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I'm a guy and I have one every 2 or 3 months. But at work I think some guys have one more than once a month because they look groomed all the time.

PS: I trim my beard once a week. I'm talking about haircuts specifically.

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Lemmy is not a good source for the average man's grooming habits

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 16 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

I bought the proper hardware to cut my own hair, learned how to do the fades. It's easy to keep it the same length all the time this way.

Mainly I just got sick of paying so much for a 10 minute cut.

Edit: I'm not gonna say it was smooth sailing from day 1 I should add, I buzz cut my failures off as I was learning a couple times lol.

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

My husband has straight hair he keeps in a tight fade, like nearly bald on the sides to very short at the top, and gets his hair cut every 2 weeks. I (lady, curly hair) can go a year between, just get it cut in short layers and let them grow out to long layers. The two of my kids who like theirs short but not crazy short go a month or two between.

Basically the shorter it is, the more you have to cut it - hair grows, on average 1/2 inch (13mm) per month, so mine has a 6 inch tolerance (it doesn't really look like 6 inches of vertical growth since it isn't straight) but my husband, with such straight and short hair, has a quarter inch tolerance.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

2-3 weeks? By 5 weeks I look a little scraggly (I’m balding, so it’s not great to let it go too long, unless I’m dressing as a mad scientist for something)

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I shave it off once it starts looking like shit

[–] MeThisGuy@feddit.nl 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] lando55@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago
[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

I cut my hair when it bothers me. I don't keep track of the interval.

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

3-6 months, just self cut for the first time. Longer hair, don't know what to call the style. Like a bob with the back 80% heavily layered and the front hair being the longest (a bit past my chin).

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 days ago

For both men and women, the type of hair style matters. Long flowing can go 6 months between cuts. The shorter the cut and the more detail the more often it needs to be cut. 6 weeks is often the case for short cuts. If shaved parts, every week might be necessary. In warm weather more often than in cold weather.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Not often enough. It looks pretty ratty by the time I force myself to go. Maybe 4-6 months?

I’ve always been annoyed by haircuts so it’s difficult to motivate myself to go. However by the time I settle on a new location to regularly use, they close down. Then it’s that much more annoying o find a new place I don’t hate

I do trim my beard weekly though. Since I have the tools and know how to use them. Currently I have a full beard but cut very short, and shave my neck - shaving a straight line is tough to do

[–] nafzib@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Annoyed by haircuts? Interesting. And the places you like often close? I'm very curious about this because I just go to super cuts or whatever but corporate chain and it's always super relaxing to me. I get to tell them to do the same thing they always have done (since it's saved in my profile based on phone number), then just sit, relax and close my eyes for like 15 minutes while someone cuts my hair for me and then leave looking better than when I arrived.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Certainly some of it is on me: I don’t like to plan ahead enough for an appointment but also don’t want to wait. I prefer a place that does walk-ins and I learn when they’re unlikely to have a line.

Supercuts is a great example. My town had two of them so I went to each several times before learning that one was consistently better, so I started going there regularly. Then they closed. So now I’m going to the other but they’re a mess: employees consistently do noticeably worse job and are not attentive to incoming customers. I don’t think I set a high bar but they’re not achieving it. And specifically they insist on giving me a combover even when I say no: I know my hair is thinning but it’s past the point where a combover is anything but sad. I also don’t comb my hair to the side so a combover just looks uneven and sad. Why can’t they just accept when I say no?

My town has been going through a generational and demographic shift so all the old places are being replaced with shiny new ones. While I’m sure those new ones will do a basic haircut, they put so much effort into being shiny and modern with modern hairstyles for young adults or hairstyles traditionally associated with various demographics. Great but why can’t we keep it simple? Why can’t I walk in, ask for a haircut, give my preferences And just get it done?

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago

I shave my head 2-3 times a week.

