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I didn't mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(

I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. "Everything's lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time") type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I've heard from women irl a lot.

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[–] starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Tl;dr. (jk)

I guess it's like, I know this post wasn't aimed at me but even still reading the words "men love to murder" I'm like "hey what? What did I do??"

I didn't comment on it because it doesn't bother me that much, but you're asking why people who are upset and angry make the conversation about them... I think there's your answer. They probably don't even fully understand why they're angry and just wrote what sounded good to them. I'd wager the majority of guys on lemmy are not neurotypical and already experience people treating them poorly, or thought they were scary because they're weird, and now they're being grouped with dangerous people. I know that's not what the post meant, but again it's the overweight person being sensitive, they're not choosing to get upset over it that's just how they reacted.

semi-related, there is a psychiatrist who made a youtube channel called healthygamergg where he would talk about psychology topics and set up coaching for people to improve their lives. I'm in to psychology so I watched quite a few of his videos, but to the point his community had said "you need to address how women are treated in gaming." (obviously terribly)

So he made a video talking about how women had it hard and that you can't exist as a woman in a game without being heckled. 100% on board. Then he said "like, women have it so much harder, you guys are living on easy mode." and I haven't watched a video of his since if was so hurtful. I know that's not what he meant, I know he just meant women have a lot of unique struggles men don't have etc, but to hear the stuff me and my friends went through being called easy mode was... really hurtful. Point being sometimes people have sore spots, and even if they should read it one way, I can't blame them for reading it another.