i'm with you comrade 
whatnots
joined 2 years ago
finding myself already wanting to bow out of this thread too tbh. big salute to those in the combatting fatphobia posting mines, all your time and energy is really appreciated 
yeah anytime fatness is brought up here i feel like i have to brace myself and i've been purposely avoiding that recent thread because i knew it would devolve into fatphobia. it's genuinely so demoralizing to see on hexbear.
thank you for calling it out cause i was much to anxious to and i'm really hoping people do self-crit about this.
anyways i love my fat queer body ok! 
can't have a post talking about fatphobia without someone talking about unhealthy food.
can't have a post talking about fatphobia without someone wanting to concern troll about the "obesity epidemic".
can't have a post talking about fatphobia without someone wanting to promote losing weight.
can't have a post talking about fatphobia without someone wanting to position their experiences with weight and weight loss as universal.
y'all literally can't help yourselves!!! come to terms with how your implicit fatphobia is harmful and learn and grow from it!!!!! listen to the effort posting from people with marginalized bodies and look into to the sources they are kindly giving you!!!