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Oh yeah. Happens to me not infrequently, though less as I get older and choose my battles more wisely.
On my best days, I apologize and bow out of the discussion. On my worst days, I just ghost the entire thread.
Choosing your battles wisely seems to be good advice. I think it's a good quality, if people can concede if they were wrong. I hsbe the impression that being wrong is too often sanctioned or frowned upon, whereas a more accepting, forgiving stance might make it easier for people to admit their errors.
I think there are definitely a lot of compounding issues that all combine to make admitting you're wrong something that's really hard to do. Some of them related to brain chemistry, some of them entirely societal, like you mentioned. But I do think that it's on the person who was wrong to be the one who does the growing; it shouldn't be society that has to pick up the slack for an arrogant and incorrect person.