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Everything just seems so out of control. The US seems to be tearing itself apart. The world is on fire. We seem to be going backwards when it comes to freedom and human rights. We've turned our backs on each other. How do you cope with all this without just giving up?

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[–] TheInsane42@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

As EU citizen I tend to:

  • Read the news from several newspapers and the independed public broadcasting/news service. (Get multiple views and explanations)
  • Hope that US isn't dumb enough to let a criminal become president again.
  • Hope that the world won't explode before I die.
  • Hope that the country won't flood before I die. (House is 4m below current see level)
  • Try to help the best I can with my knowledge.
  • Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
[–] HenriVolney@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago

Never look, read or listen to the news in the morning. This has brought much calm to my days.

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I learn why and how it has happened before

If you prefer audio

You are nearly powerless as an individual yes, but you still have some influence on the world around you. Using it alone at your own whims maybe you can affect the people closest to you and make their lives better but as a collective you can expand that sphere of influence to a vast extent, even globally.

Western society is designed to isolate you, it's a sprawling expanse of concrete with no where for you to go that doesn't cost money. We primarily live in single family homes and that is often legally required due to our districting. we wake up, we go to work surrounded by people we often don't actually connect with because deep down we still know they are our competition, maybe we go out and spend time with what friends we might have retained this far if it's a weekend and we aren't too exhausted, maybe we stay inside and busy ourselves with some hobby or mindlessly consume some media, then we do it again. Over and over and over and over.

How are you meant to organize if you barely even know anyone outside a small friend group? If you don't have a car? If you're exhausted from rediculous work hours and broke from shitty pay? You certainly won't organize if you're pumped full of the most dopamine rich meaningless slop corporate can come up with. Not if there is no sense of community where you live because existing outside cost money and everyone is so far away you don't even know who your neighbors are.

But you do it anyway. Because the struggle is not meaningless, because you wouldn't want them to look the other way when you're left to rot, because you want change.

It's normal to feel overwhelmed by the horrors of the world when you have no one to lean on and you don't have any idea of how you might help. You are meant to feel that way because the more powerless you feel the easier you are to exploit

[–] MarioSpeedWagon@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

I just try to pay bills man

[–] OutrageousUmpire@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Focus my attention on things I enjoy. Lemmy. Nintendo. Sports.

I can’t control what’s going on “out there”. When I fixate on it I become a mess.

Also, trying to build a backup plan to move out of U.S. to Canada.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago

Dark humor on lemmy and 10 hours of video games a day

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone -3 points 10 months ago

Live in Australia, its great

[–] Gennadios@lemmy.world -4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I got Sync for Lemmy because Sync for reddit used to be great and I refuse to create a reddit account. I'm mostly here for porn.

If you're not here for porn, you probably haven't come to terms with how inconsequential you are. Once you come to that realization you start doing doing things for yourself and things get better.

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