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As in sweetie, pumpkin, sugar, angel, etc.

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[–] Vengefu1Tuna@lemmy.zip 8 points 5 hours ago

When we first got married, instead of calling me "hubby" she called me "hooby". So I started calling her "wief" (rhymes with reef), which lead to "leafy wief", and now it's just "leafy". It's become an inside joke and it's stuck.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 2 points 7 hours ago

My wife had my number saved on her phone as , and didn't get why I found that odd. I had to change it myself.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 4 points 10 hours ago

We call each other bitch, in the most loving way. It’s kinda awkward sometimes because we forget when we’re in public and people overhear us and think we’re awful to each other. My MIL heard me whisper bitch under my breath to my wife once and was probably shocked, although she didn’t bring it up or anything. I hope she doesn’t think I’m an abusive POS or something.

[–] octobob@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 hours ago

Have not ever used words like this tbh

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 hours ago

We both use baby for each other.
Which sounds weird for some reason, when I write it down like this. Even though we’ve been using it for about 20 years now.

[–] HowlsSophie@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

BooBear 🙂

[–] MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca 6 points 14 hours ago

Boo boo kitty fuck?

[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Do you have to make the face as well ? 🥵

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

My love <3

She likes to call me Darling :3

[–] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

She is my Ducky and I am her little Crow.

But in general we are Darling to one another

[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

We don’t. Is it weird to be on a first-name-only basis?

[–] wirelesswire@lemmy.zip 7 points 15 hours ago

No. Every relationship is going to be different.

[–] LeaveItToGod@lemmy.zip 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Biiiiii....

https://youtu.be/5LGEiIL1__s

We both thought the Key and Peele episode was hilarious and we call each other Biii....

I also use "Love."

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Not in a relationship anymore but for 13 years she was my snugglebunny and I was her honeybear.

[–] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm sorry for the break, but those are cute

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 hours ago

They were, I miss it.