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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] 0485919158191@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I’m a Reddit blackout leaver, never going back. Ever.

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[–] unicornBro@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 months ago (4 children)

In a way, Reddit is helping me move to Lemmy permanently by not letting me post.

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[–] Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Permabanned from reddit and don't feel like going through the hassle of bypassing it. I still browse every now and then for niche content that just doesn't exist on Lemmy but otherwise I'm on here exclusively.

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

I am Canadian. I quit Reddit and joined Lemmy several months ago. Not because of any issues with Reddit but because of all that american trump 51st state crap.

[–] swagmoney@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

lemmy exclusively for me! ive been here since i got kicked off of the boost app lol

[–] Lorindol@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy only. I quit Reddit when the third party apps fell.

I do miss some of the niche hobby subreddits, but fuck Spez. If I need to find some info, I can access it via search engines.

Otherwise I'm perfectly happy with Lemmy, people are generally much nicer and there's more than enough content. Reddit was so overbloated that this smaller universe is quite enough for me.

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[–] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] MITM0@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

I am hardcore lemmy user

[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Haven't been to reddit since I joined here.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I don't have a reddit account and only comment on lemmy. Although I do check the reddit frontpage every so often the actual communities I interact with are here.

Other than that, I have a mastodon account which I'm quite active on and a letterboxd too. Last thing would be linkedin but I don't post there and maybe login to it once a quarter.

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[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I completely quit reddit in protest after using it for over ten years when it threatened to replace the moderators of a small subreddit I participated in after that subreddit shut down during the API protests. I don't actually care about the API myself (I never used anything other than old reddit) but I thought that reddit had no moral (as opposed to merely legal) right to take over something the mods had built and it merely hosted.

Lemmy is worse, but at least I'm following my principles.

[–] Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I don't think it's particularly hardcore myself, I've just been moving away from platforms as they've been enshittifying. I was on reddit over ten years but left over the API thing and haven't been back. I stopped using Facebook a few years ago and haven't missed it at all. I stopped using twitter when musk bought it, tried using mastodon for a bit but it was kinda barren so I'm on bluesky now. I still check in on mastodon occasionally. I'll move on from these platforms too if they turn to shit. It's easy to get caught in a kinda sunk cost thing with platforms, but really it doesn't matter how long you've been there, how many Facebook friends you have, how much karma, whatever - if it turns to shit it's time to move on, and best go early to avoid the rush!

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Yes I uninstalled everything except Lemmy and it feels like 2007 again

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 months ago

Avoiding the shit from enshittification isn't hardcore, it's just the normal adult thing to do.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 6 points 2 months ago

If the Japan life/visa/legal/finance subreddits would fully move over, I could finally be rid of reddit. Sadly, they have not. Some subs exist, but it's worthless without the institutional knowledge that some of the people have; Japanese legalese be tough.

[–] KuroiKaze@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Lemmy, no Reddit anymore

[–] Crikeste@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago

Only Lemmy.

Im IP banned from Reddit though. Still wouldn’t ever go back.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 months ago

Only Lemmy and Mastodon and that's too much !

Though i have test accounts with with GotoSocial and Piefed.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Well, I'm permanently banned from Reddit, so....here I am!

[–] nek0d3r@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I never post or browse Reddit anymore, but I'll still look at Reddit search results. There's just too much good information on there that you just can't find elsewhere.

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[–] Samsy@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

Lemmy and Mastodon now for 4 years. It's the only social media I regular use. Ok there is a bluesky and nostr account but I visit them once in a month.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

not quite

I nearly exclusively use Lemmy over Reddit, mastadon over xitter and Facebook, pixelfed over Instagram, ("nearly" because I still have the accounts, in case someone needs to contact me there). Although Lemmy is the only one I use frequently.

I still use YouTube and tiktok instead of peertube and loops though. They're just not big enough to host the content I'm interested in.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 months ago

I also use Reddit. My local sub can’t be replicated here, unfortunately, and it’s a very valuable resource to know what’s going on in the local community.

[–] BingoBongo1942@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I exclusively use Lemmy to complain when my new Reddit account gets shadowbanned again. The issue is that the communities here simply are not big enough. I go on the Lemmy alternatives of the subreddits I visit often and there are like 4 posts over the course of multiple years

[–] hellerphant@lemmy.cafe 6 points 2 months ago

I am going to make a more concerted effort to use Lemmy more than Reddit moving forward. I just wish it had more info over here. I think from now on if I cannot find the info that I seek on Lemmy, I will find some sources on Reddit and then maybe pay it forward via sharing my findings on Lemmy. That's at least what I'm going to try and do for a while and see if I can help make a difference.

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

I literally only use Lemmy, I'm not even all that interested in Mastodon XD

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

It's not normal here? I'm only Lemmy+mastodon (with a bsky bridge)

[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I deleted my Reddit account and switched to Lemmy after the API stuff. I kinda regret deleting my account because it wasn’t until after that I learned about the apps that would scrub your comment history, but Reddit has a tendency to roll those back anyway.

I still sometimes end up on a Reddit thread when searching for some technical issue, but I generally try to browse other forums for solutions first if possible.

ETA: all other social media stuff like Instagram and Facebook I deleted around the time of Trump’s first election. Just got sick of the constant stream of bullshit.

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Team Lemmy 100 %.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Until Lemmy can offer me the active specialized subs I use reddit for, it's pretty hard to drop it completely.

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[–] MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

unfortunately reddit still has way more stuff on it. so i read reddit. that said, I do not contribute to reddit because there is just no fucking point.

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[–] vga@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Reddit has some sort of permabanned me, so I cannot get even new accounts there. So you guys get to enjoy me here, yay!

They unfortunately still have the critical mass, and even though Lemmy is getting better on that front, there's just so much more stuff on Reddit.

[–] tartarin@reddthat.com 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm banned from Reddit and since the appeal process is bullshit, I didn't bother to appeal.

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[–] Nightsoul@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I exclusively use Lemmy on my phone, only time I use reddit if I'm searching something and it pops up in the results because it usually has the answer or gets me closer to it

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Mostly Lemmy here. I use it for my doomscrolling and distraction, and for that it's imho much better than Reddit, since the content is much less fake (I hate all that AITA creative writing and similar crap) and the politics are better.

I do sometimes use Reddit for when I actually have questions about some deeper topic. Lemmy sadly doesn't have the manpower and the decades of content to help me when I need to know how to overclock a specific 15 yo netbook or when I need help with some issue in a game or something. For that, there's sadly hardly a way around Reddit. Some things can be (badly) covered by Stack Exchange, some things I can maybe find on DuckDuckGo between heaps of AI slop, or I could let ChatGPT lie to me by hallucinating a wrong answer. But in many cases there is sadly no way around Reddit.

[–] surfacedfox@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

Been feeling that a lot lately. As of the past couple days I've been exclusively on Lemmy/PieFed

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yes. I don't even think of it as hardcore really, just that lemmy is good enough for my use case. If I don't find something I want in the fediverse, I'll create/post it myself.

*I'll also read a relevant thread on reddit, but I use the libredirect plugin so I always view through a front end (that I also connect to through a vpn).

**I will also say that there are some article posts that I don't think I'd be able to find easily with msm, mostly anything to do with Palestine.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I’m banned from Reddit so I’m here and this is my only social media left

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[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm such a solipsist, I'm surprised reddit is still relevant to anyone. I certainly come across some posts when searching for tech or product questions, but that's it.

Although even outside of the fedi, I spend more and more of my time just looking at people's individual websites and blogs. I've got a basically bottomless RSS feed curated by this point, so I don't even need an aggregator for the scroll -- I've got my own.

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