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Not like "I went to school with one" but have had an actual friendship?

I've had a couple of conversations recently where people have confidently said things about the Black community that are ridiculously incorrect. The kind of shit where you can tell they grew up in a very white community and learned about Black history as a college freshman.

Disclaimer: I am white, but I grew up in a Black neighborhood. I was one of 3 white kids in my elementary school lol, including my brother.

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[โ€“] Sylaran@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I'm black ๐Ÿ‘€ This post kinda acts like there are no black people on lemmy but we here... at least I am lol

[โ€“] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 1 points 3 months ago

Welp, that makes 2 of us!

Guess we have to start our own instance now so we can talk about [redacted]!

You know "the black community" isn't a homogenous group right?

[โ€“] NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I have had close friendships with two black people. One was originally from Usa (which probably qualified him as African American for your question), the other was originally fom Nigeria, but was a German citizen.

I live in Germany btw. where nearly everybody has white skin color.

[โ€“] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Right, I know we have a lot of international users here on lemmy, so I wanted to specify Black Americans, the descendents of slaves. For instance, one of my friends and coworkers is a very dark skinned Tunisian, but that's a very different culture than the one I was asking about.

[โ€“] NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No, I am only German, not international.

[โ€“] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

*whoosh*

oh wow, it's been like a decade since I saw someone do a "*whoosh*"

[โ€“] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Did you just praise yourself for doing a thing you hadn't seen in a long time?

[โ€“] jimmydoreisalefty@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago

Based move on their part, even if I do not agree on the 'whoosh', hahahah

[โ€“] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

We don't have African Americans here, we have black people. We don't call them African Americans because most black people in my country are not from Africa (we have a large Caribbean population) and they are not American.

[โ€“] CorrodedCranium@leminal.space 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I told a coworker this once and they went from saying African Americans to just loudly whisper the word black like it was a derogatory term.

[โ€“] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Generally speaking, Black people prefer to be called Black. I've had a few discussions over the years and Black works best because it's not some made up white guilt term (African-American), and is capitalized in the same way that a nationality would be (Italian, Filipino).

Anyone who casually refers to Black people as "African-American" would probably answer "no" to this question. But I worded it that way to exclude a horde of Europeans talking about their coworkers who emigrated from Africa. Black descendents of enslaved Africans have a unique culture, and that's who I was asking about.