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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 210 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Having them pointed towards lemmy.ml is a little concerning.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 84 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I made an alternative linking to lemm.ee

because in general this is a good flyer

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 51 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

We should do a bunch of them with varying non-Tankie instances

Like programming.dev or lemmy.blahaj.zone

Or maybe even better, have a small table at the bottom with their focuses

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Yeah. join-lemmy.org unfortunately isn’t great because it often points to random semi dead instances.

Something like,

The instance you join doesn’t matter much — because you can access all content no matter what instance you are on — but it can be nice to be on an instance that shares you interests and values, because you will have to conform to the rules of that instance. Think of it like your clan — it’s like your email being yourname@yourworkplace — you can still email everyone else and see their emails, but it signals something about you, and it has different rules.

Here are a couple options:

General Purpose:

  • discuss.online (hosted US)
  • lemm.ee
  • lemmy.cafe
  • sh.itjust.works (hosted Canada)

Interests:

  • mander.xyz (Science)
  • programming.dev (Programming)
  • infosec.pub (Cybersecurity)
  • lemmynsfw.com (Porn)

Diversity:

  • lemmy.blahaj.zone (LGBTQ+)

Regions/Langauges:

  • jlai.lu (French)
  • feddit.org (German)
  • lemmy.ca (Canada)
  • aussie.zone (Australia)

Ideology:

  • lemmy.dbzer0.com (Anarchism and Piracy)
  • slrpnk.net (Environmentalist Leftists)
  • lemmy.ml (Authoritarian Leftists)

Please copypaste my comment and add instances / improve it

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I like the idea, but people have said several times that choosing an instance is a barrier for them.

I usually go with

"Lemmy has 42k monthly active users

Feel free if you have any questions"

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah I think I elaborated too much. Let’s just keep recommending small instances — because the current centralisation on world sucks.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

I’ve been thinking of switching instances.

But I think part of the problem is the domain names on so many instances are so odd. Lemmy.world is very clean and easy to tell someone verbally, as opposed to say sopudi.xvz or dbzer0 or blahaj.zone.

I suppose “discuss.online” isn’t such a bad name. And “midwest.social” but people who are not in the Midwest might not feel like they identify with that geographically.

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

I strongly have the opposite opinion. Let people start on Lemmy.World and once they have experience (like you), they can move to where they want.

They're an actual non-profit org out of the Netherlands with professional hosting.

Federation is a feature like divorce is a feature. It's extremely important that it exists and is accessible. Not everybody needs to do it. Other servers are a fine option if you know what you're doing and are willing to deal with more issues OR if there's a compelling reason (such as the various regional servers).

When federation between lemm.ee and lemmy.world is behind by an hour or two, where do you think users will have a better experience? When 90% of their content is now a couple hours older, that's a worse experience.

And spreading people out doesn't really fix anything. It just puts more stress on federation technology. If you spread out all the users, Federation becomes a much harder to manage many to many relationship between all the servers, instead of primarily being a one to many relationship.

In short, if you spread out the users equally, suddenly every instance begins to have federation issues with each other, and everyone has a worse experience. With a bigger "main" instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

The regional servers have more of a balance here. 90% of their content may be old, but the 10% they are up to date with are the things closest to them, most important to them, and maybe in their language.

I do appreciate having several general use instances. I just don't want to send newbies there who will generalize their experience to all of Lemmy and the Fediverse.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

Using a Lemmy version so dated they can't remove their uploaded media

And spreading people out doesn’t really fix anything.

Lemm.ee has 3600 monthly active users. SJW 2500. The 17000 users of LW could be spread across other instances without issues.

With a bigger “main” instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

With a bigger main instance, the mods of that instance have a tendency to power trip:

If you want the rest of the platform to trust you, be responsible. This is not Reddit, power trips will be called out.

Edit: LW can be slow for some users: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/36299751

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

lemmy.cafe, lemmy.zip, lemmy.one

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago
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[–] leraje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, why not go totally targeted? If there are people here who still have reddit accounts then tailor the graphic for the sub you post in. If its an lgbtqia+ sub, suggest Blahaj, if its a tech sub suggest programming.dev, if its a piracy or data hoarder sub db0 etc etc.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

Oh indeed, but usually it's on /r/RedditAlternatives so I have no idea what the person I'm talking to is like

Also that way my message can work for lurkers too

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think I have seen your posts on reddit before haha

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)
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[–] ChadMcTruth@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] PsychedSy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

Seriously. People need to understand they can shop around for an instance that fits them better.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 44 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

To be fair, it was apparently posted in r/anarchocommunism, so I'd just chalk it up to knowing your audience. At least it was just .ml, and not grad or hexbear!

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[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago

More than a little concerning, it's happened plenty of times before. People see that BS on the Tankie Triad and then leave thinking Lemmy is just a bunch of tankies

Sometimes they try another non-Tankie instance and realize that we're not all like that, but I'm sure a majority never return always thinking that all of Lemmy is "that Tankie hangout" or worse, a Voat 2.0

[–] DonAntonioMagino@feddit.nl 20 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I'm not very into Lemmy, what's so bad about lemmy.ml?

