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AKA please, don't tell me "get professional help". Poor people can't afford it anyways.

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[–] Susaga@sh.itjust.works 10 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

You post stuff like this a lot. You keep talking about being lonely, or about being sad, or things in that same spiral. You clearly know what the answer is, but you refuse to listen to it or accept it, but you STILL ask the question. At a certain point, I have to wonder if you LIKE being miserable.

As harsh as it is to say, I think you need to get over yourself.

Get help. If you can't afford a pro, get an amateur to talk to. There are low-cost helplines and support groups around the world. Don't just come up with a reason why you can't do it. You can. All that remains is whether or not you will.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Incorrect and no, your solutions are not available for me.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 3 points 14 hours ago

Why not?

Also, I’m willing to talk to you so long as you promise not to dox me.