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Much more as a middle aged person than when I was a teen / younger adult. Probably still less scared than when I was a little kid.
I watched a lot of darker / violent movies when I was 15-25, and really enjoyed them. But over time I started finding horrible stuff happening really hard to watch. It's not so much the fear, it's just that I can now empathise and imagine suffering in a way that I just couldn't when I was young.
I can't enjoy a stupid slasher movie when all I can think of is how the families of the dead teens would have to deal with the grief. Even action movies, unless they're pretty campy, just remind me of what real people genuinely and tragically have to experience.
It's kinda shitty. Sometimes I think i need to desensitise myself, but it also means that older movies where violence and darkness is often implied are still really impactful.