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 57 points 2 weeks ago

They're part of the Tankie Triad who deny the human rights violations of the CCP and hold them up as the gold standard.

Basically Authoritarian bootlickers pretending to not be authoritarians

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's controversial. It was created by the creators of Lemmy and has some techbro feelings about a lot of stuff. I'm not trying to start an .ml fight, I'm against pushing for any particular instance.

I would recommend new users to stay away from the biggest ones and steer towards one level down. You want enough communities and instances to line your front page, but the big ones are big enough. Let's spread the load.

[–] Telorand@reddthat.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I don't think you need any communities to line your front page until you get subscriptions going. I think going a level down from the biggest ones is still too big and will still lead to giant instances as they inevitably grow over time. Same with putting practically all the communities on lemmy.world or lemmy.ml.

That's concentrating a lot of people and content in a handful of places, and slightly-less-centralized is still effectively centralized. No instance admins should have that much power.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I was referencing to when I signed up for Lemmy. I really missed the front page of r/ and was looking for that. I didn't realize that the default would be so dead and also, I was on a really small instance, so the page was suuuuper dead since nothing was referenced yet. People can switch to smaller, but we don't want to overwhelm them or make it look way worse populated than it is. I get your concern, but that's why I recommend it to be mid level. You may not care if your front page is dead, but the newbies do.

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[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No matter what advice you give people, they're still basically going to do what they want. Many will prefer to join larger servers, and some will always prefer smaller ones.

Honestly I think we should worry way less about this, because Lemmy is FOSS and we have enough solid instances already. People will naturally find their way and if larger instances get power drunk, people will leave. We don't need to try to orchestrate and fine tune what instances people use. Let them do what they want, and trust that the decentralized and redundant federated structure will function as intended.

It should only come into play if large instances actually can't keep up with their userbase growth from a technological standpoint. But again that problem solves itself because they can just close sign ups.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

and if larger instances get power drunk, people will leave.

Will they though? I've seen people wanting to leave the bigger ones and don't know how to transfer all of their subs and stuff.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There are already tools for that, and it will probably get easier with time. In general, people should be encouraged to create multiple accounts on different servers from the beginning, so they already have built in options if they want to leave.

I use different sorting algorithms on my different accounts and also have different subscriptions, so the front page often looks totally different when I sign into my alts. Some of them are even federated with hexbear 🫣. I always find interesting posts that I missed by doing that.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There are already tools for that,

What tools and where can I find them?

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 weeks ago
  • Settings - Export settings
  • Settings - Import settings
[–] Telorand@reddthat.com 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's kind of my point. A lot of people have no clue how the Fediverse works, and so they see that an instance is big and maybe has the name Lemmy in it, and they think that that's going to be the one to give them the best experience.

Letting people know that they can get basically the same experience without having to go with the big ones is something I think everybody should know, since it's such a foreign concept to centralized social media. They have choice in the matter.

And if they want to stick with the big ones, because they like some aspect, then they've at least been made aware of what their options are. People should be able to make informed decisions.

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[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

It's a tankie instance. "ML" as in Marxism-Leninism.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

and in practice they are more MLM (maoism) or MLS (stalinism).

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah if they were run of the mill Marxists it'd be one thing, but it's an authoritarian mess

[–] marine_mustang@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

And here I was thinking it was just a cheap ccTLD to use.

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[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

We read and comprehend the Communist Manifesto with some level of agreement and usually quite a bit more. But it's mostly privacy focused. Full disclosure: vegan anarchist.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

It's mostly Tankie focused, Tiananmen square massacre happened, and the CCP and Russia are Authoritarian dictatorships

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don’t understand how you could possibly think this. Literally any discussion of China, even non-political that does not conform to the admins beliefs results in an immediate instance-wide ban. It is one of the most censored spaces on the internet and absolutely not safe for anarchist ideas.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 weeks ago

My account is 3 years old and have talked about anarchist ideas with them in the past and haven't been banned. Don't know what to tell you hoss

[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Capitalism destroyed our government, captured our constitution, and is literally ending the world (for humans, don't worry it'll be fine in a few million years and it'll be like we never existed, thank goodness for that).

I find comedy in people likely here due to the greed rot of Spez wanting to go public and now fondling billionaire balls still, here on Lemmy like digital refugees in the wake of capitalism breaking promises to and destroying a community to increase private profit, going "ewww commies and socialists."

Credit where it's due, the capitalist's Orwell game is God tier.

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

.ml would be worse than Reddit if they had the same number of users.

[–] Sakychu@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No, we are going "ewww tankies"

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[–] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago

Whatever, infighting gets us nowhere , down with the big bad

[–] Trebuchet@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Who cares, just get them onboarded and we can deal with orientation later

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Because they'll onboard see the Tankie bullshit and go "oh it's just Voat 2.0 :/" and leave before ever making it to orientation

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