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Hello again Lemmy! I have another question.

Context: I took a motorcycle safety class, was nervous but enjoyed it, researched motorcycles, found a few I liked, talked to a dealer about them but ultimately, I couldn’t finalize a deal, talked myself out of it basically

I was curious how others might justify a purchase that has no purpose other than wanting something.

For clarity, I don’t need anyone to justify me buying a motorcycle. I want to read about your thought processes for buying something you want 🙂

As always thanks for replying and have an awesome day/night!!

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[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We have a rule of three. If there's something you see that you want and end up coming back to it 3 or more times, you buy it.

I've gotten a number of items this way, like my Deadpool jersey. I couldn't justify spending like $40 on it to myself, but I really liked the design and material. I kept finding my way back to the stand, so I bought it at the direction of my wife before we left. I love that thing in the winter because it keeps me cozy without making me sweat.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is interesting. The rule of three for bigger things, how does that work? Do you say “this is the third time I’ve researched/looked at/talked to some about, it’s time to do it”?

Appreciate the response.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm an odd case, as I'm in a throuple. So we can do the rule of 3 by vote alone 🤣

But fr, its more like discussing and airing wants vs need vs cost over a few sessions to make sure it's something we want and sits well with everyone.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 week ago

I feel like a dummy, I had no clue what “throuple” was… after looking it up, oooooh couple but for three people 🤦‍♂️

Got it, I can see how that would require a consensus of opinion!!