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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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I've been off reddit for years before Lemmy. I do have an Instagram account, logged into the app on an otherwise empty Android VM, which means I'm not fully hardcore. Need that because people are way cagey about giving out their phone number, but everyone wants you to write them on insta. Could just ignore that, but I like meeting people.

Nothing non-federated apart from that, though.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 3 weeks ago

I use Lemmy 99.999% of the time. I asked a plumbing question on Reddit, some radio questions a few months back, and that's really all I can remember. I don't browse it. I don't avoid it if search results go there though. But I don't seek it out often at all.

[–] Nangijala@feddit.dk 4 points 4 weeks ago

I left social media earlier this year. Lemmy is my transition platform. I hope to eventually drop off the internet entirely except for job and practical related things.

[–] halyihev@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

Yeah, Lemmy and Mastodon only for me too.

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 4 points 4 weeks ago

I just deleted my Reddit account, it's no good to me since they banned my account for "Abusing the report button" and wouldn't unban it no matter how many appeals I sent in. Part of me thought, maybe they'd unban it some day, but... naw... better to just walk away

I hope it goes the way of YTMND and becomes a distant memory. Although with YTMND my memories are at least pleasant.

I just hope someday the "Niche Interest" sublemmies become more active

[–] Machinist@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

BBS -> Slashdot -> Reddit -> Lemmy -> ???

They all have their time. I'll see some of y'all on whatever is next. It branches, I didn't do digg.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 weeks ago

I only use Lemmy. Not because I’m hardcore about the fediverse or anything, but because I wanted to start moving off all major social media. Now I rarely engage with any social media and I think it’s done wonders for my mental health.

[–] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Besides two niche subreddits, I stopped using reddit. So it's 90% Lemmy. I don't use much else for social media except Something Awful and a heavily manually censored Discover tab on Bluesky because I'm sick of seeing Amercians crying and their politics. I wish we could region block entire countries on our personal social media accounts.

Anyways, the focus is reddit. I don't really miss it because I could see the rot with bots, alts, power mods, site leadership, vote manipulation, etc etc.

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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

I only use Lemmy. Fuck Reddit. And this is from someone who spent over a decade using Reddit religiously. I dropped them during the whole API scandal. I had been growing more and now dissatisfied with Reddit and that was the last straw.

The only mainstream social media program I use is Facebook, and I don't really use it anymore. I only keep my profile because I've met people from all over the world who I stay in touch with through Facebook. Plus all my childhood friends and family members are there. But Facebook (and Meta as a whole) is garbage and I have a bunch of tools to prevent them from feeding me garbage content and recording my data while I'm trying to keep up with my friends and family there.

I have a Bluesky account, which I don't know what to do with. Twitter always felt like social media for celebrities; there wasn't much going on there for us normal people. I created a Bluesky account just to get away from Twitter, but I don't have much to post and none of it gets attention from anyone, so I just feel like I'm talking to myself. I don't have anyone really interesting to follow there either.

I also use Discord to stay in touch with my closest friends, on a personal server I built. That's pretty much it. I don't trust any other social media programs. So Lemmy is my main source of news and content.

[–] Poojabber@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago
[–] grumpo_potamus@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for the reminder to go delete my old comments and posts. Reddit is dead to me. I stopped using it two years ago. I'll occasionally go there if there's a legit looking search result for what I'm looking for, but I don't bother logging in or interacting with the platform. Reddit is blocked by my work, which is typically what I'm searching for from there so it's useless anyways.

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I think my Reddit account still exists, but I haven't logged in since 3rd party apps stopped working. It took me a bit to find Lemmy, and I'm still not on it was frequently as I was on Reddit.

I deleted my Twitter account when they announced they would be training grok on my tweets. I hadn't logged into it since Elmu mass-banned a bunch of journalists for retweeting the "Elon's Jet" account. I decided Mastodon was more likely to not get between me and the journalists I wanted to see microblogs from.

I'm not hardcore. I an still well-entrenched in the Google ecosystem (primarily YT). I still have a Facebook account, and occasionally login to un-tag myself. I use Amazon Pay / Paypal whenever I can, tho I at least stopped paying for Prime when they decided to start putting ads in Prime Video stuff.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

did you know reddit started shadowbanning new accounts, and old inactive accounts that suddenly started posting. it was a recent thing, it wouldve happened to people who dint use thier old inactive accounts eventually. also reddit have been extremely oppressive with thier filters, and sub filters too.

