The internet really tends to be cruel. I used to open up about myself in some online spaces, but it only made me feel worse. Now I only talk about non personal stuff
this post was submitted on 06 Sep 2025
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This is such a weird collection of comments.
I guarantee you, every loser making one of those comments doesn't do shit with their lives.
They can't comprehend that in order to get better at things, you have to practice them.
Their lives consist of working, sleeping, and playing video games. It's pathetic.
i was going to take this online negativity seriously, but i was recently reminded not to
Except if you're MAGA. Then I hope you do spiral to the point that you get locked up in the crazy house.
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Do not consider online judgements at all.
Do your thing. Pursue your passions. Do it.
But my passion is clubbing baby seals...
I've found online feedback useful. You just have to be careful about where you get it and take it with a grain of salt. A very large one.
If someone gives you tips, advice, or constructive feedback: there's a good chance they're worth listening to.
Hostile, critical with no other feedback : almost certainly garbage.
The first comment in the image, to my mind, wasn't actually bad. It didn't tell them not to do something and it wasn't critical. It just said they the category was very saturated and they should temper their expectations.
And, you're also entirely correct that you should take even the feedback worth listening to with a grain of salt, or maybe a shaker. :)
There's a thousand and one ways to do anything, and it can be difficult to convey the difference between "this is how I would do it" and "this is how you should do it".
(Doing software code reviews is a skill that can help teach the difference, and not everyone learns it)
I've noticed a lot of people who give advice online can't think for themselves and therefore cannot tolerate anyone doing anything differently from them.
Once I recognized that such an idiot exists and is prevalent on online forums, it became very easy to write them off whenever I see them.
The average internet user is about as smart as the average person these days. We need to dig in order to find intelligence; it's not the norm.
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