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[–] gooey@lemm.ee 118 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

It's very simple, most of the posts here are circle jerks (Linux, FOSS, boy howdy aren't we better than Reddit, communism) or rage bait.

I only come here when I'm having a good day and I want to reel myself in a bit

Edit: see below to see how far Lemmy users will go to circle jerk how much better they are than Reddit

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Yeah the "All" in particular is pretty bad for the average person. They're not going to enjoy a Star Trek meme, followed by a Arch meme, a Self-hosted post, a grad-student Science meme, followed by a privacy post.

I'm also convinced Lemmy's "hot" algorithm is broken; I can easily find posts with ONE UPVOTE on the all feed. Hot is supposed to be a balance between acceleration and total vote count, but it seems like it just only acceleration. Go look at the front page of reddit. The difference is night and day.

We need a normie.world that has an "all" feed that doesn't contain 70% niche communities. We have c/humor, c/news, etc but they're completely diluted by overpowered niche posts.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have a potentially contentious opinion. Normies are what ruined Reddit and the crowd attracted by normie communities are why Reddit is even more toxic than it used to be.

We don't need to attract normies, we just need to attract more people like us.

I don't hate normies by any means, but I don't want to hang out with them all day either.

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Yeah I completely disagree. Imagine if a city/local gov wanted to use Lemmy in order to be self hosted (similar to EU govs switching to Mastodon) but the public just wonders why their local gov put their stuff on a weird circle jerk website that's flooded with niche memes. "Why didn't they use the normal thing (i.e. reddit)?"

We should be welcoming enough that, when someone wants to make a new subreddit, they make Lemmy community instead. And I don't think thats the case right now.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

That's fair. Hadn't considered that

[–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Memes that people don't get are unwelcoming."

If a person sees something they've never seen before, and turns around and flees, that's a problem with them being sheltered and pathetic, not a problem with the new thing they haven't encountered before.

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

It's not fleeing as much as it is being so bored that that they never really find the motivation to come back.

[–] cro_magnon_gilf@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The worst part of trying to appeal more to normies is how they hand out bans like they're candy.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Gotta appeal to advertisers that want the normie eye balls.

I hate using the word normie, because these people truthfully haven't done anything wrong. It's the advertisers that follow them around like vampires that are the issue.

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Under a centralized system, bans are terrible. But federation is awesome because it's perfectly okay for an instance to be ban-happy. Just join another instance. (I'm on lemm.ee because I want to see everything)

Not only is it fine, but I think we actually need a variety of instances; no-bans, some-bans, lots-of-bans, and excessive-bans. People should have the choice.

[–] slackassassin@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Nothing more normie than tribalism.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Then go use Reddit if you want all the normies around. There's a site that already exists that meets your desires. I still use it for niche content, but there has been an undeniable increase in toxicity on Reddit as the user count has increased.

[–] slackassassin@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Typical down vote and smarmy useless comments. Feels like you want to go back home.

[–] slackassassin@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Using normie unironicaly, you never left home.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Your grandstanding is cringe. This is a forum, not a political movement. If you want normie content then go back to Reddit. When I want normie content I'll use TikTok.

[–] slackassassin@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are very wise, unique, and superior.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nope, I just don't want the place overrun by people who are mostly just around to flame and insult.

Pick up moderating a few large subreddits and you'll see what I mean. Even on a small sub like /r/Infiniti, I've seen a massive increase in people just being pricks, especially after a cross post. Smaller user base makes it less likely.

Like I said in another post, I don't like using the word normie because it's not actually descriptive of the behavior I'm talking about, but it's the word the thread is using.

[–] slackassassin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Be the change you want to see, I guess.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Also a weirdly large amount of "death to America" and whatnot.

[–] phr0g@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Don't forget rabid antisemitism and Hamas-shilling.

[–] schnapsman@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

I found the American

[–] Gerudo@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] CoderKat@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Lol, yesterday it felt like there was at least half a dozen posts about Firefox, mostly claiming that YouTube was slowing them down. Which seemed really bad at first, till I dug into it and saw it was probably an unintended bug with ad handling.

And why were there so many posts? Who wants to see the same post more than once?

[–] ALostInquirer@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

While I don't entirely disagree, I'm a little confused by your description of the front page of lemm.ee, which we're both on. My front page when viewing All here is mostly memes/shitposts/news/technology when set to Active sort, is yours not?

I've admittedly blocked a fair amount and have show NSFW/bot posts disabled, but the communities you mention aren't affected by that.

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah I could've been more clear. I mean the All feed not Local. I went and updated my comment. And to be fully clear, I've got no complaints about lemm.ee. It's exactly what I want, e.g. show me everything and I'll decide what to block. That said, I know I'm not the norm.

Saying you blocked a fair amount is exactly what I'm talking about, so have I. A little bit of effort can really make the feed more palletable. We need to have a place where that is done by default. Maybe even an open source AI or even just an algorithm that tailors it to the user. I'm already glad Lemmy.world is much more moderate than lemm.ee, and we just need a place that goes all the way; NSFW blocked by default, several communities blocked-by-default (not defederated), and somehow prevents All from being flooded by niche memes. I love Linux and the memes (even if they get a bit repetitive) but we shouldn't have 3 of the top 10 posts be linux memes.

I tried to get my lab mate, a PhD in computer science and Linux Mint user, to get a Lemmy. He took one look at the all page, laughed, pointed out the circle jerk stuff and asked how some junk posts even made it to the all page and then said "yeah, no thanks" and has never touched Lemmy since. He was already 4 times more likely than the average person, but even he was instantly turned off.

