config issue on my part ty

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago (7 children)

people like me who can be bothered by it

you not being upset by it doesnt necessarily mean there arent people who are upset by references to suicide or portrayals of sharp objects in this context

its not quite necessary or expected on lemmy as far as i can see but its definitely appreciated when i have to see one less triggering post, cause the stress does add up

though i will point out that its pretty useless when the image isnt spoilered or hidden within the body cause who reads the title first and THEN decides if they want to see the post

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 4 months ago

i said nothing arguing that suicidality is not unique or that professionals are always competent, i argued that trying to negotiate with someone who is suicidal is often traumatic and the average person isnt qualified to perform such negotiations

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 64 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

fun fact for the future: someone being suicidal is not your problem and you should not try to help beyond referring them to helpful resources

theres a reason mental health professionals are PROFESSIONALS and not just random kind people

you are (likely) not trained to handle this situatuon and thus should not engage in this lest you experience real trauma or worsen the other persons situation

so do not kill yourself in the process of trying to be the sole force stopping them

edit: felt the need to add if someone you know is experiencing suicidality, oftentimes the best and safest choice is just to make plans

suicidality is, in the majority of cases, spurred by short-term issues making people feel trapped in their current situation

so plan things with them! plan going out to a concert or restaurant! plan how they can enjoy life in the future!

this is something i feel VERY strongly about because of my own past experiences with feeling the need to "negotiate"

keep in mind im not saying you cant just talk about life with people expressing these ideas, just make sure the conversation doesnt turn into a "negotiation"

ty for reading my long ass comment thats indirectly about my own experiences i love all of you lemmings kthxbye <3

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