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the term "cake day" just makes me think of r*ddit. I've seen Lemon Day going around, but we probably want to avoid affiliation with lemon party.

not that we can tell anybody what to do anyway, and each instance could even have its own. anyway, it needs to be something that obviously means "anniversary" and doesn't require explanation otherwise it'll just be annoying

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[–] missingno@fedia.io 68 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Don't. There's no reason to care about the anniversary of someone creating an account on a website. "Cake day" as a concept was one the most insufferable reddit-isms, and will remain so no matter what else you call it.

I disagree. I always found it to be a bit of totally inconsequential fun.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 24 points 3 months ago

Yeah! Fuck fun!

[–] Chozo@fedia.io 16 points 3 months ago

It's just a bit of polite banter.

Don't forget, this platform really is nothing more than a feature-rich chat room. It's okay to have a little fun with it.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 8 points 3 months ago

Why do you hate people having innocent fun? Do you enjoy walking up to people who are smiling, and explaining that their reasons for doing so are dumb?

[–] KRAW@linux.community 7 points 3 months ago (5 children)

You're getting a lot of retorts in response to your comment, but I 100% agree. Sure telling people happy cake day is fun the first few times, but it inevitably just becomes stale. One of the things that made reddit not enjoyable was people parroting the same phrases all over the site.

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[–] texasspacejoey@lemmy.ca 42 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Why does it even need to be acknowledged

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 months ago

We need to celebrate the registration day of all citizens in order to turn an informal innocuous event into an emotional milestone for seemingly jovial purposes, until of course the platform decides to operate for profit, in which case one can then commodify these events by urging loyal citizens to buy party badges to share with the birthdayee, regardless of whether or not one actually knows said person. Its called being a good citizen, and I am all here for it. Yes.

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[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 39 points 3 months ago (1 children)

we need to take cake day back. fuck reddit

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[–] tilefan@lemm.ee 10 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I like the attitude but I never liked the term in the first place

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[–] AnarchoNoAdjective@lemmy.ml 34 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Happy lem-aversery would work I think

[–] tilefan@lemm.ee 23 points 3 months ago (1 children)

but I'll get that confused with the day that we celebrate the lunar excursion module from Apollo 11

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

Excuse you, sir, but you should be keeping the LEM in you hearts every day. And you call yourself an America. For shame.

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[–] SsxChaos@lemmy.ml 32 points 3 months ago (9 children)

I mean for some this is Lemmy for others this is Jarboa either way it's a rodent therefore it may as well be cheese day πŸ§€

Although this would require agreement of most members of this free world app since some people are chees intolerant

[–] JetpackJackson@feddit.org 14 points 3 months ago

I kinda like cheese day

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[–] Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works 28 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Given that Lemmy's mascot looks like a mouse (I think it's technically a lemming), an idea that came to my mind was "cheese day".

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)
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[–] cmgvd3lw@discuss.tchncs.de 26 points 3 months ago

We don't need a cake day.

[–] mo_lave@reddthat.com 23 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Cake day.

Make it as generic as possible

[–] tilefan@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago (7 children)

that's not generic, that's from Reddit as far as I can tell. "anniversary" would be generic

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 17 points 3 months ago (6 children)

it doesnt become generic unless we make it ubiquitous

mbin already has it .

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 11 points 3 months ago

Yeah it's officially built in to Lemmy's web UI too.

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 21 points 3 months ago

Cake day is nice, maybe think that reddit can't have it.

[–] TheGuyTM3@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I think the concept of "account age" is not beneficial for some people like me.

Your account get two years, three years, but then for just that "big age number" you have difficulties to delete your account and quit the platform because "all of that would be lost".

It's roughly explained but you get the idea. It contribute to addiction for some.

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[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 17 points 3 months ago

Fediversary?

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (16 children)

cake day is a colloquial term that means birthday. ~~it's not invented by or for reddit.~~ also being reminded of reddit isn't something to avoid; you can survive. it's just a website. be normal.

edit: it seems like it was probably coined for reddit, but I know it also means birthday now. even if it didn't who gives a shit, the rest of my comment stands.

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[–] charonn0@startrek.website 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Annual commemorative pastry observance

[–] tilefan@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago

I like the idea that the event is about honoring pastry, rather than measuring time

[–] AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think some variant of cake day is fun but I'm regretfully going to play devil's advocate this time (even though he really doesn't need any more advocates).

Is an account anniversary a thing we want to recognize as a part of Lemmy culture? There's quite a few people who aren't on their original Lemmy accounts anymore due to servers going offline and cultural disagreements with their original instances. When account migration becomes a thing, does your anniversary follow it? There's a higher percentage of people who make new accounts every so often for the purpose of privacy and that's a behavior I think, as a community, we want to respect even if we don't want to celebrate it - having recognized and trustworthy-ish regulars also has value. I'm not sure if Reddit-level recognition of an anniversary makes sense in the context of the culture we've already started building here.

Also, the majority of those who are on our original accounts have anniversaries within like a month of each other due to Reddit's API bullshit - and doesn't our Canvas event fall around that same time (although using that specifically as a "Fuck Reddit" event is imo not productive - I like the fact that last year's canvas had fuck u/spez everywhere and this year's didn't).

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[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The Artist Formerly Known As Cake Day or TAFKACD if you’re into the whole brevity thing.

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[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i think cake day predates reddit

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[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Why the lemon party hate >:(

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 months ago (3 children)

We call it a redditism and we fucking move on.

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[–] BlucifersVeinyAnus@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I vote for garlic bread day

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[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 months ago

Lemmiversary

It's your Beanniversary 🫘

[–] LaGG_3@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I've wished people a happy accountiversary before shrug-outta-hecks

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[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Well it doesn't help that they use the cake icon for it.

Not sure what else to propose calling it but anything else would be better.

[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

On Hexbear I’ve only ever seen it called Molotov day

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[–] Alice@beehaw.org 8 points 3 months ago

I think cake day is fine. It's because you get a little cake icon by your name, every forum does that. That said, I think the lemon party concern is kind of a stretch, lol.

Just call it what you like. People will know what you mean from context. If we need a community consensus, it'll develop naturally.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 months ago (2 children)

cake day is just one more way to discourage you from leaving.

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

You could go off activitypub and do something related to pubs. No word, just a 🍻. Or just Cheers! as the greeting for it.

[–] tilefan@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago

Lemabration day.

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