[–] nafzib@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I only get my hair cut like 2 to 3 times a year. Basically when it starts getting in my eyes and becoming a nuisance. I rarely trim my facial hair too. Just once it starts becoming annoying to eat messier foods.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 5 days ago

for me if it reaches past the top of my ear it becomes super annoying.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

I cut my own hair every weekend. I'm in the military, though (and no, I don't just shave it). I found that I do it more to my liking (and consistently) than the barbers I've gone to, it only takes 20 minutes, I don't have to pay $30, and I can shower immediately after. I use a 6 (3/4 inch) on top, a 3 (3/8 inch) around the curve transitioning to the sides, and then fade down from there, 2 to 1.5 to 1 and finally .5 (1/16 inch) around my ears, side-burns, and most of the back. Keeps everything clean, I always look good, and I spend about $40 every year or two.

[–] JackFrostNCola@aussie.zone 2 points 5 days ago

5 weeks is my sweet spot, i wear it short-ish and 'messy' (using wax/pomade) and at about 5 weeks it gets a little bit long to spruik up and starts floppi g over and getting long at the back.

[–] devfuuu@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

3 to 4 months. From short to thick helmet style and it starts getting annoying to style and it starts generating too much heat inside to survive.

[–] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

Once a month.

It's actually become a bit of a self-care routine because I go to a Turkish barbers who'll also do ear hair burning off (nowhere near as intense as you're imagining), noise hair waxing, and a hot towel cut-throat shave.

I actually like the sensations from them all and I walk out feeling clean and fresh, gives me a monthly little boost of confidence.

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

I'm a long hair but I still go once a month or so to get a trim.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I trim my beard about once a month.

I haven’t had a haircut in about a decade.

[–] SirMaple__@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 days ago

Every 1 or 2 weeks. I buzz the whole thing with #1 guard on the clippers.

I buzz my head about once a month, otherwise I start to look bald.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 days ago

As a woman I get my hair cut every 8 weeks.

[–] Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

I would only cut my hair once a month or later if not for the neck hair. I get a cut once that shit becomes too long.

[–] southernbrewer@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Whenever my wife complains I look homeless and is willing to spend 20 minutes cutting it for me.

Which is roughly every 2-3 months I think. It'd be less often if I didn't have a wife and had to pay someone to do it, that shit gets expensive.

[–] mr_stank@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Every six weeks. Don't trim the beard though. Business up top... zz top down low

[–] Doublenut@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

Every few months, for short cuts, but it would be more if I wanted to keep the shape.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 5 days ago

anything more than 4 months is too long. since asians hair grows much faster, reach 3-5inches will start to irritate my skin(have atopic dermatitis)

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago

Curly hair, so it often looks shorter than it is. I let it grow until it gets heavy enough to be annoying. 6 months to a year, maybe.

[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Haven't had a haircut since COVID. Now I just keep it long, I'll cut off a few inches every few months.

Companies I work for ignore it because I've become a valuable greybeard, so I get away with stuff like that

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 6 days ago

Almost never. I had long hair in high school and chopped it senior year due to this thing I was doing yearbook picture wise. Took years for it to grow out and this is where I made the big mistake. For versatility I went with a mullet because of I could throw a pony tail into my collard shirt and look all conformy. As I aged my hair grew slower and slower and it never grew all that fast to begin with. At this point my wife will clean me up before an inteview or such but otherwise I don't get it cut.

Our male apprentices, especially when they are eager to "score," have a haircut 2-3 times a month.
Then again, they also take their cars to the big car wash every single week, and meticulously vacuum the interior afterwards.

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 3 points 6 days ago

I go with a ponytail, and haven't had even a trim in 2 years.

If I had my preference I'd go in about once every few months to have more vivid hair dye applied, and get a trim then.

[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 3 points 6 days ago

About once a week. I'm bald though.

[–] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I let it all grow in winter for warmth. Once it starts to warm up I start shaving my head twice a week. When the heat of summer arrives I shave my beard off and it gets added to the bi-weekly shaving.

[–] CrazyLikeGollum@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

used to go once a month or so, but then covid lockdowns happened and the barber I liked actually complied with the regulations (which is a good thing), which made it more inconvenient than I though it was worth to get a haircut. At first I figured I'd go back once things started returning to normal, but then that took a while and I never did. So, I haven't gotten an actual haircut in almost six years.

I did start getting the ends cleaned up every six months or so about a year ago though.

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