Geez no wonder you're in a bit of a funk. It's terrible having to moderate friends in general, and that's a messy situation that will only lead to misunderstanding when done over text. Hope you take some time for you and check in with yourself.
jellyfish
joined 1 year ago
Agreed. First playthrough should 100% be vanilla. I do mod a few things on subsequent playthroughs though. Personally I like to give myself infinite paragon/renegade (through a save editor), because I like being able pick a renegade option when I think my Shepard would do that, without having to worry about maxing my paragon for important choices. I also prefer playing biotic classes because they're more fun, but want a sniper rifle, so I mess with the save to give sniper rifle competency to my class in ME1. Finally I'm trying the happy ending mod this playthrough to see if I like it.
Femshep is the best way to play, the voice acting is so good!
Mass effect is one of my favorite series ever! I've played through the trilogy at least half a dozen times now. It's my cozy game I always have a playthrough going in.
Mass effect 1 was incredible for its time, and still pretty good today. The biggest mistake I see people make is not talking to everyone on the ship in between missions (this is true for the whole series); if you don't you'll miss the best part of the game. Also make sure to pick an interesting class, probably something with biotics. Infiltrator and soldier are boring to play compared to sentinel or biotic.
Mass effect 2 was the game that shifted the series from an RPG to a cover shooter. The mechanics were much better, but it removed some of the fun. I remember the first time I played it I was heartbroken the citadel was so much smaller than in the first game. I'd say 2 has the best DLCs of the trilogy (Shadowbroker is unrivaled). I love the structure of 2 as well, but there's definitely a few gotchas where if you do a mission too soon it'll lock you out of finishing important side quests if you want a good ending.
Mass effect 3 is great, the mechanics are more mature than 2, the story and "omg" moments are the best in the series; and (especially with the DLCs) it really fleshes out the backstory of the galaxy and races in a way the first two games didn't. I do wish the team on the ship was a bit bigger, but the citadel dlc is definitely a close second best in the series; and makes up for it imo.
As for the ending of 3 (mild mood spoilers):
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I like my games to have a happily ever after ending, and that there really isn't one kinda bums me out. I get why the writers did it, and I don't fault them for it; but I'm looking forward to my current playthrough using the happy ending mod for a non cannon ending that won't leave me kinda sad after finishing the game haha
So all in all, I think the trilogy is incredible, and everyone should try it. That said you've gotta go in with an idea of how to play it (this is true for all the games, but especially 1), because the games will let you miss a lot of stuff (like crew interactions, important side missions that affect the ending of the game and encounters in later games, etc.). It's definitely a trilogy that's better the second time through bc of it, or just find a good non spoiler guide/video for tips.
Except whenever I see a non scientist challenge science, it's never with any rigor or substance. They'll literally be measuring angles off of an example figure posted in a news article as their argument. If you want to help push science forward, you can't just play gotcha on social media; you actually need to be able to do the math, and show your work.