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I feel like it would be hard to say "brr" with an English accent, because the soft R would just make it sound like "buh".

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[–] fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk 6 points 4 hours ago

We kind of go "brur".

[–] kux@lemm.ee 3 points 3 hours ago

If it is particularly taters out it can be done by clenching your teeth, lips together but not firmly closed, saying 'buh' and blowing. The 'rrrr' is produced by your lips flapping together. It is quite fun to do

[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 18 points 9 hours ago

Fookin wank shrinka innit

[–] onyxjet@lemmy.world 12 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Does anyone actually say brr?? 🤔

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 hours ago

Like, all the time.

Every time i get out of shower (barring summer), for one.

[–] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

If they can brrap, they can brr

[–] Deebster@infosec.pub 18 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Tbh, I don't think you really understand how the non-rhotic accent works. In this case, the /r/ would be fully pronounced, as it would be at the start of a word. Say bread, elongate the r and skip the ed part and you have what it sounds like.

If you're very used to hearing the bunched r, the British version still might sound softer, but even in the USA (where most people use bunched r) it's still common to hear an r made with the tip of the tongue behind the teeth (upper or lower).

I'm ignoring the other r sounds, but you do find a lot of them across the various regional English accents.

[–] BmeBenji@lemm.ee 5 points 9 hours ago

I don’t have the answer but I’ve always thought it was interesting that British-English spells the filler words that Americans normally write as “uhh” or “um” as “er” or “erm”

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 34 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Not all British accents are non-rhotic to begin with. Exposure to the sound and ability to reproduce it, even if not a lot in speech, means that the onomatopoeia, if used, should be the same.

In languages where a sound doesn't exist, it gets more interesting. In Japanese, bzzz is not pronounceable and for a buzzer (or something like a phone in vibrate mode) they will say ブー (buu) which is just the syllable bu with a long u sound (think of a crowd booing, but the o vowel there is different to the Japanese u vowel).

[–] sad_detective_man@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

that's really neat. though I was hoping they would r-r-r-r-oll the R. now I'm curious about different onomatopoeia in other languages

[–] Blackout@fedia.io 9 points 14 hours ago

The Spanish roll their tongues, the British swallow theirs

[–] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

You are so close. bzzz is not any closer to the buzzing sound than the japanese buu

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 14 hours ago

I would argue it depends upon the buzzing device, but bzzz for all of them is indeed arbitrary. Even IPA doesn't represent sounds that humans can't produce, so it wouldn't suffice, but them's the breaks.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

At least it has the vibration.

[–] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 13 hours ago

But not the vibration. Of buzzing. Like the "gravel"-y type testosterone vibration.

[–] Goretantath@lemm.ee 9 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I dont even say "brr" i jist go "fuck its colllld" and shake on the l.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 hours ago

What a wonderful mental scene you have crafted for us. Thank you.

[–] wewbull@feddit.uk 22 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

No, we say "FUCK! It's cold".

[–] then_three_more@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Or "fucking freezing init"

[–] BlueEther@no.lastname.nz 2 points 3 hours ago

ih ah bit coal oot?

at least that waht it sounded like up north yorks when I first moved there from New Zealand

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 10 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

In French it sounds like Chewbacca

[–] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 12 hours ago

I literally laughed out loud at this 😆

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm Australian. I say something closer to "buh", but I introduce vibrato to the sound down near my vocal cords, rather than by trilling the R in my mouth

[–] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 12 hours ago

Interesting, I can see that.

[–] NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago (2 children)
[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world -1 points 14 hours ago
[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 5 points 13 hours ago

For me it's a vowel sound, sure, but the mouth is definitely in, or moves to, the position it would be if a pronounced R, and presumably a vowel, was about to follow.

Probably more so than in the pronunciation of name of the letter R itself, in fact, which is indistinguishable from "ah".

But perhaps more importantly, no, we generally don't say "brr" anyway, except in exaggeration or for effect. You're more likely to hear something like "it's bl--dy freezing" or "my hands/feet are like ice".

[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

Now I'm just imagining a Scotsman pronouncing it and really rolling that R 😂

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Chozo@fedia.io 4 points 13 hours ago
[–] DrMoronicAcid@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

I'd have thought different regions have their own way of saying they're cold - for example up north, I'm "nithered" is a reasonably common way to say you're cold...

[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 3 points 14 hours ago

Not usually, I wouldn't, but if I would I would pronounce the r like short oo with vocal fry