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My fear is that, and to be clear, this is just my own fears, not saying that this will happen, but I fear that my parents could get me exit-banned and bribe some corrupt doctor to declare me insane or something and force involuntary ECT or someshit like that and wipe my memories of their emotional abuse/neglect. But again, that’s just my fears, I hope they aren’t secretly that controlling/manipulative.

Here in the US, they are nobodys, they don’t have the Guanxi to do weird things, so its harder for them to weaponize the government’s tentacles against me. Things have to go through the courts and unlike China, they can’t just do involuntary treatments without a court order.

Well... as long as you're not a teenager. I had pretty similar fears growing up in a conservative Christian family that my parents might send me to some camp like that. The "troubled teen industry" is very unregulated and has seen a lot of cases of child abuse and even deaths, and kids can end up there for any reason at all, it just takes parental consent. I didn't dare tell them when I was having doubts about God until long after I had moved out and had completely left that shit behind. If they thought I was going to spend eternity in Hell there's no telling what they might have done, and they also probably didn't even know about all the abuse and stuff that happens there and wouldn't have listened to me if I tried to talk my way out of it. It was pretty terrifying, and probably contributed to my far-left political views today.