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What subtler things make you think or notice someone is [highly] privileged?

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[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 19 points 2 days ago

One I notice in myself: a lack of fear about police interactions. I can deal with cops without worrying that they’ll assault/kill/kidnap me and drop me in the middle of nowhere for a laugh - not everyone has that privilege (though I’d call it more of a right) and I can only imagine it makes a big difference.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago

The mindset makes them privileged. You don't have to be rich. It's more about ignorance, arrogance and self-involvement.

[–] 18107@aussie.zone 17 points 2 days ago

They don't understand being told "no" because it's never happened before.

They never suffer the consequences of their own actions because a parent is always ready to step in and fix the problem for them.

[–] Skunk@jlai.lu 8 points 2 days ago

Being able to drink clean and good tasting water from the tap and never think about it (Switzerland, our tap water is from the Alps, or lakes, which also comes from the Alps...).

This is a luxury and will be more and more of a luxury, peoples should be aware that this is a huge privilege and not take it for granted.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 11 points 2 days ago

They often have simple "solutions" to the others' problems.

Much like Marie Antoniette β€” if you don't have bread, eat cake, problem solved. /s

[–] SomGye@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Being able to afford food and gas without a second thought (no need to look at prices beforehand)

[–] remon@ani.social 4 points 2 days ago

Look at this guy owning a car.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't think that falls in the privileged category but the more general category of how wealthy you are. Imo privileged requires that you were raised with wealth.

[–] SomGye@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

Its all relative but yes that makes sense as well. To me, anyone that can just casually buy food is "rich".

[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

When gas passed $1/L in Canada and I decided to ride my bike and got rid of my car. I was a university student and couldn't really afford the car anyway. But I've never left a gas station because the price was too high. If you need gas, you need gas.

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago

Wealth

The more people have it, the easier they believe that someone without any could get their own wealth.

Especially those born with wealth ... it doesn't have to be great wealth either .... just enough wealth to get a good education, a good start and even some help to start life as an adult. The more people have it, the more they believe that everyone around them is the same and if it isn't, then it's someone's failing or inability. Wealthy people can't understand that wealth is generational - that everyone should be born wealthy and if they aren't it's the fault of the person who was born or their family (who were also not born wealthy)

[–] Pappabosley@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Having parents that were able and willing to bail you out during bad times. Not in a get you out of jail sense, but even as simple as having room and food available, no matter what. This level of stability, and how helpful it can be, is something i don't think many people appreciate enough in their lives.

[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

People that just assume I should be able to afford uni.