Shower and a cup of tea or coffee
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Try Melatonin and Vitamin D about an hour before bedtime.
Wait, why vitamin D before bed?
I thought your body produces it in response to daylight, so I always thought that should be taken in the day?
Actually, yeah, that may well be a "me" thing. I shouldn't presume. It really helps me feel more alert in the morning when taken before bed, I've noticed, having tested just Melatonin and the two together repeatedly, but I shouldn't presume everyone would need it. Though, it's Vitamin D, so it probably won't kill you.
Melatonin is a hormone. Taking it consistently can fuck up your body’s natural production of it. It should be used sparingly.
My estradiol alarm. Starting the day has never felt so good.
Apologies in advance, for I am kind of dumb, but what does this mean?
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- I just need a good 7 hours of sleep at least. You can't cheat sleep duration. Eventually, you'll need to catch up if you aren't getting enough and it'll compound the bad feeling.
- I fall asleep faster if I've had a drink, but not necessarily better. I might wake up in the middle of the night if I do.
- Pattern is important. If you usually wake up at 9 or 10am and want to wake up at 5 or 6am instead, you'll probably have some meh feeling regardless, but the more you do it, the better it gets. Maybe consider moving your normal wake up time closer to the earliest times you want to wake up.
The only thing I've tried that actually works: apps like Sleep Cycle.
The app tracks your sleep, but that's secondary for you. What you want out of it is the alarm part. You give it an interval of time when you want to wake up, and it'll do it based on which sleep stage you're in.
The idea is simple - you have different stages of sleep. Sometimes you're in deep sleep, sometimes in REM (rapid eye movement), sometimes in light sleep - there may be others, idm. You want to wake up from light sleep, that's when you feel the most fresh. Waking up from deep sleep you're all groggy and still half asleep. So the app determines when you're in the lightest sleep, and it plays an alarm gradually, so that you're not just scared awake.
You can read more here: https://www.sleepcycle.com/features/smart-alarm-clock/
The thing is, this feature is actually not why I got the app. I wanted to track my sleep, I didn't really care about how I woke up. But I honestly just found it easier to wake up with this, so now I recommend it.
That sounds awesome, I wish I could use that. Unfortunately my fiancée and I have very different sleeping habits and I imagine one of us is going to be waking up at the wrong point in the sleep cycle. Sounds like a great idea though
If you hold the phone on your side of the bed, it should theoretically record your sleep pattern, not hers. So it should play the alarm when you're in light sleep, not her. And since the alarm starts off with low volume, there's a high chance you will be the first to hear it - she might not even notice it before you're already up. Unless you're a heavy sleeper and she isn't, in which case - yeah, it might not work.
How early? When I had to get up at 5, it just sucked no matter what. At 7? Just do it for a couple of weeks until you can be sleepy at 11pm, it will work itself out.
It doesn't just work itself out for everyone.
Sure, but it's certainly the first thing to try. Get up when you need to, go to bed when you get sleepy. And I do think there is some "7:00" for everyone, some earliest time that can feel good, unless you have a literal sleep disorder, in which case asking the internet doesn't seem like the best strategy.
Definitely the first thing to try, along with not looking at screens/the blue light spectrum.
Yellow zzzquil at bedtime
Alarm clock set for an hour before you need to wake up, now spend that extra hour doing nothing or taking a morning nap.
Do you mean regularly or exceptionally?
If I need to get up early as an exception I just go to bed earlier and automatically tend to wake up before my early alarm.