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Original question text by @CozyLorraine@lemmy.world

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[–] stonedtemplepilot@lemmy.world 1 points 1 minute ago

So I received a 1 week ban from the JusticeServed sub because I made a comment shitting on Elon Musk in r/joerogan. Yeah these people will auto ban you from their sub if you're not even subscribed there. When I messaged the mods that telling them that's just lame, the admins banned me from Reddit for 7 days and then I understood that Reddit isn't a place where actual discussion is allowed to take place. I also like how Lemmy doesn't entice doomscrolling as much as Reddit since (for now at least) slower with updating content.

[–] aldfin@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] cabillaud@lemmy.world 1 points 31 minutes ago

Just Yeah. I canceled my Amazon subscription yesterday. I should have do so long time ago.

[–] w3dd1e@lemm.ee 6 points 3 hours ago

Not banned. I chose Lemmy because I’m a big believer in the ideas of the fediverse and I want it to succeed.

I do still have to use Reddit occasionally to look up info that hasn’t made it here yet, but I don’t post or comment there.

[–] peregrin5@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Banned. Lol.

I was a bit passionate in my support for Luigi so it wasn't an unfair ban unless you count the fact that it's unfair to be punished for supporting violence against dealers in death.

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

my first account was banned because I was critical of Christianity and it hobby of murdering people

[–] hopesdead@startrek.website 4 points 4 hours ago

I left after the API price hike.

[–] Earflap@reddthat.com 2 points 4 hours ago

Steve Huffman is a greedy piss boy

[–] twice_hatch@midwest.social 2 points 4 hours ago

Last time I tried to make an account it was instantly shadow banned. Maybe they don't like my email address, who knows. It's kind of a dump over there anyway

[–] kinther@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago

I left reddit and deleted my accounts, post and comment history. I had modded a couple high sub communities there and felt it had become less friendly over the years. I initially joined in 2011 but only really started using it during the Digg exodus.

Lemmy feels like old school reddit. So I use it 99% of the time and only check some very specific subreddits when I need to look up something for work.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

Fuck reddit, I left as soon as I could and deleted my accounts.

[–] SereneSadie@lemmy.myserv.one 4 points 7 hours ago

Banned from reddit for calling violence on Musk.

Frankly, I'm not impressed with Lemmy either, especially because personal interests are just so much harder to find engagement on.

So, whatever that answer amounts to.

[–] Ironfist79@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Both. Getting banned from reddit did me a favor, really.

[–] tehfishman@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Fed up with Reddit's owners, so I stopped my daily use. I did like Reddit more because of some well moderated and active subreddits, and I do occasionally pop my head in over there once a week or so to stay informed, but I spend almost all of my time here and on mastodon now.

I had a similar relationship with Facebook around 2015. Stopped pretty much entirely except for when I need to engage with Facebook marketplace, and I generally try to use Craigslist first.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 3 points 8 hours ago

Just like Lemmy more. Reddit has become to enshittified for me to use it anymore, except for some niche stuff due of Reddit's larger traffic volume.

[–] Burninator05@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I use both. I've attempted to replicate the subreddits I was subscribed to on Lemmy with very limited success. I'm not sure if I just need to subscribe to more instances or if my expectations are off.

[–] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago

Both. It's actually funny. Someone posted that image of alternatives to things like Reddit and Whatsapp and Google, etc, and it had Lemmy on it. I was at the point where I was getting sick of Reddit and had one account banned already. I joined Lemmy, and a few days later my other account got banned for up voting a comment that was just the gif of Luigi (the Nintendo character) smoking a cigarette. I had already decided I liked Lemmy more at that point, so whatever. The one thing that sucks is that I had my own little sub with a couple thousand members where I posted my writing, and people seemed to like it. I enjoyed sharing my stories with all those weirdos, and now I can't.

[–] JigglySackles@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

Banned on some subs. Mostly just left because I saw it enshittifying.

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

I used a script to delete my comment history and no longer know my password not care to recall it. I don't log in anymore, only lurk.

[–] beliquititious@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I prefer Lemmy. The community is way friendlier and there are 9000% fewer bots. Also I frequently deleted my reddit accounts for mental health reasons and on occasion in protest and rebuilding a reddit account to the point you can comment in most subs is so annoying. In like a year of using Lemmy on and off I've had more real conversations with real people than I did in thriteen years as a redditor.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

My Reddit account is probably 17 now. I haven't logged in for ages, so I'm unsure. In any case, early Reddit prior to the DIGG debacle was pretty much like here. I think that the angry/edgy types had been on DIGG the whole time. It was when they went over to Reddi that it started to become meaner. Then wen subs cam out, it very quickly turned into what we know today.

No, Reddit is permanently banned from me.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

During the whole API issue, I got a permanent ban from one of my favorite subs over a random and unimportant comment that included a stream of insults from the mod. It was completely unwarranted and pretty obviously was reactionary behavior by someone projecting their bad mood against the world. I sort of looked at my hands and wondered why I would ever want to spend more time on that toxic cesspool. I immediately stopped using the service entirely and moved fulltime over to Lemmy (had an account already, but I was only dabbling prior). I do miss some aspects of Reddit, but that Reddit started its painful death somewhere around Lockdown.

[–] imaqtpie@lemmy.myserv.one 0 points 6 hours ago

Why not use the cross-post function? Original post is at asklemmy@lemmy.ml btw

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago

I got a 7 day ban from Reddit and decided if they denied my appeal they were a lost cause. Tried blue sky, mastodon, a news app with comments, gave up on that. Then in an article about open source platforms asked if Reddit had one and someone replied Lemmy.

[–] bluegreenwookie@bookwormstory.social 11 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I mostly switched to lemmy because the mobile reddit app i used finally broke after the api changes.