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[–] ExperimentalGuy@programming.dev 4 points 4 weeks ago

Lemmy, NPR, and AP are the only things I read now.

[–] Xistinas@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Joined when Boost for reddit stopped working for me a couple of months ago. Now I check the new here and open reddit when I'm just doom scrolling.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

I only visit for my niche subs, and even then it's maybe once or twice a month at most. I just check the top posts for the month, and then leave. In and out. 20 minute adventure.

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

I used both for a while there... But ehn, haven't touched my Reddit account in 3 years.

Too many nazis, and besides, Reddit's main appeal (mentioned in the thread: Reddit has a more diverse demographic as compared to only nerds here on Lemmy) doesn't really call to me because I'm Lemmy's demographic to a T, a Linux-loving left-wing queer nerd.

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[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

I don't use social media at all.

As far as Reddit/Lemmy, I only use Lemmy.

I did have a reddit account at one point but it only had a handful of posts, mostly gratitude for solutions to problems I was searching about, with reddit being the top return with the correct answer... Got banned for some reason though, so even if I had interest in using reddit (which I dont),I cant anymore, lol.

[–] conicalscientist@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I only use reddit anymore for the meta. It's like a zoo. Its users are scarcely self-aware. I know this is conceited but whatever.

I think lemmy being a reddit clone is rather ill-fated but at least for now people generally still post like real human beings. There's something strange about how dialog is basically an algorithm. Reddit is reached some sort of maximum where nothing you can possibly say will deviate the flow of comment sections from the pre-defined talking points. It's like they're all stuck in neurotic thought cycles.

There's a video with Trevor Noah and John Stewart where they talk about how social media is a performance. It's not a "town square" or whatever. It's not really honest in good faith dialog.

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[–] CurlyWurlies4All@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] Coolkat@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 weeks ago

Lemmy only. Actually, I just can't stand the corpoverse, it's litterally painful for me to browse. The only exception so far is instagram because it's dopamine gold and you can discover a lot of things, but this is less and less true. And with voyager integrating pixelfed in upcoming updates... well i'll just migrate

[–] Caitlyynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

Only decentralized open source social media for me

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I only use reddit sometimes when I am searching something on google (i am just adding 'reddit' after keywords). The bonus is that I don't get AI answers when I do this.

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I still have Facebook because of real life friends but otherwise I am on the fediverse and Bluesky only. I even use Maven. I have never gotten into Snapchat or Tiktok at all, and I dumped Instagram and Twitter a while back.

I would love to not be on Facebook but sometimes if someone commits a really trashy crime in the news and I look them up and their page is full of crazy it's pretty delicious. Like a Southern Gothic novel.

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[–] Bwaz@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago
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[–] atlien51@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I’d love to but how tf do we get more users here?? HOW

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[–] Chivera@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

I quit Reddit long ago. It was my go to for everything. I also don't have any social media at all. Only communicate with family through texts and calls.

[–] Macaroni_ninja@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

Fedivese only 2 years on (Lemmy + Mastodon) Left reddit when the whole API bullshit started.

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Still on Reddit. I’d be here full time but the content is severely lacking.

[–] sanderium@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 weeks ago

Deleted:

  • facebook
  • twitter
  • reddit
  • soundcloud
  • spotify
  • instagram
  • snapchat

I've been changing to free alternatives and switching to Linux just turbocharged the process.

[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

I only use Lemmy.

The main reason is that Redditt banned me for saying that if you have the chance, you should always punch a nazi.

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[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I got banned from reddit for saying I should be allowed to punch nazis and my appeal was declined in minutes. This has led me to the conclusion that Reddit is pro nazi and ban evasion is a lot of work.

I do still peep at it because ngl Lemmy doesn't have that endless stream of content going.

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[–] jawa22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Not using mainstream social media isn't "hard core" - it is being sensible and actually giving a shit.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 4 points 4 weeks ago

Almost, because my niche gaming hobby has no Lemmy community.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 weeks ago

I'm on lemmy. I'm an artist so I also have an account on Pixelfed.art because it has a portfolio view I can show people.

Otherwise I am a non-participant in social media.

[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 weeks ago

Lemmy is the only social media i have.

And i guess discord but that's just for my weekly d&d group and nothing else

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