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I loathe: "With that said...".
This is almost always meaningless words thrown in to make the listener(s) think you're more intelligent. I always think the opposite.
I use it to mean and all these arguments lead me to the following conclusion.
But yeah, I read a lot and was trained as a kid to be a walking factoid dispensor so I can seem pretentious.
Isn't it generally used to mean the opposite of that? "Despite what I just said, I hold or will present the following apparently contrary position," more or less. Like if you spent a couple of paragraphs talking about the excellent cinematography of a film and then followed it with "That said, I didn't actually enjoy it. I found the protagonist insufferable."
I can see it used that way. Yes, but then I'd think there'd be an obligation to explain why the proceeding arguments trump the previous ones if it's not obvious. With that said is certainly a bridge from one part of an argument to the next.