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Share your gift ideas, because I am a bit stumped.

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[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Trust me on this.

Children under 5 get a giant Christmas card, the kind the whole office is supposed to sign. Little kids never get mail, so you'll make their Christmas. Give parents cash to get whatever the kid actually needs.

Children 5 to 10 get a GI Joe or a Barbie. Doesn't matter if the kid likes that toy, what matters is that they can trade it in the school yard. It's like sending someone in jail a carton of Newports.

Ages 10 to 20 get cash.

Over 20 gets a nice bottle of booze. Even if they don't drink, they can regift it easily.

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[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 11 months ago

If you know what their interests and hobbies are at the moment, then get equipment and other stuff related to those. Books and craft supplies are often good ideas. A giftcard to a store they often visit is always nice. A nice mug is a good gift for many people, because it's useful and beautiful. For kids, you can ask them what's their favorite animal, and then get them a plushie of that animal. They'll probably love it. Getting them a trendy toy (such as a Squishmallow rn) can also be good. If you still have no idea what someone wants, then you can get them a nice card with some cash and maybe some candy.

[–] jcrabapple@infosec.pub 5 points 11 months ago

Mostly getting my wife and kids "experience" gifts this year, rather than physical things. Nobody needs or wants much, so instead I'm getting tickets to concerts, plays, musicals, comedy shows, etc.

[–] Gallardo994@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

I don't have a "family" in a common sense of understanding like parents, wife, kids and stuff, but I have a girlfriend of 7 years living together and that's pretty much it. Gonna be rather simple as we don't generally bind giving presents to certain dates, and we usually discuss specifics prior so nobody gets something one doesn't need or want.

I offered her a catalogue of some interesting jewelry and cool watch but she is kinda reluctant, "doesn't look too practical" to her. So we just agreed that she's gonna look into some new mobile phone in January whenever something interesting is out, and if she likes it (she likes doing random photography so a good phone camera is a good idea), I'm gonna buy it for her. That's why I love her - straight to the point and considers usefulness in daily routines.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 4 points 11 months ago (4 children)

They're so far away I probably won't, sadly.

[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You can order them food from a distance.

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

"Elements" by Euclid. Together with a mug printed with the graphics from the title page.

[–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

2 ceramics from anna collete hunt

[–] INHALE_VEGETABLES@aussie.zone 2 points 11 months ago

Hori Hori knife for any gardeners that you know.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

Fossil watch, they have some nice minimal deaigns

[–] eddanja@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Socks because most people like socks.

[–] Tautvydaxx@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Olive oil with trums, about 10$ for a bottle and you onley need so little to make any dish more exciting

[–] Schal330@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Colouring books! The wife, mother, and mother-in-law all find it therapeutic so they get that. Father and father-IL get booze. Brother gets a happy Xmas text as we stopped exchanging gifts years ago.

[–] danileonis@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Try with home decor, a plant or a good lamp is always a good gift.

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[–] Soulfulginger@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Dad - a planer and bacon of the month club. Mom - athletic clothes and reservations for afternoon tea. I'm also buying tickets to an escape room for all of us to do together. Trying to give fewer gifts and spend more on activities that will bring us all together

[–] CrabLord@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

This is what my wife and I do. We don't buy presents. We go do an experience together!

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