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[–] qnvx@lemmy.world 2 points 36 minutes ago

US defaultism, eurocentrism, assuming everyone is male. But I think they are already here.

[–] chronotron@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

complaining about a hivemind

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

I could do without all the fascism.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Dubious and disagree downvotes. But that's always been here already. That became pretty clear to me pretty fast.

[–] riodoro1@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

disagree downvotes

What do you expect people use downvotes for then?

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 1 points 8 minutes ago* (last edited 1 minute ago)

Content curation.

I upvote or leave neutral opinions and arguments I disagree with if they're well argued or otherwise contribute to discussion and strengthen respectful discourse.

I don't know how you feel when your posts get sum-negative scores, but it makes me feel rejected and makes me not want to participate. I receive it as a social indicator. I see it as something that leads us towards echo chambers.

[–] blarth@thelemmy.club 5 points 8 hours ago

Suppression of discussion through mega/weekly/monthly threads.

Post requirements that result in posting anything nearly impossible.

Fucking stupid rules for mods to abuse with their dork ass internet powarz.

Clear corporate astroturfing.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

The constant chasing of low hanging fruit. Doesn’t matter if it’s seeking the upvotes for a cheap quip on a serious subject or reposting the same old shit trying to get upvotes.

Reposts. We don’t need a constant churn of popularity seekers.

The hive mind. Really bad in big subs on reddit. Probably inevitable in any large online group, but reddit can be unreasonably bad.

Bots.

[–] roserose56@lemmy.ca 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Random persons(bots) writing their story of their life in comments. Karma farming, which leads to nothing but trying to show off or push propaganda.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

I've noticed a lack of "thathappened" type of stories. Either people here value their privacy or don't feel the need to lie to farm nonexistent karma.

[–] TrojanRoomCoffeePot@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Mod impunity, brigading, bots, reposts, repost bots, banning of 3rd-party apps, abuse of suicide prevention system by bad actors. Aside from the forum-specific culture, the site's frequent failure to upload/post comments, which sometimes resulted in 100% loss of more detailed responses, was incredibly disappointing (I'm still Ctr-C'ing all comments everywhere as a force of habit to guarantee it won't happen 5+ times/day).

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 12 points 12 hours ago

“My dad spent 10 years molesting me, my mom said to invite him to my wedding, AITA for saying no?”

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago
[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 12 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Just one. JUST. ONE.

Communities almost wholly moderated by an automod bot, that is extremely strict about nonsense, and where 99% of posts are strictly forbidden.

"ALL QUESTIONS SHOULD BE IN THE MEGATHREAD!!!!!!!!1111111111one" and then you peep the megathread, it's months-full of unanswered questions because no actual community member READS the fucking megathread, and then the excuse is "BECAUZ WE WANT QUALITY CONTENT!!!!!!" and you check the sub itself and the "quality content" is one post every 3 months by the powermod that has the power to override the bot.

This was the most annoying thing about Reddit and made getting conversations going nearly impossible. PLEASE do not bring that over.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 15 hours ago

I found one subreddit that had no active mods, and a bot that admittedly did a pretty good job, but the subreddit was totally dead as a result.

[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

Karma and comment requirements to participate in communities. Plus how hard it is for your submission to actually be approved.

This one is inevitable but people going through your whole comment history when arguing with you.

[–] dadjokesfordays@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 hours ago

Outrageous and inflammatory comments just to karma farm if that's even a thing here.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Any kind of automated moderation. If you can't do the job you volunteered to do, don't volunteer. If you need more hands and eyes, recruit more mods.

[–] NeedyPlatter@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 day ago

Those god awful ads that disguise themselves as posts.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 19 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Anti-emoji.

I'm not gonna bomb the place with them, but, occasionally if it fits, I'm throwing it in.

Cheers! 🍻

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

There's a lot of emoji haters here

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I installed a blocker in firefox.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

You've got 3 emojis in your name.... I think you might use them more than most by a decent margin haha.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Do they show on my comments? I only see them on my profile page.

[–] DrainKikoLake@lemmy.ca 1 points 14 minutes ago

I don't see them with boost.

[–] towerful@programming.dev 2 points 1 hour ago

On jerboa, I see 😈 MedicPig 🐷 BabySaver 😈 as your name on all comments

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[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

“Leopard-face” replies masquerading as a substantive comment that adds something to the discussion.

It’s really no better than: “This”

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