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I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

"Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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[–] xiwi@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Life will be harder but your kids might make it better for the others

[–] unknown@piefed.social 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Will you be telling your kids this? That you created them as a sacrifice for a chance at making life better for other people?

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

When I was a kid, there was a hole in the ozone layer and we were just going to be blown up by a nuclear war, or get AIDS.

It's always been the end times.

So no, I don't worry that much about kids. I do wish that embodiment was not a forced choice, you can't ask a baby if they would like to be born. I'm sure there are planets where the 'people' have a much harder time than we do here. Sure I am incredibly angry that we are squandering this glorious advantage we have so soon. But no I am not sorry for the kids of the future and also the past really sucked for most people, you can't compare a hard life of the near future to some idealized imaginary easy life of the past.

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[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 1 points 5 days ago

Yeah, the world is overrun with dragons right now. It sucks.

But I suppose it's about one's perspective as to the point of life: Is the ideal life one of ease and leisure or of purpose?

We can choose to spite the dragons by voluntarily going extinct, or we can pass down the very best of ourselves and be good examples to raise dragon slayers to take up the mantle, whilst learning from our missteps.

I choose a perspective of hope and responsibility to humanity.

Do not pray for an easy life. Pray for the strength to overcome a difficult one. --Bruce Lee

There's some good in this world, Mr. Frodo, and it's worth fighting for. --Samwise Gamgee

[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago

Yes, I felt a deep-seated disappointment when my siblings or friends announced their pregnancy. People like to spout the cliche that every generation is born into crisis but the conditions this one is inheriting are particularly dire.

[–] wolfrasin@lemmy.today 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

When the mother bear in bondage at the bile farm kills her own cub and I gotta applaud that poor bitch

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