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Please don't think I'm here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is 'eeeh' before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I've been pavloved bc it's always used by someone disagreeing. But I'm happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the 'eeeh' or 'erm' that annoys me.

So what's a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying "eeeh actually 'eeh' is a perfectly fine term" would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I've said all this.

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[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 3 points 47 minutes ago

Not specifically a word, but i hate when people mix english with their native language

Its especially worse when they use words that are nearly identical

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 1 points 19 minutes ago

Every stupid phrase that redditors compulsively say on every thread.

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 2 points 53 minutes ago

I recently heard someone say after they almost accidentally went in a wrong building entrance, "Good thing I didn't do that or I would regret my life choices."

A bit much for something minor that created no more than two seconds of awkwardness.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

“Beloved” in so many articles. Yes I tend to use a specific browser. No, it is not and never will be “beloved”.

That word is so jarring most of the time and seems to be everywhere online in the last two years. I can only assume it’s some sort of SEO, trying to convince Google it’s a personal article or something. I hope to god it’s not ai assuming that’s what attracts our attention

[–] FriendBesto@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

"It is what it is."

It is lazy, circular, a cop out and means next to nothing. Vague enough to pass as a wise quip, to some. It is not.

Also not so much a saying per sé, but people who use quotes of famous people at the bottom or ends of emails. As if that implies a personality. If you are going to use something you think sounds smart, at least try to come up with that something yourself.

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

This one is mine too. It's used in a way that can give it more meaning (mainly, this is something out of our control), but logically the phrase is just corpo filler-speak that means absolutely nothing.

[–] akkajdh999@programming.dev 3 points 2 hours ago
[–] miracleorange@beehaw.org 5 points 4 hours ago

Kiddos, especially when used by people in professions that work with kids. Right up there with people who unironically say pupper or doggo. Just say kids.

[–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 7 hours ago (4 children)

Enshittification. Everyone just learned a new word and has to use it at least once in every comment section to feel smart.

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 1 points 59 minutes ago

Marxists have a hundred years of text dedicated to alienation from labor, the falling rate of profit, degeneration of art and creative disciplines under later capitalism due to the profit motive, cycles of class struggle, all based on a materialist analysis of changing production and class relationsi

But for some reason a trendy term like enshittification that vaguely means things are getting worse, without going into the basis about why they're currently getting worse, has caught on.

I'm convinced it's part of the tech grifter trend to take things that were already invented, slap a new name on it, repackage it, and sell it.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

But yet it explains so much about the modern world. All this time we’ve been abused and mistreated, had our data collected and income extracted in so many scammy ways ….. and now we have a word that fits it so perfectly

[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It's the enshittification of internet discussion

[–] vext01@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 hours ago

Literally could care less.

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Okay but if we use "Late stage capitalism and the quest for profit above all else is causing the quality of goods and commodities to drop while their value stays the same or goes up," it's going to result in 20 minutes trying to explain things correctly followed by 20 hours of anti-communist arguments.

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 1 points 57 minutes ago

That will at least explain why things are getting worse tho. The term enshittification is just nostalgic idealization with no real theory behind it.

[–] TotalFat@lemmy.world 13 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

'Should of" instead of "should've"

[–] LowtierComputer@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

Oh God that's got to be the worst one.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

The exception that proves the rule.

People use it in a way where counterexample proofs that the rule exist when it's supposed to mean that the rule also handles exceptional cases.

[–] 418_im_a_teapot@sh.itjust.works 8 points 9 hours ago (4 children)
[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 1 points 1 hour ago

Oh yeah absolutely. I'm a programmer and I see so many companies and recruiters etc use Cyber instead of Cybersecurity. It drives me absolutely mad, but these type of people drive me mad anyways. It's probably the same crowd who ruined AI by overhyping it into its grave, the same crowd who were hyped by web 3.0 and the whole Blockchain craze, and probably all those other dumb crazes before it.

Still, this cyber thing seems to permeate everything, and I've heard people using the term who I otherwise respect. For me it's a quick way to instantly become very sceptical of whatever follows the term

[–] vext01@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 hours ago

I thought you'd never ask!

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[–] TotalFat@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

Pronouncing realtor like "real-uhh-torrrrr"

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 6 points 8 hours ago

The replacement of the term “conspiracy theory” with just “conspiracy”.

That’s two different things. If we equate the two semantically we can’t discuss them.

[–] dirtbiker509@lemm.ee 8 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Please do the needful.

This one really grinds my gears! I think it's because the person can't even be bothered to describe what they want you to do, just go fix it and don't bother me with any details.

[–] Brahvim@lemmy.kde.social 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Indian here. Redditors say that Indians say this a lot. I'd like to tell you that while Indians do use this sentence, it's almost always placed only after a long, somewhat-gone-off-tangent-in-some-places conversation that explained everything well.

Maaaaaaybe it was to convince you without describing tasks, but... mostly, it's not so.

Also, I don't remember hearing it IRL at all. Just felt like I have heard it at least twice in my 18 years of humaning around.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 1 points 2 hours ago

But why use such an awkward construction? Why not "please handle this" or "please take care of this"? Or even "please take the necessary steps to address this"? "Please do the needful" is saying Please [VERB] the [ADJECTIVE]. But the correct construction is to verb a noun. So you need a noun (e.g., "this") to act on.

And additionally, "needful" is an adjective, and rarely ever used anyway. For example, you could probably describe a homeless person as "needful", but it sounds awkward, and most people would say "needy" or "in need."

[–] SinAdjetivos@beehaw.org 1 points 6 hours ago

The history of that phrase and how it re-entered modern English is fascinating though!

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