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[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 8 points 18 hours ago
[–] MITM0@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Definitely warhammer. Can't stand those punks. Have you noticed a lot of warhammer lore reaction videos

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 5 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Related but a lot of smaller LARP clubs (European style at least, can't speak for America) end up extremely culty because of a perfect storm of factors:

  • takes up loads of time and resources just to be average; making costumes, learning stats, downtime activities etc before you've even left the house

  • predominantly twenty-somethings who recently moved out of their parents' house and end up house-sharing with other LARPers from the same club

  • the RPG + Am Dram elements mean that it takes years to be able to access a lot of the game, whether it be types of spellcasting or a character in a position of power. This means that if you want to quit your club for another one, you're losing years of progression in a way that doesn't happen with sports or most arts-based hobbies.

  • spending whole weekends in the middle of the woods with no outside influence, where you have to follow instructions given by refs. It's also not unusual to be up until sunrise or even do all-nighters playing through the next day as well

  • success or failure at the game is often at the whims of said refs, MUCH more than in Warhammer

  • ...as a result of which, the club management hierarchy ends up translating into social hierarchy outside of official events. The people at the top are the ones that effectively determine whether a party, day trip or even a wedding is going to be a big event or not, and the regular membership treats them accordingly. So, culty as heck.

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[–] ShawiniganHandshake@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 day ago (6 children)

There are two kinds of people who own a pressure canner - people who enjoy making preserves and fucking crazy people.

[–] gens@programming.dev 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Me, looking into pressure canning to preserve soup

I'm in danger!!

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[–] callouscomic@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Warhammer. The tabletop one with the figures, not the video games.

Vacations/travel for some people. Its clearly something where they have zero clue about their privilege and zero self awareness as they talk about it.

Parenting. Seriously, it becomes some people's only fucking identity and the way they talk about it feels like religious proselytizing mixed with a bit of used car salesperson energy.

Comic conventions. Some people make it uncomfortable how seriously they take it.

Wasting some time on Lemmy trying to leave shitty comments just looking to rile people up or something.

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I think you need to specify what you mean by cult. The way I personally understand it, a cult includes a leader who exploits their members for free labor, oftentimes for sexual gratification, and removes them from their friends and families while subjecting them to psychological manipulation. I'm having a hard time thinking of a hobby that meets the criteria I'm more familiar with.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 5 points 16 hours ago

This. There are defined criteria as to what a real cult is, and once you have any familiarity with that, you realize that 99% of what people call "cultlike" is really just culture.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (8 children)
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