I refuse to use that shitty reddit app and the creator of the app i used made a lemmy app so here i am

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

I like swiping to switch between home and all

[–] Michal@programming.dev 2 points 17 hours ago
[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 10 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I never used Reddit properly, Lemmy was also open source, I get no replies, no interaction on Reddit, nearly every comment and post I make on Lemmy gets someone to reply, it's almost impossible to go back to Reddit once you get used to you always getting some form of attention

[–] wazoobonkerbrain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

nearly every comment and post I make on Lemmy gets someone to reply

Nice comment!

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 8 hours ago

I get no replies, no interaction on Reddit

Reddit is really fucking passive-aggressive about hiding/not posting stuff and not telling you. If I'm banned or a comment/post is removed, have the fucking balls to tell me. And no, I don't buy the argument of shadowbanning...it's really easy to figure it out simply by logging out.

[–] rageagainstmachines@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago

Never banned. Just moved over here after it was even more clear that they don't have our best interests in mind. And never did.

Same for Xitter.

[–] Amberskin@europe.pub 9 points 19 hours ago

I am.

First, I got a three days ban for ‘prompting violence’. The flagged post said just literally ‘The Heritage foundation should be labeled as a terrorist group in Europe’. I appealed, just to get the temporary ban confirmed with no further reasoning.

But that was moot, because two days after that I got a permaban for ‘using multiple accounts to evade a temporary ban’. I just had an account, with a good number of years behind. I appealed this too, and got a ‘we are not changing this’ reply.

So I nuked my account, looked a little bit around and found this.

I miss some of the technical communities I was part in Reddit. But fuck them.

[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 1 points 12 hours ago

Yes except for niche subs. I visit reddit about once a week now instead of daily. Can't wait for the day to come when I can leave for good.

[–] cokeslutgarbage@lemmy.world 10 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

I left reddit during the api drama last year (more than a year?). I did it on principle. The content on lemmy is not comparable to the niche communities on reddit. Yeah, Steve Huffman is a little pissbaby or whatever the current meme is. But lemmy doesn't have the art communities or the weird goofy shit that reddit did, and as a chronically online loser, my life is a little emptier without it. And I know how stupid and unimportant that is, which is why I'm here and not there.

Plus the porn on lemmy is just like... so disappointing and sparse.

Unrelated- I'm ready to switch to Linux, but do I really have to learn what a distro is and how to build my own PC? Can't I just buy a Linux PC ready to go? Please?

[–] desktop_user@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 hours ago

almost any computer made in the last two decades can run Linux, I wouldn't recommend trying to use it on a laptop though (laptops frequently choose to think different [not follow specifications]). For distros I would recommend Debian because almost all software that is made for Linux gets tested on it.

[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 4 points 19 hours ago

Hey stranger! I switched for the same reason from reddit to lemmy and while I can't help you with the porn problem... you may want to look into Linux Mint.

There are very easy to understand guides online (e. g. on itsfoss.com you can find an installation guide, recommended first steps after installation, ...) and there are communities here on lemmy as well. So this may not be the same or a replacement for the communities you miss from reddit but maybe something new to focus on and a way to get in touch with other more or less chronical online people :)

[–] RamenDame@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Switched for the same reason. I have the feeling that in the last couple of weeks lemmy got a lot more interactions, especially after Elon tried to ban posts on reddit, but maybe it is just a feeling. Initially I really missed Reddit. Some inside jokes where missing for my communities. Having this girl show up in everyone’s inbox felt like the first kind of sitewide memory to look back onto. I don’t miss the porn. Having to see crazy attractive people all the time made me feel bad. Would prefer fair trade porn if I seek it.

[–] cokeslutgarbage@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Nicole never messaged me and I miss the ol' switcharoo and beetlejuicing and r/catsstandingup :,(

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[–] ghewl@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was the primary mod/founder for a fairly large subreddit. During the blackout protests Reddit threatened to remove my mod rights if I didn’t reopen the subreddit. I told them to get fucked, and my account was banned. They also removed the other mods and installed new mods. I haven’t touched the platform since and will never use Reddit again.

🖕spez

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[–] Atin@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

Perma banned for saying child rapists should get a taste of their own medicine.

[–] FarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.world 9 points 22 hours ago

I barely use Reddit now. I’ve unfollowed any sub that has an equivalent here.

The main one holding me back is that native speakers of my language are there.

[–] venotic@kbin.melroy.org 3 points 17 hours ago

I'm definitely banned permanently, I'm pretty sure I've got one of those evercookies somewhere that will make sure I stay banned, whether it's outright or a shadow-ban.

And it is mainly because of having engaged with some of the lowest of the low, deformed individuals that somehow inhabit there untouched. It had gotten so bad to where they would bombard my posts when I was ranting about things like my shitty job and they just dogpile on you for no reason other than they can because the mods aren't active enough.

I can't imagine what it is like now being there and trying to criticize Musk or something since he's apparently having a say now on it and Spez will bend over for his daddy.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 112 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Left during the API thing, and everything I see confirms that I made the right choice.

Especially the fact that there are no investors to appease, no profit motive, and no advertising. It's like a slice of the old web.

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[–] MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

I left reddit one December (think it was 2023). They showed off thier Reddit Recap. Realised I switched from windows to linux to AVOID data collection, then use an app that gladly showed off all the data they collect.

[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 6 points 22 hours ago

I'm currently trying out Lemmy because reddit is killing the Old Reddit interface and I refuse to use their shitty app or new interface website. Plus after using it I think it's kind of fun to have reddit but smaller and more curated. It's like Reddit used to be back in like 2012.

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 3 points 19 hours ago

I'm not banned, I just won't go there anymore.

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