Well, at least the wife thinks highly of you.
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My brother in Christ, you do not realize how down bad the 20-something girls with daddy issues are.
My best friend hooked an old guy without custody of his kids. They're moving in together next week.
Edit: My point is that people like her exist and have their own preferences. Unfortunately the vast majority of men she goes out with are creeps. I'm going to support my friend, but I'm also doing a very in depth background check as soon as I learn his last name. The overwhelming majority of men interested in much younger women are creeps.
Hope they find happiness together!
My best friend, now 45 once told me that i was the only guy she was ever attacked to her that is actually younger than her. I didn't really think anything about it, untill she told me that her first real boyfriend was 45 when she was 19. And her boyfriends only got older
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About 16% in men have a fat fetish compared to <1% of women. Also about 36% of women prefer a partner heavier than them. Also, 97% want a man who’s taller than them while about 2 % of women want a man smaller than them.
Of all the people currently alive, about 7% are women aged 25-35. of those 1% like fat men, of those 2% want the man to be smaller. So you have 0.0014% of any given population who is female 25-35 and likes small fat men. About half of them are single, you you have 0.0007% of any population who will find you attractive.
In a city of 400,000 people that’s 3
Where are you getting these numbers?
Straight out of their butt im guessing
Lemmy is finally in its incelposting phase! Not good!
Don't do this, don't give me hope
This does assume that these are independent variables, which may not necessarily be the case.
I don't get the reason for posting all these magic numbers with no source, especially since it is about preference of something that is considered a "taboo" and many will refuse to properly state them, under a completely unrelevant post. So even if there is a source for these, both if the poll is in person or online, they are very unreliable.
Not to deny the minority that are people that highly prefer a fat person/partner, especially since I am both one and prefer one. I am not here to conquer every single person that sees me even if I was the complete opposite and be jacked, because that is simply unrealistic.
I am myself, with my personality and a body I feel comfortable in.
Me neither, it implies that dating is just basic stats. Which no, because dating preferences aren't independent variables. If you score low with a potential partner on a particular quality that doesn't mean they've rejected you, unless that quality is a deal breaker. They are variable's that are dependent to and from other variables, how are you with pets, are you pursuing a life goal you have set out for yourself, how are your relationships with others, ect.
Also about 36% of women prefer a partner heavier than them
Wait what? Men are naturally bigger with more muscle. Is the study implying most women prefer skinny marathon runners instead of bodybuilders?
Now this I want to know!
*is a skinny marathon runner*
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Got a link or anything to back up those stats about partner preferences? Sounds like some made up vcel nonsense.
Height was not stated. Also, if she doesn't care about his marital status she probably doesn't care about her own. Also also, it is stated that she is 25. Not going to do the math, so I will assume we are up to 1%
These magic numbers make my happy
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fat
Not a deal breaker. The dad bod is in. I suspect other dad qualities are also in. Like sweatpants and socks with sandals.
!socks with sandals!<
Whoa! A little warning before dropping something that hot in here!
Do the dad qualities of already having a wife and children help? Lol
Doesn't get more dad like than being a dad!
If you have enough money that your dad titles gets a sweet prefix
I prefer the gender-neutral glucose-guardian
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That's what I'd be telling my fiancee as a joke because I know she's a chubby chaser (in her own words).
Hey sweatpants can do some work. Are they grey?
Also 40s can be good-looking
And "fat" is pretty subjective; people with average bodytypes can be very successful with confidence
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"You never told me not to!"
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