[–] ALostInquirer@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I gotcha. Fwiw I kind of agree, even beyond Lemmy I've been a little surprised some of these sites/instances haven't done more to tailor themselves to accommodate more folks or focus on specific demographics.

That's supposed to be one of the big perks of the federation approach, being able to create more distinct communities, but outside of a few, they largely seem to run the software as-is, maybe with some backend adjustments to help reduce the costs of operation or the like.

[–] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, and maybe that means I should try making such an instance. I don't have the funds for something like lemmy.world, but I've got the technical background. So maybe that'll turn into my winter break project

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee -2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

We need a normie.world

It's called reddit and that's why I left. Fuck the normies. They'll import fascism.

That sounds unnecessarily combative so let me expand my argument.

There's a book called The Authoritarians by a man called Bob Altermyer. Altermyer is now retired but he was a professor of psychology at the University of Manitoba. During his career he did a lot of research into authoritarians, both followers and leaders. In the book he describes for laypeople the experiments and the findings. If you want to do a deep dive into his statistical analysis you can because the whole thing is fully referenced but for people who just want an easy to read description that is also easy to understand then this is the book for you.

After reading the book redditors behaviour became a lot more easy to understand. I was less upset by what was going on but I stopped engaging because I now understood that reddit wasn't a site for me anymore. It was a site for people that enjoyed being normal and doing normal things. And that's ok, why shouldn't they be catered for?

I use reddit and lemmy exclusively on desktop or laptop. So when the app business came up I didn't regard it as my fight, however I thought that if I expected people to stand up for my interests if they are challenged I should show a bit of solidarity with them. So I didn't visit reddit at all for the days it was blacked out. I didn't like how spez reacted. I saw that people were crossing to the fediverse and I took a look for myself. I liked it. I posted. I wasn't attacked for having a non-normie viewpoint. I liked that a lot.

The thing about normies is they don't read scientific studies for fun, they don't like long winded explanations about why the world is the way it is. They think they can see something in the street and extrapolate an entire social policy from it and there are chancers that will tell them, 'You know what? You're right. We don't need experts telling you that you're wrong, what do they know?'

So your Jordan Petersons and your Nigel Farages and Alex whatever his nameis, these people and reddit's normie audience are made for each other. I'll even go as far as to say this extends to the people that think the Democrats or the Labour Party are going to fix their problems, Team Liberal aren't doing themselves any favours but my point is that if your goal is a massive website that caters to the largest part of the reddit audience you're going to end up swimming in cryptofascist and sometimes outright fascist content. Been there, seen that, got the t-shirt.

[–] IzyaKatzmann@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Interesting, I think I'll take a look. You sorta skipper over what 'normie' or reddit behaviour was mentioned in his book specifically. Was it the lack of reading scientific articles you mentioned in another paragraph, that alone can't be it right?

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Listen, just go and read the thing; it will be time better spent than listening to me precis it from memory. but if you do read it a feel like it hasn't given you an insight into what drives a whole host of behaviour that one sees on social media or that I've misunderstood the book then do come back to me and I will refresh my memory of the book to have that discussion with you.

[–] IzyaKatzmann@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that's fair enough, gotta do my own homework some of the time.

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's not lemmy, that's all social media (albite divisive topics are a bit different among different communities).

This is a hot take, but I think humanity is slowly turning it's back on social media because of it's toxic nature. You can only open a browser and get your nuts kicked so many times before you finally decide you don't like getting your nuts kicked.

[–] decisivelyhoodnoises@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

humanity is slowly turning it's back on social media

Are you living in a parallel universe or something? Are we talking for the same humanity that is 24/7 on Instagram and on tiktok?

I really wish you're right but I'm afraid that the minorities you may know who just abandoned Facebook are not representing humanity

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 1 points 1 year ago

Hmm, yeah I definitely see how I am biased there. I've been on social media since its inception, so my opinion is likely influenced mostly by people who have experienced social media for ~2 decades and are sick of it now.

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Would be nice if that's the direction being taken.

[–] doingthestuff@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

The echo chamber is as bad as reddit but less diverse and smaller. Sometimes it's really painful.

[–] nfsu2@feddit.cl 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Isn't Lemmy suposed to be FOSS? I thought that was the main reason why people left Reddit for Lemmy was that and API changes. Wouldn´t other FOSS be of interestt too? Just a thought.

[–] Thrashy@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Reddit's great strength was that it was big enough that niche communities could attract enough users to have interesting conversations and a steady flow of content, and if you are a Reddit refugee looking for those sorts of communities you aren't likely to find them on Lemmy. I've more or less made my peace with that, but if you're not the kind to stand on principle, a falling user count is bad news for the hope that the Fediverse might snowball into the sort of place that can support discussions about your passions and hobbies even if they're not the sort of thing that is popular with a specific set of tech-savvy anti-capitalist leftwing activists (and I say this with love as a fellow tech-savvy leftie... but y'all got one-track minds and it shows in what communities live and die around here).

[–] Sagifurius@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

That's fine, there's intelligent conversation here, it feels like reddit did ten years ago.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

Yeah even a pretty unpopular car brand (Infiniti) has a pretty active sub due to the install base. I think I'm the only person here who has posted about it at all on lemmy.

I wish spez hadn't ruined Reddit.

[–] whofearsthenight@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Hey don't forget about the other half of the posts, which are in a language you don't understand. Seriously, my block list is long because language settings here mean nothing, and while I'm sure that's quality content, uh, I can't understand it.

[–] Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Fuck yes.

Good days are good!

[–] toomanyjoints69@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Thats why i like this place. Arguing and discussion online is terrible and its more suited to do with friends you trust.