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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 24 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sex Type Thing by Stone Temple Pilots. Great music, love STP, but it's basically about raping someone.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 57 points 2 weeks ago

Scott Weiland was compelled to write the lyrics after an incident in which a girl he was dating was raped by three high school football players after a party. Thus, Weiland has stated the song is an anti-rape statement, not a song simply about sex, saying: "This song is really not about sex at all. It’s about control, violence and abuse of power."

Weiland found himself in the position of defending "Sex Type Thing" to individuals who took the first-person approach he used in the song ("I am a man, a man/I'll give ya something that ya won't forget/I said ya shouldn't have worn that dress") literally. "It was, 'All right, the "Cop Killer" controversy's dead, let's try to find something else,' " says Weiland, who has been outspoken in the press about women's rights and contends that he wrote the song in the mind-set of what he has called "the typical American macho jerk" because he didn't want to sound peachy. "I never thought that people would ever seriously think that I was an advocate of date rape."

[–] cranakis@reddthat.com 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I got that back when it came out and always wondered why folks treated it like alternative pop. It's seems like a dark mirror on rape to me.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

That is what it was.

It was criticizing something from the first person perspective like Nirvana'a Polly, or The Police's Every Breath You Take.