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There may be an age or generational explanation for this, but I especially notice this behavior on Reddit while not nearly as much here on Lemmy (though maybe that's also a mater of implementation).

It seems many are so quick to assert overly-confident positions, but then hit-and-run with some smarmy remark at even the slightest challenge, then quickly block. Like, not even crazy stuff. Just basic, civil disagreements. I can pretty well predict when it will happen, and it always feels like such a petty ego-sparing fingers-in-ears denial thing to do, and to me if anything shows they were not very confident in their views being challenged.

I think I've only blocked a handful of people over a decade who were actively spamming, stalking, or spewing extremely hateful rhetoric and I just reported them simultaneously. You have to cross a pretty extreme and irrational line for me to do that.

The reason I ask is to see if I'm missing something; to better understand the mindset of those who do.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I have blocked more in the last year than I have in the last 20 combined. There are far, far too many people arguing to troll, arguing in bad faith, threatening, or insulting that will do everything they can to bait you, derail your argument, DM you with insults, etc.

It’s probably because I’ve become far more critical of anti-science, shitty politics, and shitty people, so I’m sure that’s part of the reason, but nonetheless I don’t have the time or patience anymore to waste on the pigeons knocking pieces over and shitting on the chessboard declaring victory, so I block them.

I also have been blocked outright when presenting any objectively factual rebuttal. Facts are often strictly disallowed in the narrative, particularly political and anti-science ones. People don’t want their flow of internet “likes” interrupted.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I need to start blocking people for my own sanity. You tell them the sky is blue, and they'll demand a source. You send them a picture of the sky and they tell you its not a source. You dick about spending 5 minutes of your time finding an actual source because you obviously weren't prepared to defend something so obvious, and they just tell you "pfft [source]. Actually trusting [source] in [thisyear]." It goes on.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah I gave up 'sourcing' anything because nobody will believe sources anymore. They will just tell you the source is wrong.

And if you tell them to look up their own sources, they tell you to f yourself and how it isn't their job its yours.

It's stupidity and entitlement wrapped up into one neat package.

I also love people who tell you what you are staying is a 'fallacy' when it's not. And they really do not care about learning what a fallacy actually is... they just want to use it to call other people wrong even if they totally misunderstand how fallacies work.

They simple do not want to admit fault or mistake or god forbid... learn something new.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Same man.

I never used to block people on principle... but at the same time people never said horrible shit or harassed me so there really was no reason to.

People also were not posting all sorts of crazy nonsense 10 years ago in the same volume or lever of vitriolic hate they do now.