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Assuming sex with another person is not an option. What are some good ways to release or divert sexual frustration?

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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Tbf, OP said "How do you deal with..."

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I think he meant it in a “help me manage”, not “tell me about you” way.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It is both! I'm happy to hear your story or your advice!

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub 2 points 5 hours ago

Oh, in that case… masturbate but don’t watch porn, the former will calm you, and the latter will make you more horny.

Also, being young is hard; don’t be afraid to pay for safe sex if you need it, consider it a fair commercial exchange.